Mid 30's makakapag asawa pa kaya?

[genaro]

Oo naman, basta hindi ka mapili

[Obachan]

upon reading of previous post of mga sisses dito,
naka relate ako...

Yes, I agree with them .
It will come when you least expect it.
Pero try to explore din, go out either with your girlfriends or with some new group.

I am single mom when I met my current partner.
Akala ko wala ng se-seryoso sakin kasi nga I have a baggage.
And kontento naman na talaga ako with my daughter.
Happy and contented.

At age of 37, didn't expect magkarun pko lovelife.
Well, in fact nakatulong pa nga yon mga bad experience ko sa past relationship
with the current life, a lesson actually.

[lady gwenhwyfar]

subscribing... i am currently in the sad phase where i feel like everyone i know has surpassed me. it is so hard to be a woman who is single in her mid 30's

thanks sis amethyst028, your words encourage me.

[coffeelovermd]

I also have the fear.. you can watch the movie "Must Love Dogs" (btw, it's a romantic movie about being single around mid 30's and it's funny!).. i think it's not a bad idea for us women to also find love in untraditional way like using dating sites, I've known some who have used it and it went pretty well for them. I haven't done online dating yet because I'm too afraid but I've met a man through public chat room and he's a decent man, it just didn't work out after 5 months of dating but I have no regrets about it.

We just need to be extra careful using online dating websites because it's also true that there are a lot of bad people around the internet. 

[lovemeagain30]

OO naman! Kahit anong age pedeng pede parin makapag asawa and find your true happiness.

It's just that women on their 30's will have limited options when it comes to child bearing. Kung yun ang nais mo sana ang magkaron ng anak or madaming anak medyo kailangan i double time yan at bilis bilisan ang mga desisyon! 

Like what I told my older sister, she's turning 39 this year. Not yet married pero may ka live in. Sabi ko sakanya, Kung may balak pa siya magkaanak she better think about it NOW. Wag ng magpa kiyeme pa at pag isipan pa ng matagal dahil hindi na siya bata. Its not like you make it now and then bukas buntis ka na!  Saka sabi ko rin sakanya, kung mag aanak siya ng more than 40's na -- not that mas mahirap at mas delicate eto pero iisipin mo din na at what age mo mapapatapos ang anak mo?? kung 40 siya magkakaanak by the time senior citizen na siya nasa school pa ang anak nila! During those years will she still be in good health (same with the partner) para masiguradong masusuportahan pa nila ang bata hanggang sa makatapos? Mga ganun lang naman. Realistically speaking lahat tayo ay tatanda. So ganun ko siya kinakausap. Now if its partnership and companionship she would like to have then she could take her time. No need to rush.

[izabelle]

Oo naman. wala sa edad yan. Sa totoo lang, dito lang sa Pinas meron deadline lahat ng bagay.

[kawen]

Hayyyy sobrang relate ako dito, I am in my early 30's and I have a son, still hoping.. pero priority ko talaga ngayon is to be financially stable... siguro darating nalang yan! Goodluck sa ating lahat!

[pinklilac]

Oo naman. wala sa edad yan. Sa totoo lang, dito lang sa Pinas meron deadline lahat ng bagay.

Lol natawa ko dito. Tama ewan ba sa Pinas parang lahat paninda na may expiration date lol

^ sis just have faith.i was also a single mom and nakapag asawa last year at the age of 40...

[kawen]

^wow sis congrats to you, may pag-asa pa... sguro nga like everyone said there's hope.. just waiting for the perfect time.

[josebeth]

syempre naman love is no limits. at walang pinipili ang love. height, weight, looks, even AGE. kung mahal natin yung isang tao matatanggap natin 100% kahit ano pang pagkatao nya.

[ellengarcia]

depends sa tao. may tao kasing kuntento na being single.

[glowing00]

Yes makaka pag asawa pa, wala naman sa edad yan. yung iba nga 40 na nakakapag asawa pa.

[pinklilac]

^wow sis congrats to you, may pag-asa pa... sguro nga like everyone said there's hope.. just waiting for the perfect time.

thank u sis..

[TomHansen]

Nakakarelate ako. Early 30's ako pero thinking na 28 na ako nung nagka-gf and now break na kami gaano na naman kaya katagal ang paghihintay ko? Iniisip ko rin na kung hindi si ex baka hindi na lang din ako mag-asawa, gusto ko pa namang magka-anak na kami para at the age of 50 tapos na halos alagaan ang anak namin-now impossible na..

[huggykaye]

^grabe nega to the highest level ka naman... SMILE wag natin pangunahan kung ano nakalaan para sa tin...

[kachich]

@Tom I have guy friends who are in their mid 30s and they're not even thinking of settling down! I think yan pa nga ang prime years at the most (same for women late 20s to early 30s) kasi this is the moment where a person knows what he/she wants in life and at the same time, have enough resources for it.

Lumang thinking na yang you should get married at this age, have babies at this age. Get married at the right time, with the right person.

[sugardrop]

^
And for the right reasons.

[TomHansen]

@huggykaye,haha sorry if naging nega yung post ko.  It's just that yun talaga ang gusto/planned kong mangyari before my gf broke up with me - sa isang iglap nawala lahat and now i'm starting over again..

@kachich, I wish katulad ko silang mag-isip baka mas enjoy nga yung mid 30's and still not thinking of settling down. Nagsawa na rin kasi akong maging single nung 20's ko kaya gusto ko after a few years of being bf/gfs magpakasal na talaga.

[mrsBuens]

^ also broke up with my college sweetheart when I was 30...we were together for 10 yrs...3 of them LDR kami...so tlagang hindi na ko nag-expect na makakapag-asawa na ako...when I was 31, nagstart na ako maghanap ng future home...preparing for settling na rin sa pinas..

then...naging kami ng close friend ko sa church..we got married last Feb 34 na kami pareho. Hindi talaga natin masabi kelan darating...sabi nga nila, in God's perfect time.

[huggykaye]

^ang saya naman mrsBuens, congrats

^^bro, kaya mo yan bakit ka magpapakulong sa nakaraan mo, marami sa atin nakaranas din nyan... nasa iyo na talaga kung paano mo gusto ipagpatuloy ang buhay but im hoping for the best for you... alam mo last year, akala ko magiging misis na rin ako this year... pero naglaho din... mahirap lang yung proseso ng moving on pero alam mo pagtapos nyan, ang sarap ulit ma in-love