Mid 30's makakapag asawa pa kaya?

[TysLolakins]

yes bakit naman hindi,  30 is the new 20 daw  di ba?  don't lose hope,  but it doesn't mean that you have to settle.
i know somebody who got married for the first time at 49. hindi daw yon 'last trip', 'special trip' daw ha ha ha.  btw ang husband niya ay american.  i mentioned this kasi equivalent pinoy guys,  when they are that age,  they want somebody young,  a lot younger i should say,  like perversely young girls, sick!

[Filipinasadhart]

same here sis.. choosy daw ako..mataas standard...
sabi ko hindi naman ah....nagkakataon lang talaga na yung naligaw mahirap magustuhan. hehe
kapag kase you know your worth mapapaisip ka, why should I settle for less....
d palang tayo nakakatagpo ng ating katapat 

Big check sis :-)

[marose17]

I have friends who married during their late 30s and 40s. Do not lose hope, ladies!

It is better to set high standards than to settle for less.  But you should also know when you should adjust your standards.  Determine which are negotiable and non-negotiable for you.

Be pro-active in finding your destiny.  In the meantime, enjoy living the single life.  May advantages din maging single.

[marose17]

^ I got married at 33.  During my 20s, I searched and searched and worried about finding the one.  Had my heart broken as well.   Once I hit 29/30, I got comfortable in my own skin and embraced my singleness (happy days for me), dated a few guys, enjoyed my career.  Then at 31, my husband and I got together.  [We first saw/met each other in court a few years prior and even though there was something during that first meeting, our worlds were different.  When I moved to a new workplace, that's when our love story started.]

Timing is everything.  Pray to God to let things fall into place.  That was and still is my favorite prayer.

[pret_ty68]

I'm 31 na older. Masakit Minsan kase lage ako nabully ng mga friends ko ako na Lang wala pa asawa. Maybe I'm so choosy kaso ano magagawa ko Kung di naman pasok sa standard ko saka Kung di ko naman mahal.  Para sa akin as long you have looks and a good attitude makakatanggap-asawa pa din.

Don't mind them na lang sis. Ganyan naman talaga ang iba ang lakas mang bully sa single women without thinking of the effect sa taong binu bully ang iba dyan hindi rin masaya sa married life nila kaya nang bu bully to make themselves feel superior at gusto ma ka feel nang validation na tama yung choice na ginawa nila. Wag ka na lang papaapekto. If you have time read the single woman by mandy hale.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

I am not here to say that Yes, you definitely will find your mate in your Mid 30s and I am not here to also say No, you won't. But I would rather ask, is being in your Mid 30s the reason why you want to get married or getting married and raising kids has always been the dream for you?

The irony of life is this... (some) married couples envy those who opted to remain single. On the other side of the fence single people wish that they're married with kids and living the dream. Reality is this...
4 Rs
Right Place
Right Time
Right Person
Right Reason

Bottom line, continue to enjoy life and don't let this 'doubt' push you into focusing all efforts and attention to finding someone to marry. Again, easier said than done, but your thoughts and beliefs truly affect how you are perceived by future mates. Good luck sissies!

[ziontrec]

ako id say yes.

i would believe time is of the essence but rushing it and then regretting you did would just be really sad.

standards are fine because you know what you want, we cant really say we know what we deserve but at least its a start and better than nothing

as the movie line goes "we accept the love we think we deserve"

i hope u girls meet that special someone soon,
sharing a song...

"God is too wise to be mistaken
God is too good to be unkind
So when you don't understand
When don't see his plan
When you can't trace his hand
Trust His Heart"

[telekikay]

same here sis.. choosy daw ako..mataas standard...
sabi ko hindi naman ah....nagkakataon lang talaga na yung naligaw mahirap magustuhan. hehe
kapag kase you know your worth mapapaisip ka, why should I settle for less....
d palang tayo nakakatagpo ng ating katapat 

kaso sis, men also know their worth. parang commodity lang tayo, if you're willing to trade, do it. baka naman yun nanliligaw sayo eh tambay. talagang huwag hehe pero if you see the guy responsible enough to take you through thick and thin, you might wanna think again. we all aim for the best things life can provide kaso let's keep in mind, madaming silent takers dyan. parang bidding lang hehe knowing what os worth can be a very tricky mind game.

[purplegravity]

Yes, but you also have to make efforts.

If your life is like a cycle of home-office-office-home, then, you wont.

Try to do things like joining charity events, do sports, travel, etc. Do something you love.
Sometimes, when you keep on looking, you will miss a lot of time and opportunities to enjoy your life. That one true love may come unexpectedly and in a place you least expect him to meet.

Believe me, im speaking of a true story. That's the story of mine.

I'm already in my late 30's. 

