Ano madalas ninyo napapagusapan ng partner nyo?

[simang]

Pag magkasama kami, d na kami nag cacatch up masyado kasi magkasama na kami e.

Kami naman baliktad; during weekdays na di kame magkasama, we text a little and call lang before sleeping just to catch up on each other's day. i save the major kwentos on weekends kung kelan magkasama kame, so mas marami kaming pinag uusapan when we're together.

[DianeShishio]

Natawa naman ako sa mga sagot  Please specify naman ano yung "madalas"

50% of conversations dabble with philosophy and spirituality. It's funny that we even get to talk about spirituality without getting into a heated argument because he's catholic and I'm agnostic (borderline atheist even). Basta overall, walang bastusan at walang basagan ng trip. I'm really glad that he doesn't equate religion to morality.    Usapan namin yan over coffee, after meals and at 3:00am.

25% of our conversations involve our goals. Personal and as a couple. Short term, Mid term and Long term. Kahit pa simple goal yan like "Renew driver's licence" or "Purchase a house by 2016", we write them down, with pen and paper, mas powerful ang impact if it's handwritten IMO.

Since semi-LDR, we usually talk about our day and the usual mushy mushy nonsense

[cecilydee]

@sportygurl sis hindi araw araw ang 4hrs pero i admit medyo mga 3x a week yan lol may araw na nauubusan kami ng kwento pero kapag ayaw pa namin ibaba ang phone kahit hininga lang namin ang naririnig, ok lang samin. madalas mangyari ito pag kunwari lalabas siya at mag mamall, syempre nahihiya siya makipagkwentuhan with earphones baka sabihin ng mga tao nagsasalita siya mag isa, so pinapakinggan ko lang ang ginagawa niya while im also doing my stuffs rin. ang essence lang naman dito is, magkasama kayo sa ginagawa niyo kahit hindi physically.

@simang sis siguro kung hindi kami major LDR baka ganyan kami. Hindi kami magtetext ng weekdays kasi alam namin na darating ang weekend na magkasama kami. pero since wala kami choice ang nangyayari, once na magkita kami, gagawin dapat namin ang di namin nagagawa pag magkahiwalay like i cook food for him and lahat lahat na Less talk, more of the actions. Aww namimiss ko siya now.. lol

[jamimi29]

Minsan about work, games, frustrations in life, news, past experience, future namin, and kung ano ano pa.

[blazingsheena]

kwento sa work niya.. kwento sa school ko. pinakafavorite namin, yung mga kalokohan.. haha. mahilig kami mang trip.. but in a good way naman. puro tawanan. medyo maloko rin kasi siya at mahilig niya kong patawanin. mga nangyari sa araw namin.. di pwedeng hindi kami magusap sa isang araw or mag text. kahit onting usap lang like "san ka bahay ka ba" "gawa mo"

[Keiyt]

We talk about everything. From anong kinain, pag jebs, anong ginawa sa office, anong chismis na bago, frustrations ko sa life, his friends, his interests. Minsan nakakabore mga pinagsasabi niya sa pagigingg -OC pero inaasar ko na lang siya and say, wala akong paki but I still let him continue and just listen. Then I ask him questions about it kasi I know it's important to him.

We text each other sometimes during work and sinasabi ko lang, katamad, antok ako and so on. Hahaha. Super random lang.

Then pag weekends pagnao-oc ako, usually future like bahay, wedding, financial etc etc.

[Girltalker2]

^ Depende kasi kung bf na kayo or dating palang.  Kasi kapag dating palang kayo at maraming dead air, alam mong the chemistry is not there. Or bilang ang common interests between the 2 of you.  Kaya next.

Pag magBF na tapos hindi kayo maka relate sa isa't isa and it drags on, hindi ko pa alam how to face this. So far naman kasi yung BF ko marami naman kaming common interests for discussioin. Madalas din kami mag usap about handling relationships, lovelife, likes and dislikes, preferences, etc.

what if they make kwento sa inyo about mga guys stuff...cars, sports etc.  na hindi naman ninyo hilig? what do you do para makasabay sa usapan?

