All about BJ's

[its18851]

BJ have a different effect on my current bf, I'm not sure if I'm doing it wrong or something is wrong with him. Instead of getting a hard-on lumalambot yung sa kanya, it gets me frustrated but he said that he liked it and would usually ask for it.

Also, he gets easily distracted whenever we are having sex, mabilis lumambot yung kanya. It's not that I'm complaining about it kaya lang feeling ko I'm not good enough

[jara.g]

Advice naman po pano mag proper bj last time na ginawa ko sya sa bf ko ay hindi ata syanag enjoy kasi sumasabit yung teeth/braces ko so ayun pahinto hinto kami. kahit tinatry ko naman na wag isanggi yung teeth ko eh sumasabit parin daw

pano ba ang proper way? hindi naman ako makakpag practice with bf kasi LDR kami at twice a year lang kami magkita

gustoko sana bumawi sa kanya sa next kita namin huhu

[viDai09]

Sis its18851 feeling ko may mali kay Boyfie mo. Kasi kung nagsex na kayo tapos biglang lumalambot feeling ko di sya normal. Sa tingin ko lang naman.

[viDai09]

Sis jara.g. I'm no expert ah. But let's help each other. Every time na gusto mo sya BJ. Lagi mo lang isipin na gagawin mo sakanya yung sa tingin mo e mas lalo syang masasarapan. You can lick his thingy from the head to his egg. tee hee!. Tapos pag susubo ka na gawin mong malaking O yung bibig mo. Pilitin mong wag isayad yung ngipin mo kasi masakit yun at wag mong kakagatin. Pwede mong isubo ng dahan dahan hanggang sa pabilis ng pabilis. Mas masarap pag nasasagad. hehe Balitan mo na lang kami.

I believe we have guys na may account dito sana makapagbigay sila ng input.

[lonely_dad]

practice with your fingers first 

[mysterioza_me]

Naka-braces din ako pero di naman umangal bf ko na sumasabit ang teeth or braces ko.  Pm kita sis jara.g ang hirap iexplain dito 😂

[viDai09]

Nag braces din ako pero di naman sya nagreklamo sakin. Ako lang yung nagrereklamo hahaha.

[NeilRudecat]

My FB Friend had been asking me to teach her how to do it (BJ).  She's NBSB, still a virgin (not even a first kiss), a bi with a GF and has been declaring in her FB that she's not interested in boys.  We've been planning for several months to meet up, get a room and do an extended foreplay (yung walang mapupunit sa kaniya, hahaha).  So, we were able to have that foreplay thingy.  After several hours of kissing and her moaning as I gave long oral sex and her trying it on me...she still asked me na turuan ko siya mag-BJ.  I had to tell her honestly.  Look, hindi ako marunong mag BJ (being a straight guy noh) hahaha at siyempre sorry hindi ako excited na pag-aralan.  So, natawa na lang kami.  Well, nakapag-69 naman kami and when I came after more than 8 hours in our room...she licked to taste my come (actually sabi niya rin kasi she wants to swallow).

Come to think of it, she's a natural naman.  In those times she tried...hindi naman sumayad ang teeth niya.

Afterwards, naisip ko, sana pala mas pinagpractice ko na lang siya na -BJ ang tongue ko. 

I'm really the kind of guy who's not that much excited about getting a BJ.  Gusto ko magkapantay: face to face, eyes to eyes, nose to nose...lips to lips hehe...body to body.  I love cuddling and kissing on the forehead (at yung siguro ang moment na mas mataas ako...pag humalik ako sa noo).   

[kvandenhaak]

^I think what she wants to say is "tell me what feels good for you!" not necessarily turuan mo sya. Ano kasi sya eh, unsure of herself at may insecurity considering up to that point wala pa syang karanasan. Ako kasi late bloomer din, I was already in my 40s when I experience BJ. It's a long story kung bakit. It doesn't really take that much to learn. It comes naturally. Just do it like you mean it kumbaga. From the feedback I got, I am really good at it.

[mysterioza_me]

^^Awww ang sweet ng kiss sa forehead kahit lola kiss pa tawag ng iba dun, namiss ko tuloy partner ko.

^Wow sis super late mo sa larangan ng bj. I had an officemate before, she's in her mid-30's na during that time and married na din. She told us never pa siya nakapagbj maski sa ex-bfs and hubby niya. Di daw niya kaya. Nakakadiri daw isubo yun. Yung lips daw niya pinanghahalik niya sa lips ng asawa niya at anak niya tapos ipangkikiss niya din sa down there ng mister niya. Parang di daw maganda yun. Sabi ko magwash na lang siya ng lips, gargle and magbrush or scrub na lang siya after 😂. May isa pa ko friend na hindi niya naeenjoy ang bj, nangangalay daw panga niya. Ginagawa nalang daw niya kasi request ng husband niya.

