Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[jtansanco]

^ Nah, I was 50/50 serious and joking. I really don't know what's the actual situation. Maybe she's giving him too much attention? I guess what she can do is try to ignore his bf from time-to-time and he'll eventually realize something's wrong. There's so many ways to explain but I can't really write it all down without knowing what's happening.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ jtansanco: Looks like you got the time, so why don't you write it all down and let's see, you may just hit the jackpot!

@ Prinsesa Mumela: Why the sudden craving for attention?

[simang]

How do i make my boyfriend notice me? whenever i wear something nice or sexy, dedma lang sya. one time, nagplunging neckline ako para lang mapansin nya or to elicit any reaction from him pero wala talaga susme.

anong attention ba gusto mo? gusto mo ba sabihin nya verbally? or maybe baka naman yung appreciation sya is shown in a different way, let's say hotter sex or something

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ I certainly would rather get hotter sex as a sign of appreciation and attention as opposed to lip service.

@ Prinsesa Mumela: If you can provide us with more information, then it would be much better so we can accurately share our ideas on what could be happening or we could also perhaps sound off some suggestions to help you 'get the attention you need/want.'

[simang]

^my point exactly. if i'm wearing a flattering dress my guy isn't all words. he'd be all over me and would flirt a little more than usual. and yes, the sex is always hot lol

[jtansanco]

@purpleprincess - Nah, too busy pondering the meaning of life. Haha

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^^ simang, *high five!* I so totally agree with you!

^ jtansanco: Yeah, yeah... I bet!!! Hope all is well!

[Prinsesa Mumela]

@girltalker2, okay naman sya nung una, todo puri kesyo bagay sakin yung suot ko, ganda ng hair ko and the likes tas dikit ng dikit, sobrang lambing pero nung medyo tumagal na, biglang nawala eh kaya nagtataka ako hmm.

@jtsanco, i already did bro pero nada! nr lang sya. smile lang sya. ni hindi malandi yung ngiti hmp.

@insanelypurpleprincess, kasi namimiss ko yung attention na binibigay nya sakin dati  pag magkasama kami dati, he would always make me feel na ako yung pinakamaganda sa paligid, napapansin nya pag nagaayos ako, yung mga maliit na bagay lang, ganun. babaw ba? hay.

@simang, both sis kung maaari hehe.

[sugardrop]

Don't fish for attention or compliments from him. Medyo nakaka-turn off yan for a guy. No need to make papansin. It will come naturally. That may come when you least expect it.

[fleur_de_liz]

i agree. try to stay pretty and gorgeous because you want to feel good inside and out and because you want it.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Prinsesa Mumela, ah, I see. I won't say that it's entirely shallow to want attention from your man, but maybe, just maybe, what you expect of him is not how is able to show you that he pays attention naman. Let's say, you expect him to say it, pero for him, he doesn't say it anymore, pero he does appreciate it naman. Di naman kasi necessary na kung ano siya before eh ganun siya forever. The longer you stay together, you will realize that there will be changes. At least, he doesn't complain that you don't make an effort to fix yourself and look awesome for him. Perhaps, he has gone past appreciating your external features and has taken more time focus on how you are now as a person, inside... If it bothers you so much, you can make an effort then to make him say it or maybe you just need a change in approach. Try a new shade of lipstick or a different kind of perfume and see if it make any difference. Good luck!!!

[jazzlawyer]

Guys: do you stalk you ex gf's fb instagram or twitter account even though youre the one who initiated the break up and youre already committed? how would you feel if youve learned that the girl has already a significant other or yet got married ahead of you? just curious 

[peppermint009]

Guys: do you stalk you ex gf's fb instagram or twitter account even though youre the one who initiated the break up and youre already committed? how would you feel if youve learned that the girl has already a significant other or yet got married ahead of you? just curious 

I would if had an ex and nope, I'm not in a relationship either. I would be visiting her profile if I'm still emotionally attached meaning its either love, concern, hate et cetera pero if wala na ako pakialam sa kanya then hindi na rin.

[VainDoll]

Straight or curly hair?

[fleur_de_liz]

guys, do you consider being friends with your exes pa ba? as in yung tipong close like seeing them kahti you're already taken.

[oshiawase]

Kapag ba ang girl hindi photogenic, ibig sabihin ba hindi na siya "maganda"? Ano ba mas matimbang para sa guys, maganda sa litrato o sa personal (physically)?

[sugardrop]

Kapag ba ang girl hindi photogenic, ibig sabihin ba hindi na siya "maganda"? Ano ba mas matimbang para sa guys, maganda sa litrato o sa personal (physically)?

^
I'm not a guy pero here's what I think - ang makakasama naman ng lalake eh yung tao and hindi yung picture. So kung ikaw naman ang tatanungin, ano mas gusto mo - gwapo sa picture o gwapo sa totoong buhay?

It doesn't follow that a person who doesn't look good in photos doesn't look good in real life too. May nga tao lang talaga na hindi photogenic.

Pictures can be deceiving.

[kirsten10]

My husband cheated with his officemate, nun nahuli ko sabi lang wala na daw un they ended it up after the confrontation. That was 7 years ago na. But they are still in the same office. Walang nagresign. I asked how it ended, sabi they just stopped talking. Posible ba un? No peace of mind till now.. Long story, 2 years ago, may extra phone na nakita sa kanya and one of the few numbers there e un sa officemate nya, live number. Im not convinced its over, pero possible ba un na wala na? And would end na di na lang daw nag usap?

[jtansanco]

^ Can't say for sure but I doubt it. It's difficult to just turn off the "conversation button" especially if they work in the same office.

[VainDoll]

Kapag ba ang girl hindi photogenic, ibig sabihin ba hindi na siya "maganda"? Ano ba mas matimbang para sa guys, maganda sa litrato o sa personal (physically)?

May girls na hindi maganda sa pics pero maganda talaga sa personal. Syempre mas ok pag mas maganda sa personal sis. Yun iba maganda lang sa pic kasi nakafilter sabay pag sa personal medyo so so lang pala.