Why Some Men Cheat on Loyal Women

[momentum]

I just came across this article and I think it was a good read and picked a lot of lessons from it
I think this applies to husbands too on wives who cheat. some parts I agree, some made me skeptical

It may be a long read but im sure we can relate somehow

How a male treats a woman is NOT a reflection of HER worth. Nor is it a reflection on anything she LACKS or is not doing. An overly macho, mentally weak, sensitive-minded male knows he does not DESERVE a strong minded woman. In his mind, he thinks one day she will mentally awaken to the realization she deserves better than him & leave him. This is why males cheat on a woman, to have POWER over her. He cheats on her to boost his ego.

Read on...

http://realnewspaper.wordpress.com/2014/03/13/why-men-cheat-on-loyal-women/

[MaitaOfMakeupOnDemand]

Uhm, so sorry to start so off topic right away. It's just that I was taken aback by the thread title and would just like to say, maybe SOME men cheat. But it isn't true that ALL men cheat on loyal women. I know many men who don't cheat and IMO, believing that they cheat is almost like accepting it and sets up low expectations for a relationship right away.

[momentum]

Actually i just copied the article title so It didn't come from me hehe but yeah not all men cheat, i should have changed the
Title lol

[frappysabz]

kapag sawa na yung guy sa iyo or may lumandi sa ma at nagpatukso siya

[aquacharly]

Why do some men cheat on loyal women?

The article says it all:  some men just lack maturity; or  they haven't been raised to treat a woman with love & respect. 

Also, IMO, there are men who just have a sex addiction; or  low morals. They just gotta scratch every itch.

[boredkickasschick]

maybe the woman is boring or wala ng challenge.
Always agree on everything and does not voice out
her own opinion, no sense kausap...maganda nga
 hangin naman utak.    IMO

[SCOTTISHFOLD20]

its never a reason for a bored husband to cheat on his wife. NEVER
sino bang nagsabing pang entertainment ang asawa? Sana bumili ka na lang ng TV.

[boredkickasschick]

The reason for something happening is why something happens.
The cause for something happening is the factor that results in something happening


Yes boredom is never a reason but in reality it is one of the causes for such reasons.

Tama ka wife is not for entertainment, but you have to maintain the interest of your husband
para hindi sila titingin sa iba, that's why kasama sa counselling sessions before getting married ang
emphasis to never stop courting each other and always keep the fire burning.   This is applicable to both parties.

Don't stop improving yourself or be interesting just because you already won the Trophy.  Make your partners realize EVERYDAY how lucky they are to have you by being your best as much as you can.

[SCOTTISHFOLD20]

never imagined getting a husband as a trophy.
Men cheat because something is seriously wrong with their values system.
Men cheat because they can and you still accept him after the fact.
Cheating is emotional abuse. Abuse is violence.
Can't call that a marriage anymore.

[mc21]

in my opinion, men cheat because of sorroundings (mga B.I na barkada)
kung wala naman influence, siguro he just wanted to explore other things na ayaw naman ni wife gawin in bed.
pwede rin, test of charm if it still working.
madming reason, bawat isa kanya-kaya
walang general reason.
IMHO

[adikako]

Men cheat because at some cases there are Women willing to play as a Mistress. It takes two to tango!

[mamaneng]

^ AGREE!!!

[babysean]

based on my experienced, and men that i met, they are cheating because NUMBER 1: mostly the girlfriends or wives kept forgiving them over and over again thats why their husbands take advantages of it. NUmBER 2: Mayabang ang mga lalaki sa kapwa nila lalaki, just for their ego so his friends will think "he is the man". NUMBER 3: just like number 2, kapag bI ang mga kaibigang lalaki, mga sulsol. NUMBER 4: kapag pumangit ang girl kapag nastress which is i experienced before girls please never ever pababayaan ang sarili.  NUMBER 5: kapag di maasikaso ang asawa, hindi nagluluto. (this is true i met a guy and this is his reason why he is cheating)

hope this helps you ladies, no need to be perfect, all we have to do is be sweet all the time, give the play that your man wants, be open minded also,

i love reading your opinions here

[CITIgirl_04]

plain and simple. it's because they're not contented. if you are contented, no matter what imperfections does his partner have, he will not cheat. And, wala siyang takot kay Lord.

just my two cents.

[Girltalker2]

These men who cheat are selfish.  Kaya nga sarili lang nila ang importante sa kanila, kahit ano pang sabihin nila.

And the wonders of it, women allow men to cheat.  Wives and mistresses still oggle around their men kahit na pang #3 or so pa sila.

[Yula]

Nakakatawa lang yung reasoning ng mga cheater wife/husband na kesyo yung partner nila ganito ganyan etc blah blah. Wow ang perpekto naman nila. Meron ngang quote diba yung

"There are people greater than your partner(katulad ng kabit nila)...That is life, full of temptations. But don't be deceived by those things. Because didn't you ever realize that there are people who are also greater than you?Yet your partner chose you."

wedding vow:
" for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part."

kaya nga sinasabi yan diba.Ganyan na pag nakatali kana. Tapos mga cheater ang daming alam sabihin din eh.

parang nagkakaroon ng lisensya para magcheat eh pag:
-nalosyang
-tumaba
-tumatanda
-hindi marunong sa ganito ganyan (wow hanap ka nga kasi ng perfect na tao!)
-times na di nagkakaintindihan (oi remember yung wedding vow! pede magusap te/kuya)

hahaha nakakainis lang talaga mga cheaters!

[SCOTTISHFOLD20]

Tama ka dyan Yula.

[chinkywinky]

Maybe men are too comfortable na loyal naman ang partner nila at hindi sila iiwan. Kaya dapat pinag-seselos mga yan minsan.

[shinta]

Why do some men cheat on loyal women?

they haven't been raised to treat a woman with love & respect. 

... or  low morals. They just gotta scratch every itch.

i agree with sis aquacharly. eto kasi nakikitang kong dahilan why hubby cheated on me. sabi ko nga sa kanya, puro siya prinsipyo, pero wala siyang values. i also look at how he treated his mom, sadly wala ding respect 

[jekali]

IMO, there are many factors why men cheat.

1. To boost their ego. Syempre di ba mas nakakalalake nga naman kung meron pa din silang naaattract na babae kahit na taken na sila.

2. Pwede din namang insecure sila masyado, yun yung way nila para matabunan yung insecurity na nararamdaman nila.

3. Pwede ding sa pagpapalaki ng magulang, hindi sila pinalaki na rumespeto ng babae.

4. Or pwede namang sadyang makati lang talaga sila. Inate na sa nature nila ang pagiging malandi.