Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[ChocoCat]

@jonielle: Well I know a couple of guys, some are my friends who don't share any green jokes every time we talk. And I didn't meet them in my dreams. but thanks for your advice.
@simang: and that is why we have this thread. so us females can get enlightened right?
green jokes are just green jokes and then we have another saying that jokes are half meant too. but I appreciate your opinion.

I believe s3x is a very sensitive topic especially to females and so I thought maybe a s3x joke (green joke) is the men's way of making it more acceptable when it comes to conversations.
I really have no idea that is why I popped the question here.
I really appreciate the replies here regarding my question. especially sacred cow's. 

[berryblitz]

bakit may mga makulit na mga lalaki.  friendship lang raw ang habol.  pero bakit ang kukulit.  pag sinabi kong busy ako and "i don't like to have dinner dates with guys."  sasagutin ako ng hindi raw yun date.  pag sinabi kong busy ako and need ko alagaan baby ko kaya need ko makauwe agad from buyer meet up, sasabihin sa akin na okay lang and ihahatid na lang nila ako pauwe.

namemental block ba at nabibingi ang isip ng mga lalaki?  parang they are doing me a favor kasi sila nagdidikta na may mag didinner kami.  sila nagdidikta na okay lang late na ako umuwe at hindi ko maalagaan ang baby ko kasi ihahatid naman nila ako pauwe.

yan ba ang lalaking friendship lang ang habol.  alam na ngang may asawa ako at mga anak.

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this week i went to a western union branch.  hinuli ako asikasuhin nung lalaking staff.  then ayaw ibalik ang id ko and ayaw ako palabasin ng branch nila.  nangungulit.  gusto raw nya ako makilala kaya magdinner raw kami.  friendship lang raw habol nya.  matanda na, puti na lahat buhok siguro 50 plus years old na.  ako 35 years old.  hanggang sa hinila ko na sa kamay nya yung id ko.  and nung huli pinindot na ren nya yung button para magbukas yung pinto ng branch

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yan ba ang friendship lang ang habol.  some of them are yung mga nag aalok na maging taga bitbit ng stocks ko.

mahirap magfilter ng kung ano ba talaga ang gusto.  hindi naman kailangan mangulit to the point na parang iwan lahat ng babae yung need nya gawin para lang makipagdinner sa kanila.  ang lalakas ng loob.  hindi naman mga guwapo.

pasensya na.  wala kasi ako masabihan and wala malabasan ng sama ng loob and ng kabadtripan

[fleur_de_liz]

question po:
i have this gym-mate for so long na pero until now di ko alam name nya..madalas ko sya nakakasabay sa gym and honestly i really like him.. madalas kaming nagkakatinginan, nagkakahulihan ng tingin then pag magkakasalubong kami at nagkatinginan kami he always smile at me..im really confuse if gusto ba ako nitong guy na to? question po sa mga guytalker natin. if interested po ba kayo sa girl do you always look at her and smile at her? you think the guy likes me or di ako dapat mag-assume sa mga gestures na nakikita ko sa kanya?

[sacred cow]

^ try mo makipagkilala sa kanya, if he asks you out..he likes you...if not, e di you have your answer na

[fleur_de_liz]

actually nahihiya po ako kasi cruch ko sya eh..mukhang nahahalata na nya na madalas ko sya tinitignan kasi ilang beses na kami nagkakahulihan ng tingin. baka pag nagpakilala ako baka magkailangan lang kami baka lalo akong di makapag-focus sa work out ko.

[simang]

Mag hi ka lang! He'll appreciate it.

[sacred cow]

^ ok, then mag-antay ka na lang na siya magapproach sa'yo

[sugardrop]

actually nahihiya po ako kasi cruch ko sya eh..mukhang nahahalata na nya na madalas ko sya tinitignan kasi ilang beses na kami nagkakahulihan ng tingin. baka pag nagpakilala ako baka magkailangan lang kami baka lalo akong di makapag-focus sa work out ko.

The next time magkasalubong kayo and he smiles at you, say hi just like what sis simang suggested.

[sugardrop]

bakit may mga makulit na mga lalaki.  friendship lang raw ang habol.  pero bakit ang kukulit.  pag sinabi kong busy ako and "i don't like to have dinner dates with guys."  sasagutin ako ng hindi raw yun date.  pag sinabi kong busy ako and need ko alagaan baby ko kaya need ko makauwe agad from buyer meet up, sasabihin sa akin na okay lang and ihahatid na lang nila ako pauwe.

namemental block ba at nabibingi ang isip ng mga lalaki?  parang they are doing me a favor kasi sila nagdidikta na may mag didinner kami.  sila nagdidikta na okay lang late na ako umuwe at hindi ko maalagaan ang baby ko kasi ihahatid naman nila ako pauwe.

yan ba ang lalaking friendship lang ang habol.  alam na ngang may asawa ako at mga anak.

