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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #20 on: March 19, 2014, 04:24:18 pm »
Yeah how long have you been together? Does this happen all the time?
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #21 on: March 19, 2014, 04:40:55 pm »
Does he touch you? and if he touches you, u felt arouse ba?
baka naman ikaw lang nang ikaw ang touch-y sa inyo.

hmmm... hypothesis ko lang toh. baka he wants to take it slow first, and wanted to initiate it first kaya ganun.

tiis muna sis. your effort will pay off when the time comes.

How I wish it was that way. If I I want for him to initiate things it's gonna take him weeks to do that. We used to make love everyday or every other day. Hangang naging madalang nalang. When I try to touch him he would say no, bukas nalang. Pag bukas na wala naman. Of course sumasama loob ko. I just keep keep quiet and pretend nothings wrong. I try again after a day, pero wala. I try being gentle while touching him nakikikiti naman. Don't know na nga what to do eh.  Kiss him wala din.  Pagod sya,  plenty excuses like Daming problems.  Sometimes maririnig mo yun nalang ba important sa iyo?  After not making love for almost a week syempre how does he expect me to react? I try to make my move pero wala. Masakit. So am I doing something wrong?  Do I need to try harder? 

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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #22 on: March 22, 2014, 09:49:38 am »
let him watch porn :) or magmasturbate in front of him. ^^
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #23 on: March 22, 2014, 11:09:33 am »
play infront of him? rub/caress his inner thigh?

uhm, ofcourse the usual striptease dance :"D
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #24 on: March 24, 2014, 10:28:27 am »
How I wish it was that way. If I I want for him to initiate things it's gonna take him weeks to do that. We used to make love everyday or every other day. Hangang naging madalang nalang. When I try to touch him he would say no, bukas nalang. Pag bukas na wala naman. Of course sumasama loob ko. I just keep keep quiet and pretend nothings wrong. I try again after a day, pero wala. I try being gentle while touching him nakikikiti naman. Don't know na nga what to do eh.  Kiss him wala din.  Pagod sya,  plenty excuses like Daming problems.  Sometimes maririnig mo yun nalang ba important sa iyo?  After not making love for almost a week syempre how does he expect me to react? I try to make my move pero wala. Masakit. So am I doing something wrong?  Do I need to try harder? 

you didn't answer yung question sa iyo.  mag-asawa ba kayo?  ano po ang status nyo?  are you married or not?  is he married to another woman or not?

additional question, do you have kids na?

you need to ask him what is his problem.  kung ayaw nyang sabihin, then there might be something wrong na involved ka.

i would be straight forward.  i am into this situation.  mahirap.  pero medyo over naman ata yung sa iyo.  hindi naman ganyan kagrabe ang husband ko.  yes we both make guys turn heads.  i even got s*x proposals from friends and buyers (i am an online seller).  and dahil sa open-minded ako, and tinatanggihan ako ng asawa ko kapag gusto ko, and dahil masakit sa babae ang matanggihan sa kama, and dahil nagbago body system ko after ligate, hindi na ako yung gaya dati na okay lang matanggihan.

i tried to change the way i dress.  at age 35 years old, pinalitan ko lahat ng clothes ko, as in lahat.  pati inner clothings.  i wear clothes that would make me look sexy and kaakit akit sa lalaki.  para pansinin nya ako (and may mga mommies kasi na hot na kakilala ng husband ko who are my friends na ren, and same building pa kung saan kami nakatira)

i told my husband na may mga nanliligaw sa akin na ibang guys, and that hindi ko sila pinapansin.  sinabi ko ren ang pakay nung mga guys which is s*x.  i told him how many they are, their age and  race, and how i met them.  i was expecting him na matamaan and matauhan na nagpapaganda ang asawa nya para sa kanya, which i told him na ren naman, always.

until nainis na ako ng todo dahil sinasabi nyang antok na sya, and lagi nya sinasabing ang taba taba ko, etc.  i told him, "please naman, tulungan mo akong hindi makagawa ng kasalanan sa iyo.  kasi natutukso na ako makipagsex sa iba.  kasi lagi mo pinamumukha na pangit and mataba ako, and need pa kitang hintaying yayain ako for the s*x.  kahit babae ako, naghahanap ren ako ng s*x."

it took me two times to tell him that then ayun.  medyo natauhan.  we have s*x naman at least once a week.  pero yung matanggihan ang ako as wife sa kama ng husband ko, masakit sa akin, and masakit sa lahat ng babae.  yun ang hindi ko na matanggap.  i tried another technique that i saw here on girltalk (thanks to this forum!)  minsan afternoon pa lang "nagpaparamdam" na ako.  and okay naman.  gumagawa na ren sya ng paraan.  then medyo nageexperiment na ren kami ng iba't ibang position. 

in short, need nyang matauhan.  me and my husband is married since 2006 with two kids.  this year month of january lang sya "natauhan".

if you did everything na, like niseduce mo na, ask him what the problem is, or even u tried my technique above (which is hindi yun white lie kasi natutukso na talaga ako as in tuksong tukso), and nothing happened.  baka naman...