[telekikay]

purplegravity is correct. you can join those groups mentioned. go out, be an acquaintance, party lol! yun officemate ko nga sa gym nya na meet husband nya. so everything is possible when youre in a hunt plus a little luck...ayun na! kung kaya mo landiin, go for it, nakng...nasa trenta ka na wala na mawawala dyan. alam mo na kalakaran hahaha
 
sometimes, it benefits you when you become a bit aggressive. mga lalaki naman minsan aanga anga din. hindi malaman ang gusto.  simplehan mo lang, nood movies kesyo wala kang kasama at gusto mo ma try ang sm aura, inuman or kape para pampaalis stress o kaya yun simpleng aya sa yosihan. pero kung dehins ka naman yosi at bigla ka nag aya, medyo halata na yan hehe

[RoManHoliday]

I'm 35 and still single. Ang nagpapanic na yung mga lola ko at iba pang kamag-anak. Ako naman, sa tingin ko dadating yan sa tamang panahon. Ang hirap naman pilitin. Hindi rin naman ako comfortable na manligaw ng guy.

Minsan naiisip ko, sana di tumagal nang ganito. Alam mo yon? I was engaged na nung 25 ako pero nalaman ko na may iba pala yung fiance ko. So we broke up. After non, I became really careful na huwag magpadalos-dalos. Next thing I know, hehe, naka-10 years na pala since then.

But I believe naman na if it's God's plan for me to get married (and I believe it is), He will open that door for me in His perfect time.

[telekikay]

^princess ann,

nothing to lose if you make the first move, just make it subtle tipong tropa ang dating para hindi mukhang malandi (i dont know the proper term) hahaha do not dwell in the past as well. wala naman perpektong tao. just find someone you're comfortable with and lets hope...yun na!

we dont have the luxury of time, sis. also, forgive me but i dont put god in this situation. god's time is eternal, ours is not.

[tisaygirl123]

Yes, I know someone he's 36-38 na yata, I asked him kung bakit wala pa siyang asawa he answered right away na, "Coz I have a lot of things to offer." and so, maybe he's looking talaga for the right one pero yung mga ka age niya at gusto niya itsurang bata I doubt na meron pa nun.

Mapili din kasi siya and mahilig sa tisay so I think he's having a really really big problem regarding sa physical apperance ng girl. It's still your choice, kung lahat nalang ng tao makikita mo as hindi mo gusto just because you're comparing it with one another mukhang mahirap yan.

or kung makikita mo muna ang imperfection niya and leads to turn off, mahirap din yan.

try to appreciate yung mga hindi nakikita ng ibang tao beyond physically. 

[telekikay]

hirap maging mapili, it goes both ways kasi pagpipilian ka din lolz! best thing to do is go out and meet as many people as you can, ang lalaki pabor sa  ganito, pag babae...well, wait and see na lang. but it wont hurt if you dare approach a guy basta wag lang agresibo dating

[telekikay]

girlush,

find time to go out and meet people. join clubs, go to parties, meet new friends.  yun iba nga sumasama sa ibang religious groups hahaha uy effective yan ha, may mga officemates ako dati sumama sa SFC, bumenta pa hahaha

[super bratinella]

Yes definitely, not just mid 30's kahit anong age pa yan there is always a chance to get married.  Just make sure na you will love for the reason not just because you needed to.

[langley]

realistically speaking medyo mababa na din ang chance na makapag-asawa kapag nasa mid-30's ka especially if you're a woman.

Siguro makakapag-asawa ka, pero the question is makakapag-anak ka pa ba?
Magpakatotoo tayo mahirap na magka-anak pag mid 30's na ang babae.
so ang resulta pag nag-asawa siya hanggang companionship na lang, hindi na bubuo ng pamilya.

So dapat ang tanungin ng babae na nasa mid 30's eh kung gusto niya ba magka-pamilya or magkaroon lang ng asawa.

[Angelite]

I think malaki naman chance na makapag asawa pa. Pero make yourself din more presentable para naman di yung mukha kang mid 40's kahit mid 30's ka pa lang.

Sa pinas lang kasi yung masyadong malaking factor yung age. Sa ibang bansa naman especially sa US kahit medyo may edad na okay lang.

[roxykarlo]

Yes, may chance pa rin. Barkada ko 35years old and a lawyer, still on dating stage pa rin. Busy kasi sa work.

[Girltalker2]

I think malaki naman chance na makapag asawa pa. Pero make yourself din more presentable para naman di yung mukha kang mid 40's kahit mid 30's ka pa lang.

Sa pinas lang kasi yung masyadong malaking factor yung age. Sa ibang bansa naman especially sa US kahit medyo may edad na okay lang.

I agree. Basta hindi sa Pinas. Kasi sa Pinas mas sarado ang mga utak ng mga tao, hindi sila open-minded.  Especially mga lalaki, na hindi ganun ka mature, kaya lagi lang nila hanap yung mga 30yo or less. Kahit sila mismo eh nasa 50s na.