To guys, ever had a gf na hindi ka ganun ka nagagandahan?

[stealthscorpio]

@tisaygirl

well I believe that when a woman makes you place too much effort in winning her over, the situation is doomed from the beginning. even if makuha mo siya, it's not ever worth if ang kapalit is the guy has to sacrifice his self-respect and dignity in the process. if you have to prove your worth to a woman by enduring tests and jumping through hoops, then obviously the woman thinks that you're not worth much. just think, magpapahard to get ba siya kung yung dream guy niya yung tumapat sa harap niya, of course not. kasi alam niyang kapag hindi niya kinuha ang pagkakataon na yon with that guy, then she may never get another chance with him again.

^
I think this an example of a "Brad Pitt Rule."

[graezieylicious]

Ayaw ng mga guys na sobrang pa hard to get, what is important is you are not a dormat.

[zarazan]

@tisaygirl123 Actually maraming babae ang nagpapaligaw with no intention of answering. I know a lot na tinatry lang magpaligaw tas dun itetest yung sparks. Which is not wrong but ayun nga, sila yung nageend up na pa-hard to get talaga.

[graezieylicious]

^Syempre we/they have standards no. I test the waters if compatible and okay ang personality. Para I know who am I dealing with.

[zarazan]

^I am just saying na may napapaligaw tas dun palang itetest. Meron din yung bibigyan lang ng chance if parang may onting spark na. There had been guys who showed interest in me pero at first walang spark, so I back off immediately.

[tisaygirl123]

^Syempre we/they have standards no. I test the waters if compatible and okay ang personality. Para I know who am I dealing with.

^ This. "I set my standards and test waters as well". Nice description.. Same tayo ng POV graezie.  Kumbaga sa pabango, you'll try first kung mag stastay ba ang amoy or babaho din after a few minutes.

^I am just saying na may napapaligaw tas dun palang itetest. Meron din yung bibigyan lang ng chance if parang may onting spark na. There had been guys who showed interest in me pero at first walang spark, so I back off immediately.

^ iba iba kasi talaga ang mga girls.. Like me, pag hindi ko gusto. wala na agad pag asa. pag ok naman siya bigyan ng chance but pag hindi nag work out/ hindi compatible, bakit pa itutuloy? sympre ibabasted na.
No need na paasahin. Bastedin agad.
Ps. I never give hanging endings.

[graezieylicious]

Hahaha sinasakyan ko kasi minsan eh.

[sacred cow]

^
I think this an example of a "Brad Pitt Rule."

yup

[t_r_i_s_h]

I agree with @tisay and @graezie it's like "let's cross the bridge when we get there"

[sacred cow]

Hindi naman super hard to get na kailangan pang mawalan ng self respect ang guy sa sarili.
What I'm trying to say here is mag effort. Sa panahon kasi ngayon ayos na pag nakita nilang maganda. mga babae naman, sinasagot agad hindi nila alam yung iba, iba din ang gusto sakanila

ok, masyado mo kasi sinasabing hard to get ka. ako naman I don't believe in ligaw, mas gusto ko 'going out' on dates. masyado kasi nagkakaroon ng false sense of entitlement ang mga babaeng nililigawan. instead of focusing my efforts to win a single girl mas sulit pang gamitin ang effort na yun through self improvement e.g. pagpapaganda ng katawan, makeover, improving social skills, making myself more successful sa business/career, mas marami pang babae ang magkakagusto sa'yo. besides panliligaw is putting the woman on a pedestal, it's actually counterproductive kasi kapag nanliligaw mas objective nung guy ang sagutin kesa makilala siya nung babae and vice versa as compared to dating that you are on equal ground. siyempre gusto ng girls, they have the upper hand (nasa kanila kung sasagutin or hindi) unlike dating where pwede ring iwan ni guy si girl when he thinks it's not working out

[graezieylicious]

^Point taken sacred cow. Actually guys like it when they know that girls like them too. Ako, im okay if ever sabihin ko na like ko yung guy. Pero pag nag feeling yung guy minsan nakaka turn off or nawawala yung like ko sa kanya eh.

[sacred cow]

^Point taken sacred cow. Actually guys like it when they know that girls like them too. Ako, im okay if ever sabihin ko na like ko yung guy. Pero pag nag feeling yung guy minsan nakaka turn off or nawawala yung like ko sa kanya eh.

yup, but just like girls when guys don't like the girl na may gusto sa kanila, wala rin kaming pakialam.

[graezieylicious]

HAHAHA ofcourse doon na ako sa ramdam kong may gusto sakin..duh! kung ayaw ng lalaki andami pa naman diyan no! hahahaha

[sacred cow]

HAHAHA ofcourse doon na ako sa ramdam kong may gusto sakin..duh! kung ayaw ng lalaki andami pa naman diyan no! hahahaha

^ exactly my point why guys shouldn't chase pa hard to get girls I'd rather find somebody who likes me na kaagad rather than try to convince someone to like me or put up with her tests to prove I'm whatever.

[tisaygirl123]

kapag nanliligaw mas objective nung guy ang sagutin kesa makilala siya nung babae and vice versa as compared to dating that you are on equal ground. siyempre gusto ng girls, they have the upper hand (nasa kanila kung sasagutin or hindi) unlike dating where pwede ring iwan ni guy si girl when he thinks it's not working out

-  For me, sympre kasabay ng objective na sagutin siya ng girl at the same time makilala niya/siya ang babae. Normal naman na pag nanliligaw you'll get to know more dahil nag dadate din naman kayo.. Impossible naman manligaw ka tapos hindi ka interested makilala or hindi mo siya makilala dahil hindi kayo nagkikita. That's very impossible.
Sympre pag nanliligaw, lalabas din kayo at mag dadate.
at nagpapalakas ang guy. Sino bang babae gaganahan na wala man lang ka effort effort para makuha ang girl na gusto nila.


Atska hard to get talaga ako. kasi Maganda ako! HAHAHA!

HAHAHA ofcourse doon na ako sa ramdam kong may gusto sakin..duh! kung ayaw ng lalaki andami pa naman diyan no! hahahaha

^Point taken sacred cow. Actually guys like it when they know that girls like them too. Ako, im okay if ever sabihin ko na like ko yung guy. Pero pag nag feeling yung guy minsan nakaka turn off or nawawala yung like ko sa kanya eh.

-AGREE AKO SA LAHAT NG SINABI MO GRAEZIE. haha! Asar ako sa guy na feeling gwapo. Pag ganon, binabasted ko na. pag d ako gusto, deadma naman ako sakaniya. haha!

[sacred cow]

Atska hard to get talaga ako. kasi Maganda ako! HAHAHA!

sure? baka feeling maganda ka lang tulad ng mga sinasabi mong guys na feeling gwapo...hahaha. masarap din pagtripan yung mga girls na ganun.

[tisaygirl123]

sure? baka feeling maganda ka lang tulad ng mga sinasabi mong guys na feeling gwapo...hahaha. masarap din pagtripan yung mga girls na ganun.

I'm very sure of that, so far hindi pa naman ako nabibigo pag sinasabi kong MAGANDA AKO. 

[stealthscorpio]

I'm very sure of that, so far hindi pa naman ako nabibigo pag sinasabi kong MAGANDA AKO. 

^
She's telling the truth..

[graezieylicious]

Hahahaha @sacred cow and tisaygirl theres nothing wrong having that GGSS vibe paminsan minsan..hehe keep it cool guys;-)

[sacred cow]

I'm very sure of that, so far hindi pa naman ako nabibigo pag sinasabi kong MAGANDA AKO. 

Ok, I believe you...madali naman ako kausap ano height mo tisaygirl?