Bully

[joevicko]

may nang aaway ba sa inyo sa GT?

[Harper]

Been here for 5 years, nakakalimutan ko lang access ng account and pseudo e-mail - but so far, wala naman.  I find the members here to be respectable, karamihan nice, and sa lahat ng general forums na nasalihan ko, ito ang pinaka-OK.

[inluvewithmikewesten]

Wala pa naman, ba't may nang bully sa'yo sis? Sino 'yan?

[joevicko]

sis sakin wala personally, pero sa isang sis natin, my niece parang feeling nya pinersonal siya samantalang nag comment lang daw siya sa isang thread. since new lang siya (under probie status) akala nya inaway na siya  sinabihan daw siya ng "obviously wala kang alam sa pinagsasabi mo" kaya di na lang nya kinontinue yung pag popost sa GT

[mama squeak!]

^sis, tell your niece that she can use the RTM button to report any personal attacks. GT will not tolerate any bullying, trolling nor flaming in the forum. If talagang personal attack yung remarks then that would warrant a warning.

Ito lang ha sa tinatagal-tagal ko dito sa forum meron lang na mag-oppose sa opinyon nila they see it as attacking them na. Each and everyone is entitled to her/his own opinion. Minsan nga lang it is the way one posts his/her message na naiiba ang dating (I am not saying this is what happened to your niece ha). Kaya nga dapat talaga careful in using one's words or the tone in posting. I'll be brutally honest yung iba kasi hindi nag-iisip bago mag-post kaya napapa-away. Naku sis maraming ganyan dito.   

[evilwoman]

^^your niece is using your gt acccount?saw that post of yours in politics thread then may nagoppose na medyo strong nga ang statement.better rtm na lang if feeling ko personal attack na.pag din nagbubura ng post then gagawa ng istorya na hindi ako,kundi my niece, medyo nakakabawas ng credibilty kasi lalabas di mo kaya panindigan ang sinabi mo or aminin na mali ka.pag politics at celeb thread usually mga hot topic talaga so dapat kada post mo,dami ka baon na rason/depensa sa sasabihin mo.welcome sa gt.

[jenny.babe]

so far wala pa naman. maingat din ako sa pinopost and hindi ako nahihyang magsorry. iaccept man nila or hindi that's part of their conscience nalang and hindi sakin. move on nalang.

[charmedter]

Just to share, i posted recently lang sa isang thread, na kung tutuusin its all about my situation...tapos andami ng nagreact negatively dun sa pnost ko... Some of the comment i totally understand and alam mong tips and advise lang sinasabi but others judgemental ang dating..
 So what i did,i replied sa kanila and yun nga na may nice way to say your opinion and naoffend ako ng iba... Well,the nice thing about it, yung iba narealize nila yung pnost nila... May isa ako na talagang nashock ako, kasi parang and datingan ako lang yung naginarte na kaya forum yun etc (syempre sugar coated na yung words nya)... Kaya nakakatamad ng magcomment sa mga thread..

[jenny.babe]

^sis ok lang yan. Wag mo damdamin. Naexp ko na dn yan before, in real life situation with a bunch of awkward human beings, sharing of ideas kind of thing. Inisip ko nalang, iba iba ang opinion ng bawat tao kung nabastos man ako, hindi naman din ako yung magmumukang ewan kundi sila. May mga bagay na mahirap kalimutan kapag nasaktan yung pride mo,pero wag mo ng parusahan yung sarili mo,just move on kahit pa slowly.

[TysLolakins]

ako din, very careful ako sa choice of words and tone of my posts baka may ma-offend and you cannot tell with some people,  they could get confrontational.  as much as we still have anonymity here kahit may username,  pag yung threatening comment ay directed sa akin,  talagang i might take it personally.
wala pa naman akong na-experience na bullying in any form dito,  pero from backreading i've seen some exchanges of posts that really escalated into a heated argument, some with name calling pa.  i don't want that to happen to me.  so playing safe mode most of the time na lang.
and i don't comment on controversial issues.

[aquacharly]

She will learn.

I have come across as "bullying" daw.  But, had no intent/malice.   --- kasi I speak in a certain way -- palabiro.  Eh since no matching smile or touch, no body language -- the words may come across as taray or offensive, or hurtful.  So dapat bagalan ang pag type in ng words. hehe.

Heed this: 

ako din, very careful ako sa choice of words and tone of my posts baka may ma-offend and you cannot tell with some people,  they could get confrontational. 

(I apologize for any unintentional hurt I may have caused. Pero don sa ex-kabitch ni hubby -- I meant every word, and more. Lol).

Na bully din ako.  Siguro if we are not anonymous here, matagal na ko na sagasaan. 
We learn, we learn... Hopefully, bago ma Mute! Lol

Good advice: 

^sis, tell your niece that she can use the RTM button to report any personal attacks.

Ito lang ha sa tinatagal-tagal ko dito sa forum meron lang na mag-oppose sa opinyon nila they see it as attacking them na. Each and everyone is entitled to her/his own opinion. Minsan nga lang it is the way one posts his/her message na naiiba ang dating (I am not saying this is what happened to your niece ha). Kaya nga dapat talaga careful in using one's words or the tone in posting. I'll be brutally honest yung iba kasi hindi nag-iisip bago mag-post kaya napapa-away. Naku sis maraming ganyan dito.   

[seven82]

i've been a member of GT na din for years but most of the time lurker lang ako. may ilan kasi na hindi nila matanggap kapag iba ang opinion sa kanila.