BEING A "MISTRESS"

[sw33tsw33t]

The guy is clearly just enjoying the best of both worlds. Ginagamit ka lang kase nagpapagamit ka, and you're okay with the set up.

I know a lot of men who have mistresses left and right and kahit nagkakaroon ng affection, in conclusion, the very reason why they're doing what they're doing is because the sex is good, the women are "fools" and are easily manipulated emotionally. This could be vice versa.

If people are truly in love and not happy with the marriage or current relationship, they'd fight for that love and come out clean. kung mahal mo isang tao, you're supposed to be proud of that person at di yung tago ng tago lang.

I admire those who may have started their relationships in a complicated manner but made things right by coming out clean, giving up their relationships with legit partners to be with the one they claim they really love.

Maraming "other woman" na manhid na talaga sa ganun, ika nga nagkakalyo na konsensya. That is, while the affair is still at its peak or andun pa excitement at libog... but we'll see. Time will come when something really really serious will happen, could be a life or death situation or a string of misfortunes when emotions and their convictions about the relationship will be tested. As to date, mga nakilala kong naging kabit, narinig ko na rin yang mga rason about how much they love the person at kahit sa dulo ng mundo magsistick till the last fight but all of them, 4 of them to be exact, ate those words.

Kung maging kabit ka, be very very sure that your kinakabitan will stick with you till the end... and will not leave you when the going gets tough and all shitty! Remember, you don't completely know someone, sometimes even yourself Until SOMETHING happens and you just React!

[justin3]

it's now officially Year of the Horse.
MABUHAY ang mga Kabit at Nangangabit!
isulong ang katuparang umabot sa Isangdaang Milyon ang popolasyon ng Pilipinas ngayong  taon!

mynameisxtine - bagama't wala kayong inaagrabyadong "asawa", konting ingatz lang. mainit-init pa ang balita ukol sa kinasasadlakan ni Mr. Suave. at ikaw rin, baka ma-Che Tiongson ka pag hindi nag-ingat.

mag-ingat sa APOY... nakakapaso.


Kung Hei Fat Choi!
Kiong Hee Huat Tsai!
Xin Nien Kwai Le!

[candacena]

Papiliin mo siya

[aquacharly]

^perfect

Ang tama hindi tinatago.
Ang pagmamahal, if as you say walang sabit (all you 3 are single) pinag mamalaki.
Ouch, kinahihiya ka nya kaya patakas kayo?
Susko, gourami mga break-ups --  why doesn't he just drop his GF?
At between you & the GF --  baket ' Teh ikaw ang tinatago?   

Yung stup1d1ty ng kapit bahay ko -- has no limits.  Hook, line & sinker. Lol

[mynameisxtine]

thanks for all the comments. and it made me smile

Ouch, kinahihiya ka nya kaya patakas kayo?

We are not hiding sa mundong ibabaw, as much as we wanted to live together, hindi pa sa ngayon. reason why walang pilian na nagaganap, kasi both of us have responsibilities, both of us have kids. Hindi rin ako pabor na iwanan nalang nya basta basta mag iina nya, ako mismo ang may ayaw.

Ginagamit? I dont think so. Well, maybe siguro, pero hindi namin pinasok ang complicated na situation na ito kung sex lang ang habol namin.

[teal_rayy]

Hindi kasi tama na parang proud ka with your situation.  Most of us are real wives here.  Most marriages start out na nagmamahalan naman talaga until temptation come barging in. Wag ganyan.

[simang]

This article is somewhat applicable to you, mynameisxtine.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/melanie-berliet/2014/02/i-fell-in-love-with-a-married-guy-and-im-not-really-into-apologizing-for-it/

[mynameisxtine]

Well, I know naman na MOST of the members here are legal wives, and I am not proud of being a mistress, I am just saying that there are times, having or being a mistress is not just about sexual fantasies, tag-libog, or what. May mga pagkakataon din na si kupido, ay walang sinisino pag namana ng puso, minsan, maling tao ang pinapana nya

Maiintindihan nyo ang ganitong klaseng sitwasyon, pag naranasan nyo na.

I thank you

[sugardrop]

Maling tao nga ang napana but that tao has the capacity to give in or walk away from it. It's all about choices, whether or not ginusto nung tao na mapana or hindi. Pwede naman bunutin yung pana but it seems na mas nag-eenjoy na may nakabaon na pana.

But sabi mo nga immune ka na sa mga comments, suggestions, payo, etc. so lahat ng sasabihin ng mga tao dito will fall on deaf ears anyway.

Good luck! Just hope and pray that he doesn't do the very same thing he is doing right now to his girlfriend sayo. Dahil baka malaman at maranasan at maintindihan mo rin ang situation nung girlfriend.

