Move on or hold on

[shakeshake]

^^ sis kung ako sayo, yung hubby ko ang pagreresignin ko.. as in ilalayo ko siya sa mundong ginalawan nila ng kiri nya. it will also help you to move on. ganyan ginawa ko dati sa ex ko.. mas mahirap at nakakapraning talaga pag alam mong same environment sila ni kiri. andun pa din ang pagdududa lalo na sa mga company activities.

[aquacharly]

ANKYNEMD.   Chill.  If you don't play your cards well, you will turn yourself into a person you don't like.

Give Kiri space --  nasabihan mo na, and more.
Give her space to realize mali pag pili nya ng lalandiin.
Give her space. Kasi, flight or fight ang normal response ng tao pag cornered.
You want her to go into flight mode (which is harder to achieve, think: job openings, Dec & bonus!) not fight mode (she knows she will have the last laugh if she gets your husband drooling all over her.)

So, chill. 
Hindi yung:  I will fight you tooth & nail to keep my husband.
Eh hello, yung husband mo is also  to blame kasi he responds to her -- your hubby plays Moro Moro with her --  he shares the blame & guilt. 
So, better , if they should do wrong & still  proceed with their moromoro na ang attitude mo eh: 
                 Thank you, Kiri, for taking my trash. 

[hedonista]

Thanks for the posts mga sis. revisited GT and saw this thread. I am recovering from husband's infidelity. Found out last August - 4 mos to the affair. Office affair. 

Thank you. I have planned to post a thread but right now will just read through and learn,

thank you sis aquacharly always