Wrong and Bad Relationship

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@ amethyst028
Of course I feel bothered... kaya nga sabi ko din sa first post ko, one of the reasons kung bakit hindi ko narin sya binalikan pa... Kahit pa masaya ako noon, I wanted and needed a reason to break it up with him. Kasi mali. Sobrang mali. At dun din naman patutungo yon....magtatapos at magtatapos din.

You are so right and accurate with everything you said.

anyway, it's a good thing you ended it with this other guy. wala ka naman talaga mapapala sa ganung sitwasyon. ikaw ang talo. and it doesn't matter kung ano nakukuha niya sa current gf niya. he chose to stay with her regardless kaya hayaan mo na sila. if you are currently in a relationship then focus ka na lang sa bf mo. make it work with him. kung hindi ka masaya break it off and find someone better.

true na mahirap lang naman iyan sa umpisa. masakit kasi bago pa lang. use your head this time. isipin mo na lang na wala siyang kwenta and may darating na mas higit. trust and keep your faith. Prayers really help. goodluck sa pag move on. keep going forward and don't look back. walang magandang dinudulot ang pag balik sa past. be thankful that it's over.

Thank you so much sis.......... It was a hard decision to completely shut out someone na mahal ko pa. Tinaboy ko sya...literally. Masakit. Pero isinasaksak ko sa utak ko na eto ang tama.  Everyday, I deal with the painful memories that he left behind. Lahat ng pinag-daaanan kong sakit sa kanya. LAHAT. Sana...moving on is just an overnight process. I feel so broken having loved someone so much and being hurt badly in return. I struggle all the time para panindigan ko yung decision ko kahit masakit.

Sa utak lang, maliwanag naman isipan ko. Hindi naman na ako nabubulagan pa or anything para maniwala na may chance pa kami. Malinaw naman na g**o sya. I just needed help to keep my heart strong and tough.... and eventually, I hope it heals narin from all the wounds he inflicted.

A friend told me..... that I needed the pain he caused para lumayo ako.... God allowed the pain to happen.... it was what I prayed for afterall.... a reason... to finally end a wrong and bad relationship...

[Cessiechu]

Sis sobrang naaawa ako sa nangyare sayo. No one deserves this kind of treatment. Dapat ang babae inaalagaan at hinde ginaganito. Masyado ka na niya pinahirapan. Pasalamat ka na lang kay Lord at na-save kapa niya sa relationship na ito. Merong tao nakalaan talaga sayo kaya wag mo sayangin ang buhay mo sa taong ito. Be strong sis, malalampasan mo ito, at darating ang araw tatawanan mo ang sarili mo sa pagiging t**** sa kanya. I know the process of moving on is hard, pero eventually you will get through it. fight fight sis! <3

[rain163]

Sis sobrang naaawa ako sa nangyare sayo. No one deserves this kind of treatment. Dapat ang babae inaalagaan at hinde ginaganito. Masyado ka na niya pinahirapan. Pasalamat ka na lang kay Lord at na-save kapa niya sa relationship na ito. Merong tao nakalaan talaga sayo kaya wag mo sayangin ang buhay mo sa taong ito. Be strong sis, malalampasan mo ito, at darating ang araw tatawanan mo ang sarili mo sa pagiging t**** sa kanya. I know the process of moving on is hard, pero eventually you will get through it. fight fight sis! <3

Thanks so much... alam mo, all that remains now is pain. Pero thank God nakayanan ko na umalis sa ganung klaseng relationship. Nakapaka manipulative nya. At narealize ko lang lahat yon after. As of now, I'm doing so much better without him. Although he still sends me emails hoping na nababasa ko pa, hindi nako nakikipag communicate sa kanya.

Thank God for everything. And thank you mga sissies for helping me get through this..... God bless everyone.