My husband "abandoned" us

[lovemeagain30]

kung nagpakasal ang mag asawa abroad at hindi eto ni register (report for marriage) sa Phil Embassy lalabas parin single ang status ng mag asawa sa Pinas pero valid ang kasal nila sa bansa kung saan sila nagpakasal. Sad to say madaming nakakalusot na ganyang pinoy. magpapakasal sa ibang bansa pero hindi na nirereport sa NSO.

nangyari yan sa Tito ko nuon, single ang status niya sa Cenomar yun pala kasal na siya dati pa sa US. nalaman nalang namin eto kasi na CI siya nung inapply ng Tita ko naka based sa Australia ang Tito ko for family migration visa since husband na niya to. nagpakasal sila sa Pinas nuon. dumaan ng process na kumuha sila ng papers, walang kasal lumabas under sa Cenomar ni Tito, yun pala hindi reported ang previous marriage. since valid parin eto to consider, na deny yung application ng Tita ko sakanya sa Australia. kailangan ipa-annul ang first marriage ni Tito.

Like us here kung san kami naka based ng mister ko, nagpakasal kami sa Church. kumuha kami ng authenticated papers namin sa Pinas. Legal mag asawa kami dito kasi 'stamped' ng govt ang marriage contract namin. After our wedding, its our responsibility to forward it to Phil Embassy. kung hindi namin gagawin yun lalabas parin single status kami sa CENOMAR. walang way madedetect ng NSO na kasal na pala kami unless ipaparehistro namin mismo sa Embassy. Sabi ko nga, madaming pinoy ang gumagawa nito. pero hindi ibig sabihin hindi legal ang kasal nila at hindi rin ibig sabihin na hindi eto malalaman balang araw. There is no such thing as secret marriage talaga.

[narz83]

TS, im so sorry to hear this tragedies in your life. Be strong. God be with you.

[nixiquita]

onga eh medyo nakakaconcern pa naman yung situation niya i just hope shes doing well ..and her kids.

[roxyhart]

This post got me really sad. And enraged for TS' so-called husband. Bastos, hindi kaya magpakalalaki. Walang puso.  What kind of man would treat a woman that way, what kind of man would treat his children that way?

TS, I fervently pray you and your babies are doing fine.

[mrscardenas2011]

Does the first family knows? Grabe sis, ang sakit sa dibdib ng sitwasyon mo. Wala ako masabi... Hay... PI nya! hayop!

[ejxtwo]

Hello everyone. Off topic muna tayo ulit. Thank you for the prayers, sympathy, and concerns. Medyo matagal akong nawala dito sa GT, because nag-focus na muna ako sa kids ko. But I just lost my first son (Kito), due to complications, after we found out na may chronic lung disease sya, sunod-sunod na yung sakit nya - liver, kidney, etc. My other son has hole in his heart, one month na sya nasa NICU. While my daughter's with his father, umuwi sya after he found out na I lost my baby. Sa situation namin, sya yung pinaka-nahihirapan. She can't even go to school. Ayaw nya na kaming kausapin. Mas lalo akong nahihirapan pag nakikita ko syang ganun.

Kinausap nya na ako about "samin", and I don't know why pero wala akong nasabi. Ang dami kong gustong sabihin sa kanya pero naiyak nalang ako sa sobrang sakit. And actually, nakuha nya pa akong sisihin kung bakit nawala yung baby ko. Again, thank you for everything. Please continue to pray for my surviving twin, my daughter, and our family. God bless us!

[honeycrushed]

sis, i'm so sorry to hear about one of your twins.  Be strong, sis.  A preemie is a blessing, kahit mahirap.  Very sensitive sila, lahat pagmamasdan mo para ma ensure na safe sila at on-track ang development.  I had my son at 30 weeks.  Dun ka muna mag focus sa surviving twin mo. 

Hayaan mo na ang husband mo, kakainin din sya ng konsensya nya.  Stay positive, kami na lang ang magagalit para sa 'yo.  Can't help but comment lang, ang walang hiya, nagawa ka pang sisihin.  grrr!

