Happy Marriages

[MomTycoon]

I have been married for a year and a half and My marriage is far from perfect pero i know we are happy. Give and take parati, si hubby give, si wife ang take diba? Just kidding. I learned talaga na when you get married, dapat talaga united kayo as one. Walang bilangan na kesyo ginawa ko ito, ako nagbayad para dito, dapat tulungan.

[cmax]

We've been married sa civil for 12 years and this year we are getting married sa church naman! Wala na sya talaga sa plan namin kasi parang inuna na ang para sa family. Ang saya lang kasi kahit papano, mairaraos din namin bilang thanksgiving sa lahat ng blessings sa family. Sabi nga ng wedding host namin during our meeting, 12 years in the making daw ang church wedding namin hehe!

[simang]

^aww congratulations sis!

I know a couple (teacher ko nung college yung guy) ganyan din, they got married sa church nun 10th civil wedding anniv nila. It was one of the most touching vows na narinig ko sobrang everyone was crying. Iba yung dating nung vows nila it felt talaga na marami na silang pinagdaanan pero it felt so real and hindi lang pasweet. Haha. God bless your wedding sis, and your family as well.

[CITIgirl_04]

We just got married last month and by the grace of God and mercy, masasabi ko sa kabila man ng mga trials, na masaya ang married life namin. We've been living together for almost 9 years, already have 4 kids, before we got married. Though I know na hindi ito basehan at growing maturely as a couple is a constant, change process, awa ng Diyos... nakakalagpas kami sa pagsubok. Lalo na ngayon na dedicated kaming dalawang mag-asawa sa paglilingkod sa kanya. And, ansarap palang banggitin ng word na 'asawa ko' kesa sa 'live-in partner ko'...

yun lang..

[cmax]

thank you sis simang. may we all be truly blessed with the things that matter the most.

[m_lim]

IMO, walang Happy marriage all the time. kumbaga eh, pana panahon lang. kasi pwedeng nauna na nagloko, kaya ngayon happy na.

[Red Rack 21]

sixteen years married here sis...and ours is still a marriage in progress.  infidelity was never a problem with  hubby and  he  is far from perfect but  we're still together. it's like a roller coaster ride sis...when you are happy... sobra talagang happy. kapag malungkot... hay tamang depressed ka talaga. paulit-ulit lang sya na ganon ang buhay may asawa. ang importante walang iwanan hanggang sa huli kayo pa din. good luck sis!

[brendzy]

Hi sis! Congrats! Marriage is really an exciting blessing in life of course next to being a mom. 
My hubby and I is approaching our 3rd year on our marriage. A very happy marriage, no kabit issue or third party na nainvolve. on our first year, LDR kami then on the 2nd year, I followed him in abroad at duon na talaga nasubok ang marriage namin, primarily because of our expectations with less communication. Good thing, we joined this couple fellowship, we have counselors that gives us sound advices. More on how to deal with your differences that still keeping you happy, intimate, in-love and inspire each other. Communication is really vital sa buhay naming mag-asawa, we set a time when we need to talk serious matters. There was even a time when I voiced out my bed insecurities LOL! He is my better half so he should know what I feel. next is to listen to what he says. I also learn deal and meet half way, I learned that regardless how much a person love you, it's not always about you, but "US, WE", same thing with him.
Now, even we do not have any issue, I try to talk to some friends and elders on how we can work out better our marriage, it will be a long way, a work in progress, there will be a lot of struggles that we'll going to encounter.  But the best thing is we have God on our midst.

Goodluck with your marriage sis, I pray that we both will have the courage and strength to face the challenges along the way TOGETHER!

[graZiousa]

kami ng hubby for mag to-two years pa lang kaming kasal.. wala pa rin kaming baby, magkalayo kami dahil sa trabaho. twice a month lang kaming nagkikita. Pero sa kabila ng sitwasyon namin, I thank God na mas lalo akong nagtitiwala sa kanya sya din sa akin masasabi ko sa lahat ng bagay. mas pinahahalagahan namin ang communication and quality time.. Gusto na namin magkaanak pero I'm under medication pa as of now and until end of this year. Sabi nga ng hubby ni Agot Isidro na bonus nalang daw ang magkaroon ng anak kasi Agot is her baby...ang sweet naman talaga, grabe..

