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Re: Sex with Relatives?
« Reply #40 on: November 23, 2015, 07:34:37 pm »
i'm ok naman. :) happily married.

siguro di ko rin kasi naintindihan yung nangyayari nun kaya hindi ko rin siya masyadong iniisip unless pilitin kong alalahanin.

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Re: Sex with Relatives?
« Reply #41 on: November 24, 2015, 05:49:56 pm »
I have a fantasy of doing it pero siguro kung mga 2nd degree cousin ko na or kung hindi ko kaclose at hindi lagi nakikita and someone na ka-age ko lang and lastly KUNG super hot and hunk, yung tipong artistahin talaga. Haha! Since wala naman ako ganyang cousin, so nganga na lang.

Pero I know someone na gawain yan. He's my bestfriend dati. Medyo may pagkaimbestigador kasi ako eh. So medyo nagduda ako dun sa palagi nya kinekwento nun na long time girlfriend nya dati na pinsan nya ata yun kasi magkaapelyido sila  nung isang pinsan nya. It turns out kapatid pala yun ng pinsan nya kaya pinsan nya rin pala. So umamin na rin sya. I think ilang years sila nun. Galing kasing province yung girl, nung nagcollege sya dito sa Manila dun sya tumira sa bahay nga nung cousin nya, yun nga yung bestfriend ko. Dun na nagsimula relasyon nila hanggang sa makagraduate yung babae. Kapag nagkukwentuhan kami ng bestfriend ko nun about sa sex life nila, lagi lagi raw. Hindi na ko magtataka kasi laging wala parents nya sa bahay nila, gabi na umuuwi at malamang silang dalawa lang lagi tao dun.

Pero yung relasyon nila nun hindi lang para sa sex kasi kita ko talaga na seryoso sya dun sa girl eh. Minsan naitanong ko kung di ba sila nahuhuli non. Sabe nya naghihinala raw mama nya pero di naman napoprove.

Nung grumaduate yung girl at umalis na sakanila, nagkaron na rin sya ng ibang bf. Nakita ko kung gano nasaktan yung bestfriend ko japag nakukwento nya sakin yun. Nasabe pa nya nun na bumalik lang daw yung girl, handa sya itanan yun. So inlove nga talaga sya.

Ok na na hindi sila nagkatuluyan kasi malaking eskandalo sa family nila at hindi talaga magandang tignan. Saka di ba kapag ganun may chance na magkadeprensya magiging anak nila? Totoo ba yung ganun?

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« Reply #42 on: December 02, 2015, 09:57:06 pm »
^yup totoo yun may diperensya ang nagiging anak. May kilala ako yung parents nila second cousins silang lahat may something wrong sa blood nakalimutan ko Lang ang tawag pero lumalabas yun sa blood tests nila.

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« Reply #43 on: December 03, 2015, 12:10:41 pm »
It happen once with my younger cousin medyo lasing kaya un expected namin pareho, after that parang wala lang pag tapos. tas dun naman sa anak ng elder cousin ko yun naka 4th times kami kaso after that ako na ang nakipag off sa relationship namin kase baka mag ka problem pa kami pag nalaman, ngayon happily married na sila.  :)
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Re: Sex with Relatives?
« Reply #44 on: January 11, 2016, 03:57:44 am »
oh my, opened this thread to share some stories pero grabe mga nabasaa ko... i feel sorry sa mga sis na na-rob and innocence ng childhood at such an early age. i hope everyone's ok and doing well.

wala akong sexual experiences w/ cousins pero may 2 akong pinsan who tried to make their moves. yung isa cousin ko na taga-davao. bihirang bihira kami magkita. lumuwas sila dito sa manila for my lolo's burial, ayun panay hirit, compliments, may pasimpleng hipo sa braso na nakakailang. tas nung bumalik na sila sa davao text sha ng text na kesyo crush nya daw ako, gusto pa daw nya ako makilala. ayun binara bara ko and tinarayan ko and di ko na nireplyan ever.

