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lala011

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Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« on: June 14, 2014, 06:38:56 pm »
Guys, need your POVs :)

I met a guy and we've been dating for almost 3 months now. We get along really well, hobbies, interests, etc, and I really feel that we really fit! Everything is great...
The only 'problem' is our age difference.
I'm currently 22 and he is 27.
I've asked him if he's aware of it and he says that he doesn't mind at all, kasi daw baby face naman sya so I should not worry... Well actually he is, he indeed looks -2 his age.
He's super sweet and caring, and I can really feel that he is a good person and treats me well.

I know for a fact that I am now indeed falling for him, pero I am still having doubts if this 5 years difference is too much of a gap at our age?

Please help. Any inputs would be much appreciated.

MsAphrodite

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #1 on: June 14, 2014, 08:21:35 pm »
Sis, for me, totoo yung kasabihang age doesn't matter in love. Kami ng hubby ko, 9 years ang age gap and wala namang problema.  :) Go lang, sis. lalo na if sya talaga ang nag papa happy sayo. :)

mochistar

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #2 on: June 14, 2014, 08:48:57 pm »
wala naman sa age yan. di naman ganun kalaki gap samin (4 years lang) pero okay lang naman.. Kung same naman wavelength niyo sa pagiisip (haha) and kung mahal niyo naman ang isa't isa at nagkakaintindihan kayo, then why not?

sacred cow

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #3 on: June 14, 2014, 10:41:19 pm »
that should be the least of your concerns, as long as magkasundo kayo..go lang. I even believe it's better na may age gap para naiiwasan yung mga nagpapakasal kahit hindi pa ready just because malapit na mag-30 si girl tapos wala pang ipon si guy, at least sa case nyo by the time na marrying age ka, e nakapagipon na sya

Girltalker2

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #4 on: June 15, 2014, 12:33:21 am »

5 years is never a problem. Ano ba tS ang idea mo, dapat magka age kayo?  If you intend to grow old together, being 5-10 years apart (lalaki mas matanda) is ideal. Kasi once your each the age of 60-70yo, mas mabilis magmukhang matanda ang mga babae kesa sa lalaki, in general iyan.


killbill

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #5 on: June 15, 2014, 01:04:34 am »
Age doesn't matter sis. I've dated guys 5-11 years older than me pero yung iba napaka immature.

crazy_krizsa

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #6 on: June 15, 2014, 01:17:30 am »
5 year gap is nothing sis. For me i also believe age doesnt matter. I'm 4 years  older than my BF. (im on my early 30's). Wala naman kame issue, maliban lang sa titanic (movie) na di nya napanood. haha! Just go sis! 

simang

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #7 on: June 16, 2014, 07:11:31 pm »
Just enjoy the moment :) your age difference should be the least of your concerns. If you're happy then good!

argento

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #8 on: June 16, 2014, 10:58:02 pm »
TS matanda na pala sa yo ang 27.

sugardrop

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #9 on: June 21, 2014, 09:37:29 pm »
Uhm, okay. There are far more serious things you should be concerned about when dating someone. Like seriously. Just cherish what you have as it seems like he's treating you well. Who would you rather date? Someone real close to your age but you can't connect with? Or someone 5 years older than you pero super fit kayo?

chinablue

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #10 on: June 22, 2014, 01:34:18 am »
Mas okay nga yan sis eh. Mas advisable na older si guy kesa kay girl para at least, mature siya mag-isip. 5 years difference is not that much naman.Kung 10 years age gap, dun ka magworry. Chill lang sis and wag mo pigilan ang feelings mo. Go with the flow. Good luck sis!

hisana

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #11 on: June 22, 2014, 02:26:23 am »
I don't get it. Is it just because you're worried that people will judge you when they see you walking around with a slightly older guy? Believe me, no one will notice that small age gap just by looking. I was also thinking that maybe you have doubts about dating someone from "another generation" with different interests and experiences than you, but since you already said that you two get along really well, then clearly that's not the issue. Opposition from your family/friends, maybe? Just guessing.

Yeah, +5 years is not that much older, really. Maybe in high school or college, very big deal pa yang age gap na ganyan, but as you get older, you'll realize that it doesn't matter as much compared to other things you have to take into consideration when entering a relationship.

wildorchid

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #12 on: July 11, 2014, 11:27:58 am »
Depende kasi sayo yan sis. Meron naman tayo tinatawag na rational age. Kung click naman ang thinking nyong dalawa, go ka na. A 5-year gap naman is not a big deal. Lalo pa mas matagal daw magmature ang mga lalake kesa sa girls (sabi sabi) hehe

juni

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #13 on: July 31, 2014, 03:00:48 am »
From what you said e mukha namang you guys really like each other and get along very well, so I wouldn't worry about the 5-year age gap if I were you.  Sabi nga nila, age is just a number, and this applies in your case kasi magkasundo kayo, mukha namang pareho kayo ng wavelength, so yung age difference doesn't matter kasi it doesn't adversely affect the relationship naman.  Sa totoo lang e it might even be helping, since it's possible na mas mature na yung guy mag-isip and thus it makes him a better person and better partner.

summerchic

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #14 on: July 31, 2014, 10:54:50 pm »
You said it sis you get along and everything and he treats you well. Ok nga yun he's older alagaan ka niya, you'll both learn from each other. Go lang, hinde big deal 5 year age gap. Be happy.  :)

kukii

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #15 on: August 01, 2014, 10:07:16 am »
Age doesn't matter sis, parents ko nga 13 years ang age gap pero they are happily married, hanggang ngayon nagdedate sila at sweet sila never ko pa sila nakita nagaway well atleast not infront of us. Silver wedding anniversary na nga nila this october e. Kaya go lang ng go! :)

juni

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #16 on: August 15, 2014, 10:47:55 am »
Awww, ang sweet naman ng parents mo sis kukii, sana ganyan lahat ng couples, in love pa rin hanggang sa pagtanda. :)

kaiz

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #17 on: August 15, 2014, 11:07:46 am »
age doesn't matter TS. nahihiwa ka ba sa age gap nyo?

ysa.belle

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Re: Starting to fall but hesitating... help!
« Reply #18 on: August 15, 2014, 11:51:01 am »
sabi mo okay naman kayo di ba? so why are you hesitating? because of your age gap? 5 years lang naman eh.

 

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