[mynameisxtine]

@sugardrop, that's it! maling tao nga ang napana. And this is my, our choice, kaya nga ako nandito eh. Wala akong sinisisi.

baka malaman at maranasan at maintindihan mo rin ang situation nung girlfriend

been there na. alam ko na ang pakiramdam. But where and what Im doing right now is not a revenge. I felt the love inside my heart, that is the reason why I chose this.

I did not post here to argue with you ladies, I am just sharing my experience as a mistress

[mynameisxtine]

@jadeann23,
ang dami kong tawa sa post mo. G na G..lol.. parang may pinagdadaanan. sa dami ng nagpost ikaw ang pinakabayolente. wala naman magagawa panggigil at panggagalaiti mo jan eh
 bitter na bitter ang peg mo teng.. and how can you prove na libog lang ito? can you feel what we feel? ikaw ba ako? marunong ka pa sa akin, hahaha. t**** na kung t****. who cares? you.don't know me and my story. mas nakakaawa ka pa eh. siguro kinaliwa ka. natatawa ako sayo teng hahaha.
paalala, ako ay nagbabahagi lang ng aking karanasan, hindi ako naghahanap ng away pero mukang ikaw naghahanap ng away.
you will never understand this kind of situation hangga't di mo pa.nararanasan. kalma lang girl.. haha

[sugardrop]

@sugardrop, that's it! maling tao nga ang napana. And this is my, our choice, kaya nga ako nandito eh. Wala akong sinisisi.

been there na. alam ko na ang pakiramdam. But where and what Im doing right now is not a revenge. I felt the love inside my heart, that is the reason why I chose this.

I did not post here to argue with you ladies, I am just sharing my experience as a mistress

You already know how it feels pero di ka man lang naawa dun sa girlfriend or sa partner mo. At hindi rin naawa yung lalake sa girlfriend nya and sa partner mo din. Kung di nyo sila kayang mahalan, irespeto nyo man lang sila as human beings na may pakiramdam din at marunong masaktan. Sarili nyo lang mahal nyo.

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[katrinac]

mynameisxtine  you're not a mistress (ang mistress ginagamit lang yan kapag KASAL na) , dahil di naman sila kasal di karin kasal. 3rd party. if mahal nyo isa't isa, bakit di nyo nalang iwanan yung partner nyo? Aminin? Kawawa naman sila habang kayo, nagpapakasaya. Kayong dalawa, dapat pumili, nakakaawa ka, nakakaawa din yung isa.  ang dami nyong niloloko na tao.

Di ka ba nakakonsensya sis? Wala ako sa position i judge ka, kasi una di ko naman alam kung ano pakiramdamam magmahal ng ibang tao habang involve pa sa isang relationship, for sure you have reasons. (dahil wala ako balak gawin yan.) Pero sana, hangga't maaga pa, you have to decide kung sino ba talaga ang pipiliin mo. Papiliin mo yung lalake. naaawa lang ako sa inyo, (hindi dun sa karelasyon mo) pakiramdam ko yung karelasyon mo walang balls. kasi pinaglalaruan nya kayo parehong babae. di sya mamili. And since pareho kayong 3rd party, liliit ang mundo nyo. mahirap ang patakas. May God bless you; and I hope ma enlighten ka. Wag mong hayaan sana na bumaba ang tingin ng iba sayo, kasi pumasok ka sa relationship na hindi maayos. I'll pray for you too.

[mynameisxtine]

@katrinac

maraming salamat. I appreciate it

and to all, I am just sharing, I don't have any intention to argue or fight with you guys, none of you guys knew us, neither our story. And I don't need to explain ourselves to you.

we thank you

[Observer54]

O pag ibig na makapangyarihan
Pag nasok sa puso nino man
Hahamakin ang lahat
Masunod ka lamang   

[bwiset12]

simple lang, masama mangloko ng kapwa. at matakot ka sa karma, sis

[mynameisxtine]

@Observer54

O pag ibig na makapangyarihan
Pag nasok sa puso nino man
Hahamakin ang lahat
Masunod ka lamang   

LOL.. natawa ako

[den.nica]

Both of you have kids right? Hindi ba sila enough para itigil nyo? Ako kase bilang ina, mahihiya ako sa anak ko maski wala syang kaalam alam sa kasalanan ko sa pamilya namin.

[DianeShishio]

I wish I knew you in person... para andun ako for the "I told you so.." moment 

[jadeann23]

Hindi nga daw natin alam kung ano mga pinagdadaanan nila. Mali tayong lahat, sila lang ang tama. Ganyan talaga mag isip ang mga walang kwentang p0kp0k. Mga tao na sobrang kati kaya nagpapakamot sa kung sino-sino. Tignan mo nga naman, halos lahat ng posts nasa Sex forum.