tas yung isang pinsan ko naman. bihra din kami magkita pero ok kami as cousins mejo close and may constant communication. di ko alam ano nangyari pero one time magkausap kami sa fb, nagkakamustahan. bigla shang nag-open up na kesyo may problem daw sha. maliit daw yung "thingie" nya, gusto ko daw ba makita. i'm like whuuuuuuut  san galing yun?? naexperience ko pareho yan, adult na ko early twenties, sila late twenties na. gwapo sila pareho pero my gulay di ko keri eh sobrang baliktad sikmura levels. pag nagkikita kami ngayon, hiya sila lol di nila ko matignan ng diretso sa mata.

yung boss ko din sa unang work ko, first cousin nya asawa nya. yung anak nila may defect yung isang mata.

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« Reply #45 on: January 12, 2016, 12:38:55 pm »
The reason why nagkakaron ng certain medical condition/anomaly ang offspring ng magka-mag anak is that kasi if you came from the same blood line, you basically carry the same genetic makeup. So lahat ng sakit/medical condition that run in the family, double yung chances na ma-acquire ng anak.
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« Reply #46 on: January 12, 2016, 03:36:59 pm »
It's true na magkakadefect ang anak. I know someone personally na nabuntis ng half-brother niya. Hindi kasi sila sabay lumaki. Dalaga at binata na sila nung nalaman nilang magkapatid sila sa ama. Nagka-ibigan kahit alam nilang mali. Iyong anak nila may defect sa nose. May sugat sa upper part ng nose. Tapos kahit 5 years old na iyong bata hindi pa rin marunong magsalita. Pipi at bingi daw sabi ng tita ko. Hiwalay na iyong parents ng bata ngayon. May kanya-kanyang lovelife na. Mabuti narealize nila na mali sila pero nakakaawa iyong bata. Iyong bata nagsuffer sa immorality nila.
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« Reply #47 on: January 12, 2016, 05:33:58 pm »
May kakilala ako. Magpinsan sila I dont know kung anong degree pero sure na blood related sila. Yung anak nila is nasa 21 na ngayon pero yung maturity nya parang 15 yrs old lang. Wala naman syang defect physically.

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« Reply #48 on: January 13, 2016, 08:05:49 am »
meron naman ako kilala, kwento niya yung lolo or parents ng lolol nila was magpinsan 2nd degree ata, and they've been studying themselves kung meron "glitch" sa katawan nila or psychology or what...

but the only thing they could make out is all off them that came from that marriage were really intelligent. like yung kanyang older sibling once lang nagbabasa ng libro alam na. even for board review once lang nagbasa. pumasa. ganun sila katalino
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Re: Sex with Relatives?
« Reply #49 on: January 15, 2016, 01:25:59 pm »
If I have a daughter, I will tell her everyday not to let anyone touch her private parts, and draw a human body with areas where NO ONE, male or female, is supposed to touch. I'll teach her to clean her private parts on her own, even if I give her a bath. I will tell her not to sit on their tito's laps, not to spend time alone with male cousins and uncles, and run away fast at the moment someone tried to kiss their lips and touch their thighs, waist, butt, and V.

If I have a son, I will do the same. I will also tell him, not to attempt to touch any girl without consent and self-awareness, since he might damage these young girls forever. Hold their hands, only if he means well.

I was molested since 3 years old. Maybe even younger. I witnessed older sisters experience the same. Uncle, cousin, and driver. Since I was so young, I didn't know that it was wrong. It really affected my childhood because sexual acts became normal play for us. We thought playing nanay-tatay is normal. It's possible that the young cousins who taught us sexual acts were also molested in their own households as well. Else, they wouldn't know these acts on their own. This is not just for girls. I know a guy who was molested by his yaya

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Don't have kids if you have to leave them to yayas, boy, or relatives. If you're not ready, don't push it. I'd rather abort my pregnancy that leave them at home, knowing anyone can molest them at any moment.

