kesyo need daw nya kasi baka mahuli sya sa work gumagamit ng fb. nakuha ko na un nag iisang friend nya dun na obvious na dummy account din
that makes sense. create a dummy FB account if there are work restrictions against it. but to have only one friend in the account? looks to me like he's avoiding detection not by work superiors but by his wife.
next day deactivated both accounts. after a week nakita ko open uli pero this time, pareho sila na off na lahat, friends, group.
couldn't they have exercised a little more finesse than that?
the very next day agad? then privacy settings to the max a week after? your husband is really concerned about getting caught by his boss.
kasi every other day umaalis sya ng bahay at late na sya umuuwi
if my husband came from overseas to visit his family back home, he would make sure to spend the bulk of his time with his family. if he needed to take care of having cars fixed, running errands, etc., he will surely tag me along for the ride so we get to have quality time together while getting things done. he certainly will not spend his vacation with his highschool buddies. maybe once- if that.
sinasabi mali ako at lalake kasama nya syempre mas galit at sumisigaw pa sya kaysa sakin.
diffuse the situation by showing he is angrier- classic guilty reaction. i wouldn't be surprised if, while shouting at you, he also happens to mention negative things about you? again- diffuse the situation, muddy the waters, attempt to put the spotlight away from where it should be shining at. this is what estrada and revilla are good at. had i "accused" or "asked" my husband the same thing, and had i been totally off and mistaken about the whole thing, he would probably have had a great big laugh at my expense and tease me no end about my insecurities- which of course, he will find cute nonetheless.
dapat ko ba i confront yung babae, kahit wala pa ako malaking evidence na sya ay kabit ni hub? dapat ko ba sabihin sa asawa ko na alam ko na san nag work at real name ng babae?
please help ang gulo na ng utak ko.
TS, your husband is cheating. no, you don't need to confront the other woman. and no, you don't need to tell your husband that you know her name or what-nots. that will only push them to hide deeper in their holes and make your husband cling to the other woman more because you're making
api the girl.
what you do need to do is to tell your husband to put his big boy briefs on, and just come out with the plain, old, simple truth. "are you cheating?" that takes a simple yes or no answer. "do you still want to give our marriage a try?" again, a simple yes or no answer. do not beg your husband for anything.
but be prepared for his answers. and i don't mean just emotionally. be prepared logistically as well. make sure your living arrangements and financial well-being are in order. if they are, the emotional battle gets a load off. and i'm not saying it will be easy, like what another poster said.
good luck to you as to when you can find the guts to say good riddance to him.
