should i demand support for my kids?

[pretty empress]

Nakarelate ako mga sis. Sa akin naman ang karibal ng anak ko ay ang nanay ng asawa ko. Matagal na rin kami hiwalay, matagal ako nanahimik. Pero now gusto ko na ng legal battle para sa rights ng anak ko.

[chiqmom]

hi sis kaiz! yung away/insultuhan issue, it all happened to us. ganoon din kami dati. i even thought na hindi siya makikiareglo sa child support kasi we are in a very bad term that time.

tama si sis  lovely_carrot, going into a "civil" relationship with your husband will help. do not go into a war again and never allow your emotions to talk for you ( at least during the "areglo" stage hehe) this will not just give you peace of mind but it could benefit the kids too.

[gharz412]

hi. i need your comments and advice po. i am married but hubby and i are living separately already. nasa akin our 2 kids. hubby does not give monetary support. now i just found out that his gf is about to give birth. if kayo sa situation ko, ano gagawin nyo? he does not know na i know na about the girl

gurl how are you now?

[khaleesiCersei]

yes. it is your children's right to have financial support from their father. tama yung mga advice dito to get help from a lawyer, wag mo isipin yung gulo or away kasi you can fight for your rights naman in a civilized manner. pero kung sila manguggulo at mang aaway eh let the lawyer handle it. just be strong and brave for your kids. best of luck.

[cristina]

OT po

I have a four year old son na inabandoned ng father nya although hindi kami kasal do i still have the right to demand a financial support from him?

[khaleesiCersei]

^yes you have every right to ask for financial support. I read somewhere na kasama yun sa anti violence against women and children.. I think pasok dun yun sa economic abuse wether legitimate or illegitimate children. Dapat magbigay ng financial support kung may kakayanan naman sya magbigay

[kaiz]

update: pumayag my EX pero lagi akong pinopost sa facebook. so sabi ko mawala nalang sya sa life namin.

[gharz412]

Ako hindi na nakakapagod ata maghabol.   And yung mga inlaws ko naman willing naman magbigay peru nitong huli pinasaringan ako na magbibigay daw sila kahit di nila obligasyon. Bahala nga sila.

[baliwsayo]

demanda mo sis.. meron dito sa company namin, may court order na part nung sweldo nung employee namin ipapangalan sa ex wife so walang nagawa si ogags..

[shelly ohhh!!]

sis baliwsayo paano kaya yun? paano kaya process duon? may idea ka po ba? salamat!

[Msfi]

Yung sa sister din ng dati kong officemate, may court order kaya automatic deducted yung para sa support that goes directly sa wife. 

[juni]

update: pumayag my EX pero lagi akong pinopost sa facebook. so sabi ko mawala nalang sya sa life namin.

What do you mean na lagi ka niyang pinopost sa Facebook?  Like he says mean things about you, or nagpaparinig sa Facebook?

[kaiz]

^yes sis

[dainejen]

go sis mag file ka ng case for child support.. kung legal wife ka at kailangan mo din ng money pati spousal support. maganda yung sinasani ni Msfi, yung pag sinabi ng court na bigyan ng child support irrequire yung employer na ideduct automatically sa salary at di yun pwede ma late.

hindi ako humigi ng child support dahil ayaw ng parents ko,sobra silang nagmamatigas. kung nagfile siguro ko ng case napahiya pa ko kasi husband ko laging terminated.minsan di pa umaabot ng 3months..nagkaganun sya after namin maghiwalay. kung natuloy nakakahiya naman na tuwing magpapalit ng work pupunta ko court para i require yung new employer na ideduct sa salary. I know naman na gusto nya makita anak nya kaso galit sa kanya lahat ng tao kaya feeling ko gumagawa sya ng way para magkaroon magandang work bago kami balikan..kaso malabo yun dahil lagi syang nawawalan work. at nakakakulo ng dugo na di suportahan yung bata noh.. kaya sa ngayon hinayaan ko na yang child support na yan di ko lang sure kung hanggang kelan ko papabayaan

[juni]

@kaiz: If wala na sa lugar yung mga pinagsasabi ng ex mo sa Facebook or anywhere else, you should consider suing him for that, pwede mo kasuhan ng libel or slander.  He has no right to spread untruths about you, even if you two don't get along that still doesn't give him the right to trash your reputation.  Isave mo sa PC mo yung posts niya, iscreenshot mo or kunan mo ng video para may proof ka.  Pag magsalita siya ng ganyan in person, kuhanan mo ng video or audio recording, or kumuha ka ng witnesses para may proof.

Aside from using it as evidence in case gusto mo nga magfile ng libel or slander case against him, it also proves na he is verbally/psychologically abusive to you, so pwede mo din siya gamitin if you want to file for annulment or what.

Wag mo palampasin sis, masyado na siyang namimihasa, abusado na, di na nahiya.