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Re: Sex with Relatives?
« Reply #50 on: February 25, 2016, 03:51:41 pm »
Medyo naging worried din ako. Yung house namin, andun yung nephew ko. yung daughter ko, parents ko nagaalaga kase nagaabroad kami magasawa... baby pa naman yung anak ko.. pero siguro dapat din mapagsabihan ko yung anak ko habang lumalaki sya at pagagawan ko sya ng sarili nya talaga kwarto.. para hindi sya maexpose sa ganun.. mahirap na din...
« Last Edit: February 25, 2016, 03:54:21 pm by Pinklet »

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« Reply #51 on: February 26, 2016, 09:28:46 am »
Wala akong personal experiences, pero sabi ni boyfriend mga ilang beses na nya natry with his cousins, at talamak talaga yung ganun sa both sides ng pamilya in both older and younger generations. I don't blame them, ang ganda ng genes nila hahahaha! Pero yeah very careful lang na hindi magkaroon ng accidents...

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Re: Sex with Relatives?
« Reply #52 on: March 31, 2016, 01:31:37 am »
never! nakaka gulat na may mga ganyan palang experiences iba nating sissies. as early as 6 or 7 na experience na mga ganoong scenario, kaya dapat talaga bata pa maturuan na natin mga anak natin para hindi nila maexperience. naalala ko when i was 6 or 7 nag babahay bahayan din kame. ngayon ko lang narealize na hinahawak hawakan din ng playmates ko private parts ko (except sa baba) without me knowing na parang sex na pala un

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« Reply #53 on: December 29, 2016, 01:04:13 am »
Ang titindi ng mga stories niyo.
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« Reply #54 on: December 30, 2016, 07:48:30 am »
Thankfully, I do not have any traumatic experience similar to what I read. It's very clear though that some of you guys were sexually abused. 

I attended a full day seminar about sexual abuse in children. Ang mga abusers kasi usually talaga ay either relatives or someone the family really trusts. Kaya kung me mga anak kayo, turuan nyo na na walang pwedeng humawak sa private parts nila kung hindi sila or ikaw lang. Unfortunately, kahit mismong father dapat hindi hahawakan ang private parts nila. You also have to teach them to tell you when someone is making them uncomfortable, to not be afraid kasi minsan tatakutin sila.
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« Reply #55 on: January 25, 2017, 08:54:11 pm »
I created another account just to hide my identity. I just want to share my experience at hirap na nangyari sa akin.
I have this experience noong bata ako. Tandang tanda ko pa mga 4 years old, I was molested by my tito. Tapos 3 cousins(mga bata pa sila noon), asawa ng tita ko, great grandpa. Bibigyan ako ng 10 or 5 pesos pambili ko daw ng candy. Madaming beses, not only twice, thrice.... as in from 4 years old hanggang nag graduate ako ng elementary.

Nandoon yung trauma pagka nakikitulog kami. Lakas ng kaba sobra. Tapos pray ako ng pray. Noong naghigh school ako, doon lang nastop. Hindi ako makapagsumbong, nandoon yung instinct na may mali sa ginagawa nila at para sa akin nakakahiya. Wala na rin kasi akong parents at ang nagpalaki lang sa akin mga tita at lola.

Nakagraduate ako sacollege, umalis na ako sa lugar na 'yon. Nakapag asawa, nagka-anak. Pagka naalala ko 'yon, parang nagpapasalamat ako kasi hindi ako nabaliw.

Noong nagkaroon ako ng anak, natakot ako kasi babae. At hinding hindi ko ipagkakatiwala kahit kanino. Kaya andoon yung paranoid ako na kahit malapit na kaibigan todo bantay ako.

Kaya sa mga nanay na gaya ko, lalaki man or babae ang anak, huwag ipagkakatiwala ang anak kahit kamag-anak mo pa.

