Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[argento]

^ It was thrice; worse, he lied. Freeloader is someone who takes as much advantage as he can with the least or preferably no cost from himself.

Sobrang type mo siguro yung guy kaya nakatatlo siya. Right.

[mischa04]

Hahaha   Anubeyen..

[argento]

Backread ka naman pag may time. Okay?

Kaw na lang magback read, may time ka pala eh

[argento]

Backread ka naman pag may time. Okay?

Kaw na lang magback read, may time ka pala eh

[ann08]

Para fair, kung na-treat ka ng meal, treat mo na naman siya later ng dessert or any token para maging fair share lang at walang masabi.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

@ sis mischa04

Ano na nangyari? Did he ask you out again? Pumapatak ba around how much mga dates niyo?
Next time he asks you out tell him "ainaku wala pa akong pera, puro ako kasi nagbabayad sa dates natin so far. Asan na pangako mo na ikaw naman? Yung totoo na ikaw ha, hindi yung mag-oo ka ngayon tapos sabay bawi pag andyan na bill." 

[mischa04]

@iwannabeasupermodel, wala na yata haha..di na kami ulit nagkakausap.. Yup he asked again pero  sinabi ko di ako pwede, busy sa work at wala akong budget, bills payment eh ako shoulder nun sa bahay..hahah,.totoo naman yung mga sinabi ko.. Akala ko nga sasabihin nya no prob at treat nya..kaso hindi eh, sige next time na lang daw pag di na daw ako busy sa work.. oh well hindi yata nakahalata na sya naman gumastos, patay malisya. Hindi ko na tinetext, pag sya naman nagtext gawa me alibi..

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^ say it in a joking way hahahaha. but prior to those nilalandi ka naman ba niya? dumadamoobs ba? or andun lang pag kainan na?

oh well may mga ganun talagang tao. wag ka na mabitter (if bitter ka man) kasi ikaw effort mo lang din ang mawawaste tapos parang di naman niya gusto makita mo siya with his best foot forward hehe.

[mischa04]

Sige sis try ko mag joke hahaha.. yeah may damoobs naman, malambing and maaalahanin pa, in text or in person, saka masarap kausap..yun lang talaga ang panira sa kanya kaya na-TO ako.. At natanong ko kung normal na may ganong guy.. Di naman bitter, nanghinayang lang sis hahaha..

[simang]

Parang di naman yung pagiging freeloader ang issue dito, I think the guy is not just that into you. Aminin man ng mga guys or hindi, pag gusto nila ang babae, they want to look like superman to her. Magpapaimpress at magpapaimpress yan, nature yan ng mga lalaki eh. So if he's not making himself look good sa paningin ng girl, chances are, hindi naman nya talaga agenda ang maging boyfriend ni girl.

[mischa04]

Siguro nga sis simang... well if he's really not that into me eh di wag nya ko i-ask for a date tapos magpapalibre.. Sabihin na lang nya deretcho na hey gimik tayo libre mo ko, mas friends zone pa ang dating kung pakikipagkaibigan lang din pala  gusto nya..

[Girltalker2]

Sige sis try ko mag joke hahaha.. yeah may damoobs naman, malambing and maaalahanin pa, in text or in person, saka masarap kausap..yun lang talaga ang panira sa kanya kaya na-TO ako.. At natanong ko kung normal na may ganong guy.. Di naman bitter, nanghinayang lang sis hahaha..

Nanghihinayang ka sa inutang nya or na puede maging kayo?  lol!

Seriously, kung di man sya magbayad, tablan naman sana sya ng kahihiyan.  Next time mang invite - dapat mo talaga sabihin sa kanya na, MAY PERA KA BA PANGDATE?  AYOKO KASI NA MANLIBRE, TSAKA MARAMI KA PANG UTANG SAKIN.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Mabait pa nga ang suggestion na kausapin mo pa and even give him a chance to really see what's going on by saying outright what you want to say.

BUT, if you ask me, based on the details provided... I think, it is time to put to bed the possibility na maging 'kayo'. Again, your call... Just saying that you deserve better or rather, any girl deserves better. Kasi baka matuwa ka pa rin sa kanya and suppose maging 'kayo' nga, don't tell me forever sagot mo siya? Parang not cool at all. Maraming fish in the sea sis mischa04

[mischa04]

@girltalker2, pwedeng both sis? Haha..

@insanelypurpleprincess, naisip ko na rin yun sis, napakabata ko naman para maging cougar hahaha.. Try to look for another fish na lang..

[insanelypurpleprincess]

mischa04, true that. I mean, di naman kelangan na yung 'fish' sobrang daming dalang cash or credits cards, dba? At least man lang decent & man enough to be able to treat you right. Suppose he can't afford to spend so much, he has the brains to adjust your date setting so that he can treat you like a lady. Instead na dinner in a super posh hotel, eh di simple restaurant. Worst case scenario, he can go buy groceries and just prepare a home cooked meal for you both. It's all about diskarte & planning lang talaga!

[mischa04]

@insanelypurpleprincess.. exactly! 

[slickchick]

Nanghihinayang ka sa inutang nya or na puede maging kayo?  lol!

Seriously, kung di man sya magbayad, tablan naman sana sya ng kahihiyan.  Next time mang invite - dapat mo talaga sabihin sa kanya na, MAY PERA KA BA PANGDATE?  AYOKO KASI NA MANLIBRE, TSAKA MARAMI KA PANG UTANG SAKIN.

hahaha! natawa ako sa suggestion ni sis Girltalker2. very straight to the point. bilib na ako sa kapal ng face ni guy kapag hindi pa nakahalata... 

@insane, nicely articulated! In my generation, we call them guys with GMRC

nice sis (or bro?) jonduh! GMRC = good manners and right conduct? looks like this subject has to be taught in schools again... there are a lot of people (both girls and guys) who needs schooling especially in this subject matter... hehe.. 

[Prinsesa Mumela]

How do i make my boyfriend notice me? whenever i wear something nice or sexy, dedma lang sya. one time, nagplunging neckline ako para lang mapansin nya or to elicit any reaction from him pero wala talaga susme.

[jtansanco]

^ Have you tried wearing mini skirt? Just continue to "show" your skin in public WITH him and he'll eventually realize you're there.

[Girltalker2]

^ Ganun ba yun?

^^ Sis, paano mo naman sya naging BF kung feeling [textspeak!] ka?  I mean kapag kulang ang attention nya sayo, you wouldn't want a guy like that to be your BF di ba?

I don't think you have to take extra efforts to get noticed.  Yes, once in a while, you may want to dress up, wear uber high heels, etc.  Pero aren't these efforts for yourself, at hindi para sa iisang tao lang na BAKA hindi ka rin mapansin?