- may iba sya.
- naaaddict sya sa strip clubs and he prefers that kahit manuod lang sya.
- he is not that masculine.  baka medyo natatauhan sya at hindi pala babae ang gusto nya.
- nag sasawa na sya sa s*x.  maybe you can ask him kung nagsasawa sya.
- he got a problem na hindi nya alam kung paano nya sasabihin sa iyo.  kaya pag nakikita ka nya, naaalala lang nya yung problem.
- or baka he got a problem with his tool and ayaw nyang malaman mo.  check if his tool still stands up during madaling araw kapag tulog sya.

yan ang mga naiisip kong possible problem.  sorry for being too straight forward


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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #25 on: March 26, 2014, 06:40:36 pm »
He's already separated for more than 2 years already. We are living together. We both have children but we don't live with them.  Kami dalawa lang talaga mag kasama the whole time.  We are always together as in 24/7. Pag may lakad sya parati akong kasama.  We love being together. Perfect or close to perfect ang relationship namin except for the Sexy time which happens so rarely, mga once a week compared to 3-4x a week during our first 3 months together. It puzzles me and hurts me pag na turn down ako.  Super painful. Ang weird kasi alam ko guys can't say no pag nandyan na si wifey at nagyayaya. Ako I have to force him to the point na sometimes  nahihiya na ako sa sarili ko.  It's not the sex I'm really after.  It's the bonding, yung feel mo na while doing the act eh feel na feel mo yung intensity ng love nya sa iyo. And it's makes your relationship stronger pag ganun.  Alam ko wala syang ibang girl ako lang. Wala din syang physical problem. Talagang weird lang. Ako parati nag make ng first move. 

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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #26 on: April 02, 2014, 06:06:23 pm »
^Pag ayaw niya, mag-hubad ka and touch  yourself in front of him. Or try pag tulog na siya, around 1am, give him a head, junjun has a mind of its own so for sure titigas yun, then patungan mo na siya. Hehe. Kailangan kasi magising mo ulit yun manlihood niya.. mukhang nagbakasyon kasi eh.  ;D
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #27 on: April 03, 2014, 01:12:28 pm »
^^ hindi kaya parang malungkot ren sya pag dating ng gabi.  baka iniisip nya mga anak nya

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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #28 on: April 08, 2014, 12:35:42 am »
I already gave up. Kung ayaw nya di ok lang. But I would never go out of my way to seduce him again. Masakit talaga. Tinutulog ko nalang yung sama ng loob ko. Yun lang kasi pati yung lambing ko parang pigil na din unlike before. I'm a super romantic person. Touchy and showy. But how can you make lambing pag may kinikimkim ka na sama ng loob sa hubby mo.

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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #29 on: April 08, 2014, 12:42:14 am »
I don't believe na 24/7 na may iniisip syang problem, whether business or children. May time out naman siguro kahit papaano. Like what everyone says, how can men specially your husband say no once your wife starts making the 1st move. Aren't men horns by nature?

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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #30 on: April 08, 2014, 10:56:20 am »
I don't believe na 24/7 na may iniisip syang problem, whether business or children. May time out naman siguro kahit papaano. Like what everyone says, how can men specially your husband say no once your wife starts making the 1st move. Aren't men horns by nature?

men are rational creature (sorry, i associated guys to animals).
so, mas lamang ang sinasabi ng pride o brain kaysa sa dick and balls nila.

How I wish it was that way. If I I want for him to initiate things it's gonna take him weeks to do that. We used to make love everyday or every other day. Hangang naging madalang nalang. When I try to touch him he would say no, bukas nalang. Pag bukas na wala naman. Of course sumasama loob ko. I just keep keep quiet and pretend nothings wrong. I try again after a day, pero wala. I try being gentle while touching him nakikikiti naman. Don't know na nga what to do eh.  Kiss him wala din.  Pagod sya,  plenty excuses like Daming problems.  Sometimes maririnig mo yun nalang ba important sa iyo?  After not making love for almost a week syempre how does he expect me to react? I try to make my move pero wala. Masakit. So am I doing something wrong?  Do I need to try harder? 


How young are you guys if i may ask?
Also, try to wear something sexy as in wear nothing underneath while inside the house. baka mapansin ka nya in such a way na maturn on sya.
 
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #31 on: April 08, 2014, 03:30:54 pm »
true ba na ang pag lick ng nipples ng guy at rimming eh nakaka-turn on?

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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #32 on: April 09, 2014, 12:05:02 am »
^I read (from thought catalog) na a guy's nipple daw is not as sensitive as a girl's, so licking them doesnt particularly turn them on.

What is rimming?
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #33 on: April 09, 2014, 01:20:05 am »
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #34 on: April 09, 2014, 12:49:44 pm »
sensual touching, hugging, a bit of dirty whispering works, i guess hehe
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #35 on: April 09, 2014, 12:54:34 pm »
true ba na ang pag lick ng nipples ng guy at rimming eh nakaka-turn on?

yep, try licking and sucking his nips while giving HJ.

its sort of analingus. the skin between the balls and the anus;

lick that part and you'll see his reaction to the sensation you're giving him. 
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #36 on: April 09, 2014, 03:52:02 pm »
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #37 on: April 10, 2014, 11:16:08 am »
yep, try licking and sucking his nips while giving HJ.

its sort of analingus. the skin between the balls and the anus;

lick that part and you'll see his reaction to the sensation you're giving him.


what is HJ?

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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #38 on: April 10, 2014, 11:24:40 am »
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Re: how to turn guys on in bed??
« Reply #39 on: April 10, 2014, 11:31:02 am »
ahh..ok..sorry for my innocence.. lolz

 


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