Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[kirsten10]

Un nga e, impossible un ganun. Lahat na lang idinahilan para di makaresign sa office na un. Thanks for your reply, sometimes we know the truth but would just need another person to tell it in your face.

[kirsten10]

Sexual yes. But if its just that.. Parang hindi e. Ilang instances na din un exchange of texts na may loveu miss u and sexts

[meisaia]

anong pakiramdam ng guys kapag tumatakas sila sa responsibility as a parent? is it really possible for them to stop feeling guilty? curious talaga ako.

[ann08]

Guys, have you tried courting someone na hindi naman 'ideal girl' sa inyo or out of your 'standards' na hinahanap sa girls?

Minsan, we set standards... like in girls, niligawan ng hindi namin type but eventually we fell in love
na rin cuz nag click naman kami.

[jtansanco]

^^ Let's just some married guys, who didn't "play" when they were still single, regret or are unhappy with the situation they are at the present. I'm not sure if I'm answering the question properly but that's the answer I came up reading your post. Some of my guy friends tell me to enjoy my life as a single guy since it's different after marriage and some of them are staying married for the sake of the kid/s. Put emphasis on "some".

^ Yeah, I tried but at the end of the day, if an ideal girl comes around, I'd still prefer to court her. Let's face the facts. Men are visual predators so most guys will still go with the ones we like more. But then again, if we're happy with someone out of our standards, then it shouldn't be a problem. Guys are programmed to like women who are sometimes way above our standards.

[meisaia]

^ boss sagot ba yang isa sa tanong ko? sorry medyo nalito ako kasi medyo... hindi direct to the point ata? 

[meisaia]

sabagay hehe...

ang dami ko na kasing kilalang friends na once nalaman nilang buntis yung girl, biglang, 'ay di na pala kita mahal'. kahit na matagal na sila nung bf niya. kahit same set of friends sila at nakikita nung guy yung anak nila na dinadalaw/kinakamusta ng iba nilang friends. but the guys, kahit hi or hello or pangangamusta lang sa anak, wala.

bukod dun, nakikita ko talaga yung guys na parang masaya sa buhay nila, walang dala-dalang mabigat. posible ba talaga yung ganon? yung mangyayari yun tapos parang wala silang mafeel na remorse or guilt? or nagkukunwari lang sila?

[ohcmon]

Silly question: Does haircut matter kung matytype-an niyo o hindi ang babae?

I recently cut my long wavy hair to a pixie cut. I got compliments naman that it does look good on me, but some of my guy friends/colleagues say "Pero mas maganda talaga sa babae ang long hair eh".

I guess it just boils down to preference, noh?

[simang]

^whatever makes you more confident is what makes your guy happy!

I also got a pixie last year, from an almost waist-length naturally wavy-curly hair. I told my bf i will be cutting my hair, he probably thought i wasn't serious about it! Di ko sinabi sa kanya when i finally did it until magkita kame, kaso when one of my girlfriends asked him "anong ginawa mo kay (insert my name here)?!!" Nagpanic sya. He called me and asked if nagpagupit nga ako. Medyo nagalit sya ng very light he thinks the long hair suits me better. Pag nakikita nya old pictures ko he'd comment "dapat kase ganito buhok mo eh (pertaining to long hair)". Siguro nasanay na din sya eventually he told me mas bagay na sa akin ang short hair kesa mahaba. He even told me wag na ko mgpahaba ng hair.

Most girls would say you look good with pixie kase aside from the look itself, girls look up to other girls who are courageous enough to do it. Sa guys kase, they don't see the courage part haha kaya they don't appreciate it that much sa simula. But again, kung keri mo naman, dun nila mas makikita na bagay sayo.

In conclusion, I have never seen a girl look bad in a pixie. :-)

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Silly question: Does haircut matter kung matytype-an niyo o hindi ang babae?

I recently cut my long wavy hair to a pixie cut. I got compliments naman that it does look good on me, but some of my guy friends/colleagues say "Pero mas maganda talaga sa babae ang long hair eh".

I guess it just boils down to preference, noh?

^ Not a guy, but my guy pals usually have something to say with hair. They kind of prefer girls with long hair... They didn't say why, but I happen to be surrounded by men who love women with long hair.

[sacred cow]

Silly question: Does haircut matter kung matytype-an niyo o hindi ang babae?

Yes, may crush ako sa office na nagpagupit and sobrang nagiba itsura niya from being long haired. I realized na baka mas hindi ko siya mapapansin noon kung nameet ko siyang short hair na sa simula. although really pretty girls can get away with any hairstyle.

