Sino mas may dating or attractive?

[whitebishop]

IMO, comparing our self with others is a waste of our precious time.  For there will be someone better or worse than us.  There will always be someone who will come to be better than our current stature.  So life is not really about comparing one from another and thereby judging who is better.   Life instead is a journey to comparing who we were yesterday and who we are today.  If we are or we are not, if such state gives us happiness then end of story. 

But if you must compare, I think you won the competition by having your husband marry you.  living through such questions invite insecurity and fear which leads to anger, conflict.... hatred.  I hope you know your value and the value of your partnership with your hubby.  That has to count for something and that value needs polishing and need real work for it to shine.  Take heart and be confident.  Life is too short in things that do not add value to your life.  Spend each fleeting moment in love and attention to the things that has more value.

[simple_G]

IMO, comparing our self with others is a waste of our precious time.  For there will be someone better or worse than us.  There will always be someone who will come to be better than our current stature.  So life is not really about comparing one from another and thereby judging who is better.   Life instead is a journey to comparing who we were yesterday and who we are today.  If we are or we are not, if such state gives us happiness then end of story. 

But if you must compare, I think you won the competition by having your husband marry you.  living through such questions invite insecurity and fear which leads to anger, conflict.... hatred.  I hope you know your value and the value of your partnership with your hubby.  That has to count for something and that value needs polishing and need real work for it to shine.  Take heart and be confident.  Life is too short in things that do not add value to your life.  Spend each fleeting moment in love and attention to the things that has more value.

Very we'll said ms. Whitebishop

[wangwang]

..sabi ko na nga eh,ikaw yung 1 ms G..mas pretty ka!

[simang]

Yes, what they all said.

But I think it's still off to actually take effort to do the video and ask for comparison. It just screams insecure to me. Personally, if I feel that I need to compare myself to others means I'm not living my life right. I don't have to hear someone call another girl ugly just to make me feel pretty. I want to live my life on my own standards, and eff the rest.

[simple_G]

well, I became paranoid and YES i'm insecure and broken kasi nung nabasa ko sa ym chat nila na sinabi ng husband ko na mas masarap sya and see attached below sinabi sa kin ng ex nya sa email.

http://www.mediafire.com/view/h60cav252lkddw2/masmaganda.png

how would you react to that?

eto pa pala isang comparison picture namin....
on this pic who is prettier? kulit eh no

http://www.mediafire.com/view/zidt7hce53uiufn/lengsang.jpg

[xtine]

^sis,  sorry for this pero kung sino ang may confidence sha ang mas maganda.  Your husband may leave you for acting like this.  Kung ako ang asawa mo, tatanungin ko sarili ko if i should really he putting up with all this nonesense drama.

Mas pinapakita mo na nauunder ka ng ex ng hubby mo dahil affected ka sa mga sinasabi ng ex wife nya.  If I were you, have a talk with your husband and tell him straight na ikaw ang asawa nya, to cut any ties with the ex or else, magkakaroon ng gulo. 

Also, for you sis, please act and think like an adult.  Stop comparing yourself with the ex.  Pagaralan mo how to please your husband instead of wallowing into these things.  Make yourself productive for the better instead of all this drama.  Sa totoo lang sis, lumalabas kang mas pathetic with all these comparisons.  Really, no point.

Sorry talaga

[simang]

http://www.mediafire.com/view/h60cav252lkddw2/masmaganda.png

how would you react to that?

personally, una sa lahat i won't even talk to anyone who brings stress to my life. hahaha so if i were the wife siguro hindi ko marereceive yung message na yan. pangalawa, if for no reason the girl sends me that, yung totoo, i'll just deadma. papatulan ko ba ang pathetic? personally, hindi ko gagawin yun. and besides, the fact that you were affected by what she said means it means something to you -- baka nga totoo. kung secured ka kase di mo na yan papatulan.

Also, for you sis, please act and think like an adult.  Stop comparing yourself with the ex.  Pagaralan mo how to please your husband instead of wallowing into these things.  Make yourself productive for the better instead of all this drama.  Sa totoo lang sis, lumalabas kang mas pathetic with all these comparisons.  Really, no point.

This, more than anything.

You're proving the other girl right with how you're dealing with all these eh. Never let that girl (and your husband) ruin your confidence and your personal happiness. If you're unhappy and insecure and paranoid, it's your choice, kase you can always be happy and secure and not paranoid naman anytime.

Be beautiful in your own way, sis G.