Aba, we should start a new thread na, kaso interesting ang topic ni xxcheiyexx. last hirit...
Sa mga sisses natin - telekikay, sugardrop, talaga bang dapat itanong sa lalaki yun dreaded Q?
Na-curious lang ako kasi unless na kilala mo na talaga ang guy ng matagal, parang ang awkward naman magtanong. I believe kasi if the guy really likes you, he will "DEFINE" it and make it clear to you, such that bilang babae, hindi ka dapat mag alinlangan.
He's not seeing other girls din naman.
For now. But it does not say he cannot see any girls next week or next month.
about exclusivity, hindi ko naiintindihan ito. exclusive kayo pero hindi kayo? pero if you ask the guy, sasabihin naman nya na hindi kayo and yet you make out and all. way back, i was into this "exclusive" deal, and i was asked the dreaded question too. ang hirap sagutin ha! bwahahaha!
tama talaga sila...go ask the dreaded question!!!
Exclusively dating - kayo lang ang nagd-date. Before ko naging BF yung BF ko now, he asked me if we can date exclusively. Honestly, at that time, hindi ko gusto. Kasi if I do so, natatakot ako baka mahulog ang loob ko sa kanya more than he would to me. So must prefer ko dating kami, para may iba akong diversion. Pero he clearly stated sakin na mahirap magdate ng marami. We should first give each other a shot, if something develops. He finally convinced me - as admittedly, wala nga naman pinatutunguhan kung simultaneously dating ka 2-3 guys at a time, nakakalito pa minsan ang facts, etc. Tapos, superficial lang talaga ang usapan ninyo, kasi nga "dating". Pero once you are exclusive, you invest something, he also does the same thing. Pero ang kagandahan kay BF, he clearly defined the objective - we are dating exclusively with the intent na sana magblossom ang relationship namin. And if ever hindi, we have to let each other know about it.
And yes, our relationship progressed hanggang sa naging kami nanga.
^^hmm people are obsessed with labels, based on experience kase when a guy likes you, di ka makoconfuse as to what his motives (eg make you his girlfriend, or purely making out lang). he will let you know one way or another.
Yes sis simang, exactly my point. There is no room for confusion kung gusto ka talaga nya. If he leaves things hanging and dares to kiss you and make out and all, parang medyo off ata. Or torpe sya? Pero pano sya naging torpe kung kaya nga nya maka first base?
^kaya nga parang ayoko rin itanong haha. Gusto ko sya magtanong sakin kung ano na ba kami.
Problem naman hindi naman basta basta magtatanong sya kung ikaw mismo eh "nagcommit" na ng sarili mo sa kanya nang wala naman kayong malinaw na usapan.
^^ilang beses na rin kasi nangyari. Ngayon, parang nagiging routine na nga eh every time magkita kami parang expectation naming pareho we'll make out. Ayoko maging routine yun kaya gusto ko sana stop ng hindi nya mahahalata. By the way, we do it sa car lang.
Kung ayaw mo, di huwag ka pumayag. It is just that simple.
I once dated this guy, una una hindi ko sya gusto. But he looks decent naman, ka officemate. So we went out. I eventually liked him but lo and behold, wala nga syang sinasabi. So for me, masakit tanggapin na I like him more than he does. Importante ba yun? Yes, para sakin it is all that matters, especially at the onset of the relationship, if ever magiging relationship iyan.
So what do I do kapag situation ni xxcheiye, don't commit. Be ready to walk out. Ganun lang kasimple. I know you may like the guy, pero if he does not like you enough, alangan naman ma-bother ka ng ganyan lagi. And if he really really likes you, hahabulin ka nya and he will profess. Kung hindi ka nya hinabol, sorry nalang. Go on and search for your next guy.
