Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[ladysapphire]

hahaha...true, pero it would be less exciting

ok na rin na may mind games and sh*t tests, ika nga ng quote "don't wish it was easier, wish you were better" us guys should just step up our game, to get the girls we want and avoid getting played

why can't guys do this, yung straightforward sabihin sa girl na di na siya interested. this happened to me recently. then when i confronted him (confronted in such a way na i was just being honest without sounding upfront) then he acted like he didn't owe me an explanation for his pulling away s***. pero few weeks back lang we we're so close to being a couple na. so i can't say na kaming girls lang ang complicated. haha c'mon just say it diba, both saves us time and effort.

[sacred cow]

why can't guys do this, yung straightforward sabihin sa girl na di na siya interested. this happened to me recently. then when i confronted him (confronted in such a way na i was just being honest without sounding upfront) then he acted like he didn't owe me an explanation for his pulling away s***. pero few weeks back lang we we're so close to being a couple na. so i can't say na kaming girls lang ang complicated. haha c'mon just say it diba, both saves us time and effort.

scumbag answer: naeenjoy pa yung "benefits", naeenjoy pa yung company, wala pa namang new girl...it's unfair I know, I'm actually experiencing the same thing right now...when we're apart narerealize ko na wala naman talagang spark

[ladysapphire]

scumbag answer: naeenjoy pa yung "benefits", naeenjoy pa yung company, wala pa namang new girl...it's unfair I know, I'm actually experiencing the same thing right now...when we're apart narerealize ko na wala naman talagang spark

so diba di rin kayo fair guys, kaya you can't blame us as well. in doing that, nawalan din lalo ng chance ma-save if there any consolation, to save the friendship. like now, dahil sa pagiging douche ni guy, i don't want to talk to him anymore. nakakawala siya ng gana. his actions are telling a different story from the ones he's telling me weeks before about him different and upfront. all of that now are just plain BS. just be honest, that's all that we need for us not to be complicated.

bakit ang guy bigla na lang naglalaho?

anong reason

see even sis Tamera is even questioning. haha

[sacred cow]

so diba di rin kayo fair guys, kaya you can't blame us as well. in doing that, nawalan din lalo ng chance ma-save if there any consolation, to save the friendship. like now, dahil sa pagiging douche ni guy, i don't want to talk to him anymore. nakakawala siya ng gana. his actions are telling a different story from the ones he's telling me weeks before about him different and upfront. all of that now are just plain BS. just be honest, that's all that we need for us not to be complicated.

in the first place there was no friendship din to save since you already crossed a line, wala nang balikan yun. kung naging friends man ulit kayo either there was never really anything in the first place or someone is still pining for the other.

more often than not, when a guy's totally honest, mas wala siyang mapupuntahan. kung honest talaga lahat ng lalake they would be telling a girl "you want d!ck?" each time they approach a girl they find attractive (that's from chris rock..haha)

pero I get you're point, eh bakit naman kasi kayong mga babae din paminsan...instead of telling a guy off or rejecting them kaagad, andami niyo pang sinasabing dahilan..may mga iniisip pa kayong ayaw niyo kasi maka-offend kaya you expect the guy to get a hint, tapos minsan naman gusto niyo pala tapos nagpapakipot pa kapag may ibang pinormahan si guy, maiinis kayo at sasabihing babaero or paasa si guy.

tapos kapag guy ang gumawa sainyo ng ginagawa niyo, nagtataka pa kayo...eh the guy is just speaking "womanese" kapag naglaho or di na nagpaparamdam or naging cold, it just means that HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU

[ladysapphire]

in the first place there was no friendship din to save since you already crossed a line, wala nang balikan yun. kung naging friends man ulit kayo either there was never really anything in the first place or someone is still pining for the other.

more often than not, when a guy's totally honest, mas wala siyang mapupuntahan. kung honest talaga lahat ng lalake they would be telling a girl "you want d!ck?" each time they approach a girl they find attractive (that's from chris rock..haha)

pero I get you're point, eh bakit naman kasi kayong mga babae din paminsan...instead of telling a guy off or rejecting them kaagad, andami niyo pang sinasabing dahilan..may mga iniisip pa kayong ayaw niyo kasi maka-offend kaya you expect the guy to get a hint, tapos minsan naman gusto niyo pala tapos nagpapakipot pa kapag may ibang pinormahan si guy, maiinis kayo at sasabihing babaero or paasa si guy.

tapos kapag guy ang gumawa sainyo ng ginagawa niyo, nagtataka pa kayo...eh the guy is just speaking "womanese" kapag naglaho or di na nagpaparamdam or naging cold, it just means that HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU

but not in my case out of the 100%, im probably in the 3% population of girls who are upfront and not pakipot, i don't like BS pacute stuff. so in my case, we were very clear about how we feel about each other. he just created a scene of his own to cover up his BSssss hahaha. kung naging honest lang sana siya edi sana wala siya sa BS list ko. haha i can settle for the YOU-WANT-DICK guys than the LETS-GO-OUT-ON-A-DATE kinda guy that only wants to get into your pants.

im all bout honesty period. call me idealistic but that's just me. hehe :-)

[louise1]

that's right. the guy must be honest too even if he's a friend, a lover or just a kith. i mean the girl must feel that the guy is worth  of her trust.

anyway want to ask for your opinion, i have fubu and informed me he wants to stop f*****g around na and yet asked me if we could still be friends and meet him up and get laid once in a while?! i got confused what does he really mean?!