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this week i went to a western union branch.  hinuli ako asikasuhin nung lalaking staff.  then ayaw ibalik ang id ko and ayaw ako palabasin ng branch nila.  nangungulit.  gusto raw nya ako makilala kaya magdinner raw kami.  friendship lang raw habol nya.  matanda na, puti na lahat buhok siguro 50 plus years old na.  ako 35 years old.  hanggang sa hinila ko na sa kamay nya yung id ko.  and nung huli pinindot na ren nya yung button para magbukas yung pinto ng branch

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yan ba ang friendship lang ang habol.  some of them are yung mga nag aalok na maging taga bitbit ng stocks ko.

mahirap magfilter ng kung ano ba talaga ang gusto.  hindi naman kailangan mangulit to the point na parang iwan lahat ng babae yung need nya gawin para lang makipagdinner sa kanila.  ang lalakas ng loob.  hindi naman mga guwapo.

pasensya na.  wala kasi ako masabihan and wala malabasan ng sama ng loob and ng kabadtripan

One word: IGNORE

[fleur_de_liz]

good thing happened yesterday.. lumabas kasi ko ng gym para magpahangin konti then lumabas din sya.so dalawa lang kaming nasa labas but of course hindi ko naman sya kinakausap dahil nga di naman kami magkakilala, he then initiated the conversation: he asked me if matagal na ko nag-ggym dun kasi hindi nya raw ako nakikita dati then biglang he asked for my name, i gave him my name but didnt care to ask his name kasi nahihiya talaga ako, it was him who gave his name to me. then he start asking me some of my infos like taga saan ako, ano work ko and kung san ako nagwowork.

then before i left he called me and say bye.

^ ok, then mag-antay ka na lang na siya magapproach sa'yo

ayan sya na unang nag-approach.. so do you guys think he likes me?

[jan888]

^am sure he is interested to know you!  ..unless he is an agent, trying to reach his quota..  but that is most unlikely..        so hopefully, things turn out great for you!  good luck!

[fleur_de_liz]

naku thank you po.. sana nga he's inetrested in me. minsan kasi mahirap basahin ang mga guys.

[berryblitz]

@fleur_de_liz  good luck mam

@sugardrop  yes   "ignore" is a very powerful word and it works!  although may mga ilan na makukulit.  yung iba kasi, i can't just ignore kasi buyers ko sila.  pero it takes time before they totally absorb that i am not into them.

[fleur_de_liz]

may mga guys ba talaga na hindi agad kinukuha yung # ng girl? yung gym mate ko kasi he already asked my name, he asked me if im single and yung ibang info ko like where do i work, what's my work, where i graduated in college, anong course ko, ano madalas kong ginagawa pag off ko, etc.. pero sa dami dami na ng nalaman nya sa'kin never naman nya hiningi # ko or even FB accoutn ko.
if that's the case ba does it mean na he doesn't like me or he's not interested with me? kasi diba usual guys once na nabigyan na sila kausapin yung girl na type nila then definitely they will ask na agad for the girl's #?

[louise1]

baka he wanted to take it slow. he wants to know if magclick kayo ng interest and the like. usually ganun ang mga guys then saka nila kukunin number mo

[sacred cow]

^^ ako I ask a girl's phone number after niya pumayag sa date invitation ko or kapag naramdaman kong mataas ang possibility na it would lead to somewhere, otherwise I don't get her number, sayang lang sa space sa phone ko

[Naughty^GuRu]

@fleur_de_liz : why don't you ask for his number instead? tell him para sabay kayo pumunta ng gym or kung anong excuses just to get his number  kapag hindi niya binigay or may slight hesitation, maybe he's not that into you. or taken na siya 

[fleur_de_liz]

^^ ako I ask a girl's phone number after niya pumayag sa date invitation ko or kapag naramdaman kong mataas ang possibility na it would lead to somewhere, otherwise I don't get her number, sayang lang sa space sa phone ko

so kahit type na type mo yung girl pero you dont feel any possibility that it will lead to something eh hindi mo talaga kukunin yung # nya?

ow will you know that things might liead to something?

[sacred cow]

so kahit type na type mo yung girl pero you dont feel any possibility that it will lead to something eh hindi mo talaga kukunin yung # nya?

yup, experience has shown that it leads to nothing and would only make my value lower in her eyes kasi she would see me just like all the guys na may gusto sa kanya, I wouldn't want her to have that validation just so it would add up to her already inflated ego.

ow will you know that things might liead to something?

when the girl actually shows blatant interest e.g. making out with me

[fleur_de_liz]

yeah.. you got the point.. coming from a guy's POV..tama nga naman.. so hindi naman pala lahat ng guys eh will get the girl's # immediately.. karamihan kasi ng guys ganun ang ginagawa, # agad agad