Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[hisana]

Hairstyle, as with fashion, beauty and everything else related, is may binabagayan nga naman talaga. I know some women who look as good or even better with short hair (though admittedly not that many). They have the face and confidence to pull off this look totally -- kung pwede ko nga lang ipost ang pics nila, LOL. Syempre meron din yung mga iba na a huge part of their appeal is their long hair. I guess if you want to project femininity and sexiness, then having long hair is the easier, more obvious choice.

Just my 2 cents on the matter!

[amethyst028]

Ok question, so how do you move on from someone you work with everyday?

lumipat ka na lang ng work. parang ang hirap mag move on kung araw araw mo nakikita yung tao.

[VainDoll]

^^ if stable naman work mo wag ka na lumipat. Hirap kaya humanap ng work. you'll move on eventually sis! After work, go out with your friends, find time for yourself. Kaya mo yan

[jtansanco]

if you're an atheist, would you date a girl who is the religious type?

My initial answer would have been yes but... After joining a church group and how devoted they are to God, I'd rather not.

For someone like me who does not believe in God but respects the existence of God, Buddha, Allah, or whichever god people worship, I'd rather date someone who is a bit religious but NOT really active in it. Being religious helps strengthen the bond of marriage but other than that, it feels like a cult. That's only MY opinion though.

[jtansanco]

Ok question, so how do you move on from someone you work with everyday?

That is TOUGH, especially if he/she was the one who broke up with you. Imagine, if he/she finds a gf/bf, you'll be crushed. Ask to change departments, find a new work, or get in another relationship with an officemate.

[Girltalker2]

My initial answer would have been yes but... After joining a church group and how devoted they are to God, I'd rather not.

For someone like me who does not believe in God but respects the existence of God, Buddha, Allah, or whichever god people worship, I'd rather date someone who is a bit religious but NOT really active in it. Being religious helps strengthen the bond of marriage but other than that, it feels like a cult. That's only MY opinion though.

Boils down to compatibility.  Sometimes kasi I see na yung so-called atheist eh nahahawa sa pagkareligous nung partner.  Some cases lang naman.

Pero for me, since I am a Catholic, I would probably go for a devout Catholic.  Pero parang di ko kaya kung Muslim sya or another religion na devout talaga (no offense meant). Mahirap kasi magspend ng special occasions together.  Mas ideal if you can celebrate the meaning of Christmas together, weddings, and other special occasions.

 

[sacred cow]

may type na girl si guy at sinubukan nya ilibre si girl. pero nag insist sa kkb si girl. pwede bang sign yun na hindi interesado si girl kay guy?

before I took it as a sign na hindi interested, pero these days as long as sumasama sa'yo si girl and she's making out with you..I couldn't care less kahit siya pa manlibre

[Reassesiren]

my guy friend umuwi sya from other country and sinama nya ko sa dinner at lakad nila ng family nya. hindi ko alam kung anong motibo nya. nakakatuwa lang kasi sobrang bait ng family nya sakin

[budzwhiz]

may type na girl si guy at sinubukan nya ilibre si girl. pero nag insist sa kkb si girl. pwede bang sign yun na hindi interesado si girl kay guy?

May mga babaeng ayaw lang talaga magpalibre, esp if it's their first time lumabas nung guy.

[simang]

before I took it as a sign na hindi interested, pero these days as long as sumasama sa'yo si girl and she's making out with you..I couldn't care less kahit siya pa manlibre

story of my life

[jazzlawyer]

may type na girl si guy at sinubukan nya ilibre si girl. pero nag insist sa kkb si girl. pwede bang sign yun na hindi interesado si girl kay guy?

dati nung single pa ko (lol) I always insist on giving my share pag nasa date ako. Because kahit type na type ko si guy, i dont want them to think that im a freeloader. its also one way of telling them that i could t ake care of myself.

[oshiawase]

How do guys express their feelings to a girl? Lagi bang may "texting rule" (like ka nia pag text ng text)

[sugardrop]

^
Base it on both their verbal and non-verbal communication. Text is just one of the many ways to express that they like you or testing the waters, or that you're just one of their many options.

[oshiawase]

^nahihirapan ako idetermine if mutual ang attraction eh. Super gentleman kasi siya sa lahat ng kaibigan niya and I think I am starting to like him more. How do I stop myself ba? feel ko ako talo dito eh kasi feel ko di naman talaga siya interested sakin. Ni hindi nga nagtetext eh Patulong naman!

[Chinito]

^nahihirapan ako idetermine if mutual ang attraction eh. Super gentleman kasi siya sa lahat ng kaibigan niya and I think I am starting to like him more. How do I stop myself ba? feel ko ako talo dito eh kasi feel ko di naman talaga siya interested sakin. Ni hindi nga nagtetext eh Patulong naman!

Hi-

You already got the answer yourself, sabi mo gentleman naman siya sa lahat ng kaibigan niya. So if you cant see any difference in his treatment to you compare to his colleagues then might as well he's just playing nice. ako din ganyan din ako sa mga friends ko but i have no intentions to court or flirt with them. but if i like the girl, i started to get weird and i had a hard time expressing my motive.
to answer your question.
first thing to look out is how does he act whenever you're around. If you smell weirdness , aloofness or sometimes hyper activity on his toes then its a good sign that he's trying to get notice or should i say trying to capture your attention.. and if you found out that he's really not interested in you; it's perfectly fine! it's not the end of the world my dear.. just go on, be yourself and don't dwell too much on it, create your own world where you can be more productive and happy, sooner you'll get notice by someone worthy and maybe someone better than him.. don't sell yourself short din live and get your standards.
stay away from negative creatures and dont ever let anyone knows that you are hopelessly attracted to him. else you'll ruin your composure and end up being a funny loser meerkat.

[oshiawase]

^ thank you sa advice! Actually, I didn't notice that he was being nice to me in a "special" way until a common colleague of ours told me that we had sort of "spark" whenever we talk to each other. From then, I started to notice things. I'm afraid i am merely being mislead, and i am overreading things. how do I stop? i kinda know now that he's not into me. Hello, he doesn't even send a single text message when we do not meet for days. Do I still continue "flirting" with him? Or just treat him as an "ordinary friend"?

[simang]

^depends. Do you like the guy? Show him you're interested if you do like him. If hindi mo naman sya gusto and is just basing things on that 'spark' na ibang tao pa ang nakapansin, eh di just let it go.

[young_maiden]

Question: Paano ba ipaparamdam sa guy na gusto ko siya ng hindi ako nagmumukhang easy-to-get? Possible ba yun?

[oshiawase]

^ SAME QUESTION

[Chinito]

Question: Paano ba ipaparamdam sa guy na gusto ko siya ng hindi ako nagmumukhang easy-to-get? Possible ba yun?

Cat and string theory..   try mong mag care in a minimal way then minsan barubalin mo. hurt his ego then praise him in some way.. get's mo?