[PiwakatItcha]

Mga sisses, dapat nating gawin ito sa ating mga hubby para hindi sila mag try sa iba, or para may comparison sila, kung sino mas higit na mahusay hahaha 😝😝😝. Ika nga be supportive to your husband.

[NeilRudecat]

@kvandenhaak
Thank you for your comment ha.  I'm glad I'm getting very helpful feedback.  Siguro ako ang talagang may issue sa  BJ.  I'm the kind of guy that doesn't like seeing it on the adult videos I've watched.  Sini-skip ko o pina-fast forward.  There are times that I want it pero siguro nafu-frustrate ako.  Hindi nahi-hit ang gusto ko ma-hit.  Gusto ko masagot ang "tell me what feels good for you!"  I think gusto ko ang warmth, moistness at press ng surface ng tongue sa shaft ko.  Ang shaft na nasa ilalim ng head ng organ naming mga lalaki ay very sensitive...na parang yung shaft o clitorial hood ninyong mga babae.  Also in a similar way, there will come a point later in a long round of foreplay na sobra nang sensitive.  May stimulation during BJ na too much na, bordering na on uncomfortable and painful. 

Tama ka, it comes naturally.  Ako, I give oral sex (Cunnilingus) with so much love and desire to please.  For me, it's a more extensive expression through kissing and savoring.  Nasanay siguro ako na ako ang nagpi-please at siguro takot na ma-disappoint kaya baka hindi na nage-expect ng pleasure pag ni-reciprocate.

@mysterioza_me
Hahaha, yes, in between those more than 6 rounds, kiss sa forehead, cuddle and konting rest nang magkayakap.  Ang long break lang eh nung dumating na ang lunch namin.

Nakakadiri nga hahaha.  Dati, noong mid to late teens ko ganun din ang naiisip ko...kahit sa kiss.  Ayoko na makiss ako, kahit sa cheeks lang, ng isang female friend na married na at vocal about sex topics.

I think if one gives oral sex with love hindi mapapagod...hindi mangangalay...kasi you don't regard is as a chore.

[mysterioza_me]

I think if one gives oral sex with love hindi mapapagod...hindi mangangalay...kasi you don't regard is as a chore.

Agree. Walang ngalay or pagod basta alam ko na nasisiyahan siya. And give and take naman kami, i love being kissed down there kaya todo effort din naman siya sa part na yun.

[kvandenhaak]

^Wow sis super late mo sa larangan ng bj. I had an officemate before, she's in her mid-30's na during that time and married na din. She told us never pa siya nakapagbj maski sa ex-bfs and hubby niya. Di daw niya kaya. Nakakadiri daw isubo yun. Yung lips daw niya pinanghahalik niya sa lips ng asawa niya at anak niya tapos ipangkikiss niya din sa down there ng mister niya. Parang di daw maganda yun. Sabi ko magwash na lang siya ng lips, gargle and magbrush or scrub na lang siya after 😂. May isa pa ko friend na hindi niya naeenjoy ang bj, nangangalay daw panga niya. Ginagawa nalang daw niya kasi request ng husband niya.

Well, better late than never...lol! Awww, she's missing so much in intimacy. Eh ang boobs din naman ganon, you feed your baby with it tapos hahawakan at hahalikan din ni hubby while having sex. Lame excuse yun kamo...lol!

[iam_me]

^korek, walang pagod at ngalay lalo na pag nakita mong nasasarapan si hubby sa bj mo mas lalong nakakadagdag ng energy hahaha !

lick and suck top to bottom dagdagan mo lang ng hj 

[blushberry]

Maiba lang, I just realized some wives don't know that the d**k has to be sucked, so talagang nakakangalay at times sa jaw?

How would you know that your husband or bf is enjoying what you are doing?  How much suction should be done?  I have the weirdest future ex husband. 

[kvandenhaak]

^Kapag malaki, masakit sa panga. You will definitely know if he is enjoying it, you don't need to guess.

[mysterioza_me]

^so true, alam na alam ko pagnageenjoy partner ko and nalilimutan ko ang ngalay mas naiisip ko na dapat mas husayin ko pa

[iam_me]

^tama malalaman mo kung nag eenjoy talaga sya , pag ngalay na lick naman pag ngalay na ulit sucked ulit, hj naman  hahaha! mas ok if di ka mag focus lang sa pag sucked lang 

[xsugar]

true with the ngalay. i've been trying to apply what i read about humming while sucking pero di ko talaga makuha yung tamang breathing. may kakaiba daw sensation:) can anyone share their experiences?