Hindi ko nga alam papaano maovercome, sa totoo lang pagka naalala ko 'yong mga memories na ganoon, hindi ko mapigilan magalit. Pati Diyos sinisisi ko bakit nya ako pinabayaan. Pero y'ong sinasabi ng mga iba ditto na selected ang naalala, totoo yun. Tsaka hindi ganoon ka-pain, yong tipong mabaliw baliw ka sa pag-iisip. Nandoon yung sakit pero hindi ko maexplain siguro may ginawa ang Diyos para hindi ganoon kabigat sa dibdib.
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« Reply #56 on: January 25, 2017, 11:38:51 pm »
^I can not imagine having to experience that. I am glad though that at least to some extent na-overcome mo. It takes a very strong person to do that. Like I said, ang abusers most of the time ay relatives and people that the family really trust. So, wag ipagkatiwala basta kahit kanino ang mga anak natin. Kahit leaders pa yan ng church ninyo. Anyway, merong kanta si Amy Grant title Ask Me. Naalala ko bigla when I read your story.
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« Reply #57 on: January 31, 2017, 05:23:13 pm »
I created another account just to hide my identity. I just want to share my experience at hirap na nangyari sa akin.
I have this experience noong bata ako. Tandang tanda ko pa mga 4 years old, I was molested by my tito. Tapos 3 cousins(mga bata pa sila noon), asawa ng tita ko, great grandpa. Bibigyan ako ng 10 or 5 pesos pambili ko daw ng candy. Madaming beses, not only twice, thrice.... as in from 4 years old hanggang nag graduate ako ng elementary.

Nandoon yung trauma pagka nakikitulog kami. Lakas ng kaba sobra. Tapos pray ako ng pray. Noong naghigh school ako, doon lang nastop. Hindi ako makapagsumbong, nandoon yung instinct na may mali sa ginagawa nila at para sa akin nakakahiya. Wala na rin kasi akong parents at ang nagpalaki lang sa akin mga tita at lola.

Nakagraduate ako sacollege, umalis na ako sa lugar na 'yon. Nakapag asawa, nagka-anak. Pagka naalala ko 'yon, parang nagpapasalamat ako kasi hindi ako nabaliw.

Noong nagkaroon ako ng anak, natakot ako kasi babae. At hinding hindi ko ipagkakatiwala kahit kanino. Kaya andoon yung paranoid ako na kahit malapit na kaibigan todo bantay ako.

Kaya sa mga nanay na gaya ko, lalaki man or babae ang anak, huwag ipagkakatiwala ang anak kahit kamag-anak mo pa.

Hindi ko nga alam papaano maovercome, sa totoo lang pagka naalala ko 'yong mga memories na ganoon, hindi ko mapigilan magalit. Pati Diyos sinisisi ko bakit nya ako pinabayaan. Pero y'ong sinasabi ng mga iba ditto na selected ang naalala, totoo yun. Tsaka hindi ganoon ka-pain, yong tipong mabaliw baliw ka sa pag-iisip. Nandoon yung sakit pero hindi ko maexplain siguro may ginawa ang Diyos para hindi ganoon kabigat sa dibdib.

Hello sis. I'm sad to hear your story. When you're molested ba, as in nahawakan ka or narape ka? medyo kulang lang sa story. Hope you're doing fine now.

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Re: Sex with Relatives?
« Reply #58 on: January 31, 2017, 07:52:57 pm »
I was molested

 :'( sana ok ka na ngayon sis.. Alam ba ito ni mister? May napagsabihan ka na ba? O kaya sis hingi ka ng professional support sa doctor baka makatulong..

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Re: Sex with Relatives?
« Reply #59 on: February 04, 2017, 12:10:14 am »
Narape. Pero since ang vagina ng bata hindi pa fully ganoon kadevelop na parang adult, walang penetration.
Not totally ok kasi pag naalala ko,parang nandidiri ako. Wala akong pinagsabihan even my husband. 

Parang napatawad ko na sila, pero  dumadating talaga 'yong mga moment na naisip ko 'yong mga ginawa nila.

 


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