[Red Rack 21]

^ but Agot and Manu Sandejas have separated na  since 2011 pa. oh well, maybe they were not able to surpass the trials. out of topic na. but marriage is not really made in heaven. ...and i'd say it helps a lot if you share the same values in life.

[louiesmom]

Just celebrated our 7th wedding anniv. It wasn't easy pero accomplishment na namin pareho yun na buo kami hanggang ngayon. Natuto kami ng maraming bagay that helped us in nurturing our relationship. Pansin ko nga ngayon hindi na kami madalas mag-argue. Pag naiinis ang isa, natatawa na lang kami. Am sure marami pang pagdadaanan pero IMO kelangan talaga mabuild muna yung foundation niyo e.

[marge070407]

one year na kami ni hubby and so far mas pasaya ng pasaya ang marriage namin. I'm very lucky to have a husband na sobrang bait at family man talaga. Ang reklamo ko lang kasi overwork na siya. Nag-double job pa kahit hindi pa naman namin masyado kailangan at wala pa naman kami anak na sinusuportahan. Minsan guilty na din ako dahil he's working hard para mabigay ang luho ko. As a wife hindi rin ako pala-hingi kasi hindi ako masyado materialistic. Kaya lang ang asawa ko masyado generous sa akin na kinakatakot ko din dahil ayaw ko masanay sa material things. Gusto niya lahat ng gadgets updated ako pati ang mga gamit sa bahay na hindi ko naman kailangan gusto niya meron ako.

[graZiousa]

ay nakkahiya naman, hindi ako updated heheh Red Rack ..

[angelparvian]

me too. i thought wala ng pagasa ang relationship namin. however when ive learned to accept his weaknesses (hehe pero minsan naiinis pa rin ako) but now im more open for his weaknesses. we are happier now

[luckymommy88]

Through the years husband and I have embraced our imperfections kaya siguro happy pa din kami together. Mas prefer niya ang activities with me than his friends-sports, coffee,jog or even simply watching movies. Habang tumatagal mas nagiging maeffort din siya sa surprises nya, malambing kahit ordinary days. Even amidst our ups and down he remain to be the most patient and matured person I've known.

[sazleang]

Best Wishes Sis! I know how you feel.. "Wedding jitters" . Pero don't worry you wedding is the start of life being as one. Maraming marami na darating na challenges na matetest talaga yun love nyo sa isat isa. Kami ni hubby, happily married kami 1 year palang pero eto first challenge namin.. Hirapan kami magkababy pero still, we face this challenge together.. Sama kami mag Novena, sayaw sa obando, check up and all the lab works, accupuncture, lahat yan kasama ko sya. And we even talked about what if wala talaga???... Sabi nya.. Its fine as long as we have each other. Ganyan talaga sis, iba iba ang prob ng bawat mag asawa. Wag kang matakot. As long as you both put GOD as the center your Marriage, He will strengthen your love for each other and guide your Marriage all the way

[pinkpotato]

7 years married, still alive and kicking! haha. Yep, very happy. Salamat sa Diyos.

Pero I think all these years, ang asawa ko ang nagbibigay, nagpapasensya at nagtataguyod ng pamilya. He does all the effort. Taga polish na lang ako and I like it that way. My husband has become the very ideal father and husband. He does everything to please me and I do almost nothing to please him. Kaloka. Ang sama ko lang talaga. Kasi siguro alam ko na mahal nya ako kaya ang arte ko lang most of the time haha. but promise, I love him.

[baby_g8]

I've been married for 12 years. Been through a lot of difficulties, challenges sa married life. Siguro if mahina ang faith ko kay Lord pag dating sa mga problems, bumigay na ako talaga na parang you wanted to get out of that life. Pero mabait si Lord.. nakikita nya lahat ng mga pinag daanan namin ng husband ko. If you pray and put God in the center of your relationship, hindi maliligaw ang relationship nyong mag asawa.

[momlory]

I was looking for this thread. Buti meron ganitong post.

[eilin0823]

we promise we will..