EX-GIRLFRIEND

[annd]

Im just curious if im the only one here dealing some problems with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend.

so here's what happened, her friends followed me in instagram and when i checked their instagram, all of them are commenting about me. i told my friend about this and we made a dummy account in instagram so we can follow all of them. now, she's cursing on instagram, trash talking, and her friends messaged me that she and my bf is having an affair. i did not reply because i want to be civil, refined and i dont want to stoop down on their level. the exgf also messaged me about what her friends told me are not true. i told my boyfriend about this. he called his ex-gf and asked her to stop this nonsense. one of her friends messaged me and she's saying sorry for all the things that they have said to me and none of them is true.

right now, the exgf is still cursing on instagram. putting hashtags on her pictures such as #dontworrybitch #iwillnevertalktoyourboyfriendagain #hashtagleftover #iyongiyongna #angpangitmo #masmagandaAKOsayo

until now, im not doing anything, not because im afraid of her or whatever her friends will say. me and my friends are just laughing about it because of their / her jeje posts in instagram..

i prefer not to reply, or say anything online that would make me look stupid. my character is more important than my reputation, and i dont want to deal with stupid people. 


how about you girls, do you have any experience?

post away!

xoxo

[katrinac]

^ bilib ako sayo sis, kasi hindi mo pinatulan yung ex. kinausap mo na ba si bf mo regarding sa ex nya? tingin ko lang bitter talaga sya, and naiinggit. or baka hindi maganda yung break up nila ng bf mo. kaya ganyan nalang sya. and ipagpatuloy mo lang yang ginagawa mo, wag mo nalang sya patulan.  and i suggest, i block mo nalang mga friends nya, then i private mo ang profile mo. 

[simang]

^no don't block them! And dont make your profile private! Let them see your awesome life at ng lalo silang maging bitter. And para rin may source of laughter ka paminsan minsan. Haha. Masaya kaya magbasa ng ganyan lalo na alam mong pampam lang. So tama, wag mo patulan. Pero wag mo iblock para masaya

[tomatostellar]

I think youre on the right track naman correct - dont stoop to their level, dead ma na lang and enjoy na lang kayo ni BF, focus on what's more important ~ your relationship with BF

[annd]

hi mga sis! yes, we talked about it already pero wala, ako deadma lang. haha i dont have time for his psycho exgf. i also read that she mentioned im not mentally stable. sa isip ko na lang, sure ka ba, e ikaw itong puro trash talk at puro mura yung instagram.

never naman ako nagprivate ng instagram ko, siya yung dating nakaparivate then nag public siya para makita namin yung mga trash talk niya sakin. hahaha wala, deadma lang kami ng mga friends ko. i hope she can eat her make up so she can be pretty in the inside too. haha!!

[katrinac]

ramdam ko from here pag ka insecure ng ex nya sayo sis. hehe

[aquacharly]

Do I have any experience?
Medj madami.

My 1st BF was a string of disasters waiting to happen.  Kasi I wasn't allowed to go on dates. Sya naman go ng go on dates -- mga proms, debuts, grad balls.  So 50-50 yan. Due to immaturity, 2 way siraan.  Lol
The 2nd BF --  was much older, eh at first the women after this good-catch BF didn't take our short-lived relationship seriously. 
Tapos with hubby --  naku, yan! Married na kami -- landian galore pa rin mga women!  Andyan talaga nag kampi kampi sila to weave a story na como minor pa ko, napikot si hubby, pakukulong as rapist unless --, preggers daw ako malanding bata.   Well, oo  malandi at bata, but not preggers, no pikot -- our first kid came after 5 years. 

Ignore toxic exes. Do not react, do not give them that satisfaction. Mga gusto lang  sipain sarili nila kasi naisahan mo sila. 

[annd]

you are right aquacharly. i actually wrote about her in my blog, but there are no trash talks or anything that would hurt her feelings. i even wrote there that may god bless her soul. and i didnt know na finafollow nya pala blog ko. actually, hindi ko rin ini-expect because nobody replies sa blog ko. usually, panlabas lang ng sama ng loob or practice in writing lang. aba, nagreply ba naman sa blog ko and did all the trash talking there. omg. nakaka stress lang siya sa totoo lang. i did not delete my blog, kasi wala naman ako masamang sinabi. sinabi ko lang na im letting it all go at bahala na si lord. nag reply ng "so, you think you're special? he cheated on you!!!! hahaha you wish!" and my friend saw her instagram account na puro hashtag na naman about me. i told my friend na wag na namin pag usapan at patulan kasi nakakarindi siya.

[mommycute46]

Ex niya? The first time nakialam ako is when the girl message me on FB. Blame it to pregnancy hormones, I make patol. But now  I just ignore her.  As long as she will not bother the present and the future. She should remain in the past, kaya nga "EX".