[budzwhiz]

Mas type ng mga lalake ang long hair. Generally speaking. I know for a fact kasi witness ako jan. It's just more feminine for them, or hotter even. I remember 2 years ago from (semi) long hair nagpa boy cut ako (siete?). Most of my girl friends/kakilala would say bagay ko daw, mas sophisticated tingna, etc. Pero yung mga guys, although they would say "kahit anong gupit naman bagay mo" may dagdag na "pero mas bagay mo long hair". And even those na nakilala ko palang, pag nakita nila old photos ko with long hair, sasabihin nila, "Bat ka nagpagupit!" (as if kabaliwan yung ginawa ko) Haha. My boyfie, I met him when I was still sporting my boy cut, palagi nya sinasabi noon, magpahaba ka na/gusto ko nang makita mahaba yung buhok mo. Well well, ngayong long hair na ulit ako, sya naman etong "Pagupit ka na ulit?"

[fleur_de_liz]

my bf wants it long. pag sinasabi kong magpapagupit ako he always tell me na gawin mo na lahat sa buhok mo (dye, curl, kahit anong kulay pa daw) wag ka lang magpapaiksi. maybe because hindi rin kasi bagay sa akin ang short hair.

[simang]

my bf wants it long. pag sinasabi kong magpapagupit ako he always tell me na gawin mo na lahat sa buhok mo (dye, curl, kahit anong kulay pa daw) wag ka lang magpapaiksi. maybe because hindi rin kasi bagay sa akin ang short hair.

same with my bf.. pero dahil pasaway ako nagpagupit pa din ako. i always wanted short hair even before we got together so i still went for it. eventually he liked it na better than my long hair.

one thing i noticed though, when we're having sex, sometimes he's kind of reaching for my hair to brush it or pull it maybe or just touch it, pero awkward kase wala na sya mahawakan na hair haha

^ Not a guy, but my guy pals usually have something to say with hair. They kind of prefer girls with long hair... They didn't say why, but I happen to be surrounded by men who love women with long hair.

most guys really like it long, as naturally it's more feminine. i mean it's norm that long hair is for girls, and short ones for guys.

[ARRT]

He cheated on me twice but im still here living with him. Nilagyan ko ng tracker phone niya. Tintawagan p dn niya yung gurl. Sabi niya ayaw niya ko mawala. He needed me, sinasabi niya pag lasing siya. Perhaps im caring but boring. Wala ako sa standard niyang payat or what.. I love him.. D ko na lang pinapansin kapag tintawagan niya yung girl to go out etc. sakit lang. Tingin ko di siya titigil mambabae. Bakit kailangan nya pa ko dto.

[jtansanco]

Silly question: Does haircut matter kung matytype-an niyo o hindi ang babae?

Oooooh, I wanna answer this one. I was working in Japan and I had a crush on a co-worker. She had perm hair back then. I thought she was the prettiest girl in Japan. After a month, it went back to her original hairstyle which is shag or frat shag. It gave her a boyish look but she still looked "okay", not as pretty as what I was used to think of her. One month after, she changed her haircut to bouffant and I'm like, "What the hell is that?!" Haha. I've lost interest.

[fleur_de_liz]

bouffant talaga? bouffant naman is too weird sa modernized world. lolz.

[slickchick]

Oooooh, I wanna answer this one. I was working in Japan and I had a crush on a co-worker. She had perm hair back then. I thought she was the prettiest girl in Japan. After a month, it went back to her original hairstyle which is shag or frat shag. It gave her a boyish look but she still looked "okay", not as pretty as what I was used to think of her. One month after, she changed her haircut to bouffant and I'm like, "What the hell is that?!" Haha. I've lost interest.

natawa ako dito bro! hahaha! baka naman may pupuntahan lang syang 60's or retro-themed party kaya nagpaganun... hahaha! 

[jtansanco]

That's what I thought! Japan is a whole new world. Haha

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Silly question: Does haircut matter kung matytype-an niyo o hindi ang babae?

I recently cut my long wavy hair to a pixie cut. I got compliments naman that it does look good on me, but some of my guy friends/colleagues say "Pero mas maganda talaga sa babae ang long hair eh".

I guess it just boils down to preference, noh?

Ako mas gusto ko short hair because it makes me look much younger and less hassle. Pero whenever i tell him na gusto ko na pagupit he'll tell me na pag-isipan ko daw ng mabuting mabuti and think it over and over again. Then i think last week i was contemplating having a haircut kasi it looks lifeless and masyadong bagsak na ang sabi ba naman sa akin "bakit magkakabuhay ba pag nagpagupit ka? Pano?".