[jtansanco]

^ If he suddenly has the urge, you should be available whenever he's down for it. In short, he treats you as a toy, a sex doll, and just someone to release his load at. Don't be friends with him and go find a new partner. If he wants to end it, then end it. 

[sacred cow]

but not in my case out of the 100%, im probably in the 3% population of girls who are upfront and not pakipot, i don't like BS pacute stuff. so in my case, we were very clear about how we feel about each other. he just created a scene of his own to cover up his BSssss hahaha. kung naging honest lang sana siya edi sana wala siya sa BS list ko. haha i can settle for the YOU-WANT-DICK guys than the LETS-GO-OUT-ON-A-DATE kinda guy that only wants to get into your pants.

im all bout honesty period. call me idealistic but that's just me. hehe :-)

kudos to you! natawa ako sa 3%, parang Globe lang..3% lang daw malakas gumamit ng mobile internet

[louise1]

^ If he suddenly has the urge, you should be available whenever he's down for it. In short, he treats you as a toy, a sex doll, and just someone to release his load at. Don't be friends with him and go find a new partner. If he wants to end it, then end it. 

yeah, right. i don't see the reason why we should get laid if he already stop f*****g around?!
I didnt reply when he told me that. Naisip ko lang, paconsuelo de bobo nyo mga lalaki un - na i-friend zone ang isang girl that you don't really like but want to keep?

I was still thinking if I'm going to end it or not. He's worth it kasi and still want him as a fubu.   

[sacred cow]

that's right. the guy must be honest too even if he's a friend, a lover or just a kith. i mean the girl must feel that the guy is worth  of her trust.

bakit laging guy yung sinasabing dapat worth nung trust ng girl, it's like you're saying all girls are trustworthy from the get go and all guys are not trustworthy unless proven otherwise..haha
girls should prove that they're worth the guy's trust din naman ah

anyway want to ask for your opinion, i have fubu and informed me he wants to stop f*****g around na and yet asked me if we could still be friends and meet him up and get laid once in a while?! i got confused what does he really mean?!

he wants to end being fvck buddies with you, but still doesn't want to sever ties para may babalikan pa siya if ever kailangan niya magparaos kapag walang makitang iba

[louise1]

ok. i got it. i kept on asking him if he wanted to stop na nga.  but he kept on saying no im still interested in you. but anyway, he's a good friend and i learned a lot from him.so i'll keep him as a friend then

[sacred cow]

^ yup, then all's good

[tamera_lorraine]

bakit bigla na lang naglaho si guy?

hindi na nakikipagcommunicate? anong reason?

[argento]

bakit bigla na lang naglaho si guy?

hindi na nakikipagcommunicate? anong reason?

Ayaw na niya.

[Prinsesa Mumela]

When your guy said "sort your things first.. im tired. let's just stop this while we can. thanks..." what does that mean? is he calling it quits?

[sacred cow]

When your guy said "sort your things first.. im tired. let's just stop this while we can. thanks..." what does that mean? is he calling it quits?

^ yes. there are no subtexts...he meant what he said...literally

[Prinsesa Mumela]

^ yes. there are no subtexts...he meant what he said...literally

oh i see. thanks sacred cow  i thought kasi pag ganun eh parang binibigyan ka lang nya ng time ayusin yung mga bagay-bagay then after doing so, ok na uli kayo.

[mameejhy]

What if a single guy said these (on different occasions) to an (slightly) older married woman:

"You don't look your age, you still look young and single. Mabuti hindi ka naliligawan?"
"Papasa ka na 27yrs old (the guy is 26yrs old)"
"Ako, I prefer older women"
"They can appreciate real beauty (refers to the married woman)"

Does it mean the man likes/ is interested in the woman?

[simang]

Does it mean the man likes/ is interested in the woman? --Not a guy, pero here are my thoughts. First thing is NO, doesnt mean he's interested in the women. what he means is...

"You don't look your age, you still look young and single. Mabuti hindi ka naliligawan?"
- you dont look your age, you look young and single, buti hindi ka naliligawan.

"Papasa ka na 27yrs old (the guy is 26yrs old)"
- papasa ka na 27 years old.

"Ako, I prefer older women"
- the guy prefers older women.

"They can appreciate real beauty (refers to the married woman)"
- married women can appreciate real beauty.

That's it. Everything a man says is literal. Take it as a compliment, not as something else.

[sacred cow]

^ korek, the problem with some women is that masyado kayo nasanay na laging loaded ang phrases na sinasabi nyo that when someone says something lagi nyo hinahanapan ng other meaning, hence nagkakaroon ng confusion and unnecessary misunderstanding