WholeFlirt - Wholesome na Flirting :)

[gylbie]

Hello Guys,

Question...

Paano ba magpapansin sa crush? hahaha... (common question na noh) pero paano ka ba makikipag flirt na wholesome pa rin ang dating... ? na di bastusin ang labas... na... basta alam ko gets nyo na tanong ko hehe..

Salamat ng marami sa magrereply

[fleur_de_liz]

always smile para mapansin ni crush na hindi ka mataray.. that he can approach you anytime..pero your smile should be the mahinhin type ha? may smile kasi na flirt ang dating so kung ayaw mo mabastos dapat alam mo ang tamang pag smile. lol.

[mrvhince]

Siguro mas ok kung magiging showy ka sa feelings mo, maging malambing ka kay crush mo yun tipong lagi kang lumalapit sa kanya at samahan mo ng konting body contacts na parang di sinasadya like dikit mo yung body mo na tipong hindi naman kabastos bastos.

[t_r_i_s_h]

It depends if your crush is your colleague, schoolmate, friend of a friend, friend. It really depends. It's easier to flirt if you kinda know something about the guy already. But yeah always smile, but to some guys smiling doesn't work, they want the suplada/pa mysterious type of girl.

[simang]

Just be fun. A more fun version of yourself.

But i have to agree with @trish, depende pa din kung anong relationship nyo ni guy.

It's easier to flirt with a guy who already is close to you. But, it's more fun to flirt with a stranger :-)

[jtansanco]

Wholesome flirting? Parang ako to ah... I admit, "malandi" ako makipagkaibigan sa girls.. Haha.

But anyway, how to flirt with your crush without being to flirty? Eye contact, smile, and the power of touching. Not the seductive touching but more of like patting the shoulder. Easy way is through words. Just ask the guy if he works out a lot because he looks fit and in good shape. If his answer is yes, squeeze his biceps or poke his chest or ask to see his abs. If his answer is no, then tell him he should workout because "bagay" sa kanya if he has muscles - you know what I'm getting at. Either way, asking a guy if he works out is a win-win situation for the girl because there's no right or wrong answers.

[whitebishop]

I suggest touch his shirt like pull the sleeves slightly and say "i like your shirt" then he looks at you and you wear your best smile.

[wangwang]

may kasabihan nga eh..'always wear a smile' (tama ba yun?)...ngitian mo lang.

[ri-anne]

Wholesome flirting....you can flirt with your smile, your eyes and words....gawain ko yan during college...lol!
as in nakikipagkwentuhan lang ako, nakikipagkulitan, nangungumusta, show ng concern, just being sweet.....but iwas ako sa touching.

 Kasi i'm sure kapag ginawa ko yan, the guy will think it's ok and will also do the same...hanggang hindi na magiging wholesome eventually.....
when the guy would make akbay or pisilin yung cheeks ko, hinahampas ko sa tyan ng book or bag or kung anong hawak ko so he'd know na off limits...lol! And no green jokes too... Wholesome nga eh! hehe...umiiwas nako sa guy pag nag-iiba na..

You can start with a little chit chat siguro..then from there malalaman mo na kung anong personality nya at kung anong style magwork best for him...

[nixiquita]

Be very very approachable i guess, magpapansin ka as a friend, not agad as crush.

Although, mahirap mafriendzone hehe but sa boys kasi i know it gets annoying pag sobrang papansin yung girl, and they can feel if the girl likes them. Sooo to be safe, be a friend first Smile and just be natural, be approachable at all times and be accomodating. Be willing to go the extra mile, out of good will. Di yung may hidden agenda, although, yun naman talaga hehe

Anyway, goodluck

[Tootsie31]

Before when I have a crush on someone, I just like to look at him from far away and not to have a relationship or any conversation with him. But now, I want my crush to be my future BF and hopefully have a family with him That's why I'm here on this thread because I am interested to learn the act of wholesome flirting.

My initial steps was to laugh at his jokes and show that I also like the things he wants to do. The results were he sits near me, chat with me and looks at me eye to eye.

I have no other idea on what to do next. So please keep on posting your answers! Thanks in advance!

[p0isonIvy]

Easy way is through words. Just ask the guy if he works out a lot because he looks fit and in good shape. If his answer is yes, squeeze his biceps or poke his chest or ask to see his abs.

^ haha i think this is a dead give away already. wholesome flirting should be more or less undiscernible. yung tipong mapapaisip si guy about the girl's intentions. it should be somewhere between friendly banter and a bit of pagka suplada. super obvious flirting kasi for me is cheap. as in parang desperate na ang dating ng girl pag ganun. sobrang halata kaya minsan pag gusto ng girl ang isang guy. as in makikita mo talaga sa body language. so for me, wholesome flirting should be hindi halata na nagfflirt na pala si girl. pero pag uwi ni guy, mapapaisip sya na, "wait, parang she was coming on to me kanina." ganun! haha

[simang]

I remember the night I met my h2b. We were the definition the wholeflirt, I think. Lol. Here's a conversation I remember:

Friend: Sinama ko sya (h2b) para makahanap na sya ng girlfriend.
Me: O sakto, naghahanap din ako ng boyfriend.

Him: Anong status mo?
Me: Single.
Him: Simula ngayon hindi na.

[kukii]

^LOL That escalated quickly.

Just be yourself, I guess.

[p0isonIvy]

I remember the night I met my h2b. We were the definition the wholeflirt, I think. Lol. Here's a conversation I remember:

Friend: Sinama ko sya (h2b) para makahanap na sya ng girlfriend.
Me: O sakto, naghahanap din ako ng boyfriend.

Him: Anong status mo?
Me: Single.
Him: Simula ngayon hindi na.

^ awwwww cute!

[Xoxolol]

I have a new crush! lol finally after 48 years hahaha he's an officemate from our IT department. so lately nakakausap ko siya pag may pinapagawa ako sa pc ko. I just try to be myself pag andyan siya. onting pa cute but pero nakakaconscious!!! feeling ko HS na naman ako. hahaha

Gusto ko lang malaman, paano ba makipagfriends sa kanya na may pagfflirt din ng onti? kasi feeling ko nagmumukha akong ewan sa harap niya. LOL