There are some discussions kasi na ok lang din pag usapan kahit wala kang kaalam alam.  For example cars.  My BF is a very good communicator kasi. Kung gusto nya pag usapan ang kotse, wala akong kaalam alam, marunong syang magconstruct ng few statements lang such that di ka mabo-bore at ako naman magtatanong to get to know more din about his topic.  But he does not go into details such that hindi ako makaka relate. Iyan ang napansin ko, kahit football.  Di sya nagd-detail.  Pero minsan sinama narin nyako sa game para makita ko daw what it's all about, with food and all din.

So kung baka, dapat sensitive din si BF na may appreciation session ka rin hindi yun dakdak lang ng dakdak na nonsense for you.

[simang]

^^yeah it's either conceited bf mo or di kayo masyadong match kung wala kayong mapagusapan. pero tingin ko pag clueless ka sa sinasabi nya then it's the perfect time to learn more about him. tanong lang ng tanong! haha

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lately we've been talking a lot about the wedding and having babies.

[baliwsayo]

^Kung close friend ko talaga babarahin ko na wag maingay at nakukulili tenga ko. Lol!

Two months pa lang kami so any info (stories of our lives) pinaguusapan namin. Pag serious stuff naman, tungkol sa taxes o tungkol sa patients niya ang topic namin. Pag di ko ako maka-relate sa kwento niya, I'd just say nosebleed ako then he will explain. Wag lang mga scientific terms please at diretso ko sinasabi na in layman's term please. Lol!

[Girltalker2]

^Kung close friend ko talaga babarahin ko na wag maingay at nakukulili tenga ko. Lol!

haha

Normally naman kasi kung hindi mo na dagdagan ang conversation, tatahimik na yung kabila, especially if you start using your phone or facing a different side, or changing the topic.   

[sosychill]

bat kaya may iba, dakdak lang ng dakdak. walang paki kung naiintindihan pa ba sila ng kausap nila. ano dapat gawin sa mga ganon klaseng tao?? 

what if hindi nyo siya bf, close friend lang na lalake. ano gagawin nyo?

Sis, hahah di uubra sakin to, kakausapin ko talaga na dapat di lang siya puro salita ng salita, naku baka isipin ko pa my mental disorder siya. sorry!!

on topic:
whenever we eat we have this habit of reviewing the history of westeros (game of thrones) and the likes, predictions on the show etc.. and issues about work.

[Romina]

Anything, everything, even pointless things lol. Wag lang pikunan. I try not to talk about kids though, cause we've been trying to conceive for years, and it just frustrates us both if we talk about it

[mochistar]

kahit ano. naguusap kami tungkol sa araw namin, buhay buhay, cultural differences (hindi siya pinoy), cheesy stuff (hahahahahaaha), present and future etc

[hyemi08]

di kami ngttext lage call lang..di naman evey hour...basta kelangan everyday... we talked anything under the sun...kung ano2 na lang... i love you and i miss you tuwing mgkausap....

[krystalB]

Kulitan,problema,wedding plans..future: )

[wildorchid]

Usually we talk about laws, court decisions, current events.. Those are inclined with the stuff we do together eh. And of course, tsismis sa mga kakilala namin. Haha.

Then, our current hobbies outside the relationship. Hes more into cars, bikes, spa, diy, exotic food, hiking, nature tripping. Ako i love dogs, baking, cooking. I also love computations and i do some programming. Techy din. I also love to talk about love.

Medyo maarte ako sa kanya. Im a homebody kasi e; he's the adventurous tough guy. I try his sports once in a while, too.

[bronze]

hmmm traveling, music, sex, food, current events, world news haha plans in the future, family, work, mga issues sa buhay