Ano madalas ninyo napapagusapan ng partner nyo?

[sportygurl]

Sa tuwing magkasama kayo ng BF/GF nyo, ano madalas yun topic ng kwentuhan ninyong 2? At kapag hindi kayo magkasama, do you always text and call each other? O may araw na dumadaan na hindi kayo nagkakausap (no texts, no calls) dahil wala na mapagusapan minsan.

[sugardrop]

We talk about anything - serious talk, kalokohan, share stories, even personal problems.

[sweetcheeks]

We talk about work, family, God, chismis (mostly ako to hehe), movies or tv shows, our dreams, reflections. And sometimes we brainstorm together.

[Yamski]

Anything. Usually, nagsisimula sa kamustahan ng araw, anong ginawa, tapos mga follow up questions na. Minsan about sa family, work, or movies. Minsan showbiz, yung tipong nagugulat sya na break na si ganitong couple, at yung tsismis na yun eh 6 months nang stale. Ganun kasi siya ka-outdated sa showbiz.

Yes, he calls me everyday. We text each other rin araw araw. Hindi nawawala yung good morning. Syempre, yung "i love you"-han hindi nawawala sa calls or texts. Sa sobrang nasanay na nga ko sa phone, minsan nasabihan ko yung office friend ko ng, "sige na, sige na may gagawin pa 'ko. Labyu too, babay." Tawa na lang ng tawa yung kaibigan ko pag nagkakaganun ako.

[tomatostellar]

anything under the sun, same ata kami ni sis Yamski.
- kaganapan sa araw araw, sa sarili, bahay, office
- pati mga chismis sa office knwento namin sa isa't isa.
- common interests
- nabasa online, at kung saan saan

siguro ang di ko lang knwento is pag may na-notice ako gross sa katawan ko ganon haha

[chicafabulosa]

Anything under the sun. Politics, chismis, movies etc. everyday nagtetext pa rin kame ng i love you. Pauwi na ako, malapit na sa house, etc. 

[chicafabulosa]

what if they make kwento sa inyo about mga guys stuff...cars, sports etc.  na hindi naman ninyo hilig? what do you do para makasabay sa usapan?

Sa case namin sis i am also into technology and cars. Kaya if i want to know something about a certain car, i would ask him. And if he needs to ask something about technology, he would ask me naman kasi di naman sya techy rin. But he loves to listen whenever i tell him stories about technology and vice versa.

Its a matter of trying to at least somethinga little bit kung anong hilig ng hubby mo. For you to have a successful relationship i believe is that you should also at least try to like his hobbies and vice versa. If di talaga type at least know a bit of it man lang para di naman zero knowledge ka talaga di ba. Malay mo sis di mo pa lang alam now pero magustuhan mo rin ang likes nya di ba and same rin sya sayo. Just at least try. Di naman kailangan miss know it all ka, at least lang try mo may alam ka kahit kaunti.. Better pa nga ask him questions that you want to know about his hobby. Malay mo like what i said magustuhan mo

[chicafabulosa]

naexperience nyo na ba yun gusto nya siya lang kwento ng kwento about his hobbies, pero kapag ikaw na ang nagkkwento hindi siya interesado makinig?

Haha i know a couple na ganyan.. But my friend was able to cope up sa ugali naman ng gf nya. He literally studied or read something about her hobbies. And for him to make her listen to him sometimes mas advance pa sya sa info sa hobbies ni girl.

But eventually he talked to her and told her how she is making him feel. So ayun nagets na ni girl na sometimes she also needs to listen to him hindi pwede na puro sya lang ang kwento ng kwento

[iwannabeasupermodel]

what if they make kwento sa inyo about mga guys stuff...cars, sports etc.  na hindi naman ninyo hilig? what do you do para makasabay sa usapan?