[nixiquita]

Im glad to hear from you again, medyo nagwworry din kami dito sa GT dahil sa situation mo. But. Oh my god i am so sorry for your loss. But please be strong. Pray and pray and dont lose hope. Everything will fall into place. Dont worry, itll pass. Just be strong and hold on to your faith.

[lovemeagain30]

sis ejxtwo be strong! you still have your daughter and one surviving twin. its better to focus your energy towards them. yang si ex hubby mo 'galit galitan' yan para hindi mo siya masisi pati na ng family mo at daughter mo sa nangyari. probably his conscience is eating him up right now. typical manloloko na lalaki, ibabaling sa iba ang kasalanan to save themselves. wag mo na siya pagtuunan ng pansin ngayon. ang mga anak mo ang importante. God Bless.

[akthung]

my lolo abandoned my lola. in fact, 30s na ako when i got to know him. i met him when my lola was sick. kala ng mga aunts and uncs ko, yun ang last moments ng lola ko so they had my lolo picked up.

one of my uncles kasi has a wide network. he had my lolo tracked down had known his whereabouts for quite some time.

we also found out that my lola was his legal wife, and he had many other "families" before her....families and single children from different women.

a lot of them were mad at him.

i wont go further, ang masasabi ko lang. malaki ang karma ng abandonement of duty....sa paksa ng thread na to, duty ng pagiging ama.

though most if not all of my lolo's children were able to make things end naman. if i'm not mistaken, pinaka successful ay galing sa pamilya ng lola ko. nagsumikap kasi talaga siya.

all is not lost. kaya yan.

[ysa.belle]

hi sis TS, i never got to comment regarding your situation. but i am so sorry for your loss. be strong kase you still have your daughter and the surviving twin. god bless you sis.

[Miss.Pancake]

This is really sad. Pero I'm certain God has a good plan for this. God bless you sis.

[loveleah]

Hi Sis, I was crying all the while reading about your situation lalo pa nawalan ka ng baby. I will pray for you sis and hope you will be strong and be able to think clearly para sa next step mo for yourself and your children. Ask help from your family Sis para hindi ka masyadong alone sa dinadadala mo. God bless po and hope you and your kids will be okay.

[mrscardenas2011]

I read from the other thread that her daughter committed suicide... sis... please ask help from your parents... you need every emotional support you can get now.. cyber hug...

[ysa.belle]

@sis ejxtwo, my condolences sis. i read on another thread what happened. you are under a lot of stress and pain. please do not forget to pray to Him and ask for guidance.

[nixiquita]

God. Im at a loss for words. Sis!!!! I hope my virtual hug could make you feel better!!! Hold on and be very very very strong! I pray to God that whatever pain youre experiencing now, God will heal the soonest. I pray that you never lose hope and faith in him and that you will understand soon all of Gods plans and ways. God bless you sis and keep praying.

[PINKAHOLIC]

Istoryahe si TS, my gosh!

[super bratinella]

writer yata..

[lesters_gal]

I was able to read her post yung tungkol sa daughter niya na nag suicide, tapos yung sa twins niya. I feel sorry for her while reading her thread. Super naiiyak ako. Tapos biglang sa dulo nabasa ko na talksh*t lang pala lahat. Grabe..😨 ang galing gumawa ng story. I don't know kung ano ang napapala nila sa ganito. Lakas ng trip manloko. Effort talaga to the highest level.  Yung sa ibang forum ba na same story like this is totoo ba yun or  imaginary lang din?  Hay naku TS... pasadong pasado ka na sa scrip writer..👏

[red_yesha]

si ejxtwo
 Nakakaiyak ang mga posts nya.
 Halos lahat nadala sa makapagdamdaming nyang kwento.
 Ngunit ito pala ay kasinungalingang lahat.

 Wag tularan si ejxtwo.
 Hindi sya magandang halimbawa.