[justin3]

TS - walang duda, tamang yang ginagawa mo at mga payo ng mga sissies dito... i concur! 

i just wanna clarify... is the BF you are referring to in this thread is the same BF in this thread 2 months ago?  http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,280443.msg7725062.html#msg7725062

may trust issues ka kasi sa dating BF mong married alien eh.

now, kung "new" BF na naman to... ano ba to, siguradong "walang sabit" na to?
the EX you are refering, sadyang EX-GF? hindi naman EX-Wifey?

may nangyari na kasi dito dati (hindi ko lang matandaan ang exact situation) yung tipong sya yung kinakawawa. maawa ka kasi akala mo inaapi sya ng boung mundo... yon pala sya yung nang-aagrabyado ng nirereklamo nya.

wala lang. malikot lang ang isip ko.  130+ lang kasi posts mo, madaling basahin. peksman!

[cecilydee]

^haha sinubaybayan ko rin ang story niya sa kabila youre so good in back reading lol.

TS, if its the same guy..question ko lang, nakapagpahinga ba ang puso mo? wala pa kasing three months since you mentioned your married indian bf before...pahinga lang sis pag may time. #sincereadvice lang

[k_fine]

my late bf's then ex-gf used to send me text messages na ang pangit ko daw. tinetext din niya nuon si late-bf na pinapapunta sa bahay nila at kung ano2x pa. pinapakita naman sa akin ni late-bf. when late-bf died, her friends went to the wake. siya hindi.

[pumpkin13]

Usapang ex-girlfriend, share ko lang story ko. In this case, I was the ex-gf. Pero hindi ako yung ex na katulad nung kay TS. I never bashed or said anything bad about the current gf. Maybe because the break-up was mutual and we remained friends.

The then-gf started to text me, pakilala nya sakin was cousin daw sya ni guy. I asked kanino sya anak kasi kilala ko lahat ng cousins ni guy from both parents' side. Hindi na sya makasagot so I gathered gf siguro sya. I texted my ex and told him that his gf was texting me, pero wala naman masamang sinabi, nagpanggap lang na cousin. So the guy let it go. Siguro my mistake was I didn't really cut all my ties with the guy's family because they didn't. Sabi nila kasi kami lang naman yung nagbreak so wag ko daw sila idamay. Then I talked to them na for the sake of the then-gf, hindi na muna ako magpaparamdam sa kanila.

So inaaway ako ni girl sa text, she would even call me kahit late night na, giving me warnings to stop communicating with my ex. So I did stop. From the then-gf's perspective, malamang napakasama kong ex kasi she was saying na hindi sya makaalis sa shadow ko. I even talked to the guy to stop talking to me because it was obvious that we couldn't really be friends without hurting his gf's feelings.

Kaso lang kahit na anong layo ko physically, emotionally and mentally, hindi tumatahimik si girl. Inaaway nya pa din ako. She even drank isophrophyl alcohol and threatening the guy that she would commit suicide pag hindi ako nawala sa eksena. Nabalitaan ko lang to sa friends ko. Kaya naguguluhan ako nun kasi I was not a bad ex-gf, at least in my knowledge. Besides, may bf na din ako nun eh. Hindi ako nanggugulo, pinutol ko lahat ng relationships ko with them para matahimik na sila. Tapos ganun pa sya.

Eventually, napagod na din si guy sa kanya, nakipagbreak sa kanya pero hindi naman sya nag-suicide. Tapos she messaged me on FB saying, "Isa na din akong ex-gf ngayon. Masaya ka na?" Hindi ko na lang nireplyan. After a year, may bago na ulit gf si guy. This time mabait naman. Nung nasa getting to know each other phase pa lang sila and talking about their exes, ako daw yung ex na gusto nya mameet and not the latest one. Kasi daw inaaway sya ni girl. Sabi ko hayaan na lang nya, wag na patulan, gwapo kasi ni guy eh (pero hindi naman) hahaha!

[MsAphrodite]

I can totally relate with you sis annd, my boyfriend's ex-gf is spreading rumors and shits that my boyfriend still loves her, and that I should be threatened. Her friends also stalked me on instagram, and if incase I posted a picture of a quote that has nothing to do with her (e.g., relationship quotes), they'd know it, and they'd post one too on their acct. I stalk them too kasi, I was praning na they're talking abt me since they stalked me first, they even tagged me in one of their post saying I'm malandi and uneducated. I never post back to them or replied, because for me one of the greatest revenge for people who're spreading s*** is by ignoring them, in that way they'd look stupid 'cause they're very angry and yet, ako cool na cool lang. Also, they're saying na I'm uneducated day, ohhh. Look who's talking, eh sila nga tong kung maka tag sakin eh kala nila kasali ako sa circle of friends nila. They're really bitter kasi of what had happened kaya ganun.

[graZiousa]

Tama sis dont block them para makita nila ang happening sa life mo at syimpre puro masaya ang makikita nila diba..

[imyourangel]

Hanga din ako sayo sis at hindi mo pinatulan. Ako kasi, pinatulan ko yung babae. Though in a nice way naman.

Anywhoo, nakakainis yung mga ex girlfriends na ganyan ano? Bitter ocampo much.