Aaah well i try to read about sa gusto niya. Tulad kanina he was telling me an app na Houzz ang name then i just decided to download it as well tapos ayun we browsed through the pics and i told him i like this and that, etc. Minsan naman i tell him mga medical stuffs and he listens naman and asks about things he doesnt understand. Or minsan sa phone wala na ako masabi i'll just sing then he'll laugh kasi ampangit ko kumanta. Haha! And if it's silent namanm it's acomfortable silence and we dont feel the pressure to keep a conversation going.

[sugardrop]

what if they make kwento sa inyo about mga guys stuff...cars, sports etc.  na hindi naman ninyo hilig? what do you do para makasabay sa usapan?

Whenever he talks about mma and muay thai na wala naman talaga sa mundo ko, nagpapa-demo ako minsan ng moves and he teaches me naman. Kasi wala naman ako macocontribute sa usapan, ganun na lang ginagawa ko. That way, I learn more about his interests.

[alice_alice]

Halos lahat naman napaguusapan namen, since LDR kame mas marami kami napaguusapan kasi di kame magkasama.

Kung paguusapan namen guy stuff more more tanong ako para magets ko, same din if we talk about girly stuff naman siya yung magtatanong kasi di niya magets.

[lady_avoidant]

aww.. kahit ano nalang din napag uusapan namin...
magsisimula ang kamustahan sa isat isa sa pagtatanong.. o ano ang tsika?? lol.. kung sino yung kagagaling sa duty ang may dapat mai share ng marami...hehe kwentuhan lang about sa work, yung pinaggagawa buong araw, etc

[simang]

We talk everyday, we dont text every minute but walang araw na di kame nagtext or call.

Anyway, if my guy talks about something i dont have any idea about, that's the perfect moment to act interested. Ask him questions, never never pose as if you know what he's talking about pero hindi naman. He'll sense that. So just ask questions para makasunod ka. Normally he would talk about NBA for example, and i'll ask sinong player to, anong team, bakit dalawang teams ang LA, haha mga ganun.

And girls, i know most of the times you feel na he's not interested sa kinukwento mo, pero believe me, guys actually listen more than we think they do.

[cecilydee]

everyday, i start narrating to him how my day was. mostly complaints but i try to make it light para hindi naman ma nega lol. and my bf usually nods and laughs. my bf naman he gets really talkative about football..naku minsan tinutulugan ko pero magaling ako magfollow up, pero after a day or so nakalimutan ko na ang kinwento nya about sa team niya lol sasabihin sakin, kinwento ko na ito sayo ha? lol

[mynameisxtine]

Kahit ano. kung ano ang pumasok sa isip namin. minsan out of this world na ang topic namin. Madalas natatawa na lang kami sa isa't isa kasi para kaming mga baliw na tawa ng tawa sa public because of crazy topics.. LOL

[graZiousa]

Marami, mga plans..problems and plans of action sa problem.. about sa work nya and work ko, anong scope of work nya and mine. mga naiencounter na hassle sa daily basis. and yes, we text and call pag di kami nagkikita. every night before matulog nag uusap muna kami.

[ysa.belle]

future namin.

[cecilydee]

pag LDR kami, greeting sa umaga at gabi. hindi kmi masyado nagtetext while work time dahil ayaw maistorbo. tawag sa gabi to tell how was our day. uumpisahan sa family ko, friends, work. then if may bagong balita i bbrought up din un. pero recently na hook kami sa isang RPG game kaya puro games lang pinaguusapan. lol. lasts from 1 hr to 4hrs ang phone conversation.

hindi pwede na hindi kami magusap ng 1 araw. yan ang rule. kahit 45 mins na conversation enough na yun.

Pag magkasama kami, d na kami nag cacatch up masyado kasi magkasama na kami e. we let the touch do the conversation lol pero pag may important news ako uuwi yun ng may pasalubong then its time for me to unload my story lol.

in short its all about me hahah. siya naman pag nagkukwento, its mostly about football, movie reviews at yung mga gusto niyang bilhin na gamit.

[ysa.belle]

business. yung lang.

[nixiquita]

food, haha. and yung kanya kanyang ginawa for the day. i do most of the talking. HAHA.