I need your opinions on this po.

[green-aholic]

I have something to share and pakicomment po ang inyong opinions. Hehe. I am so happy kase tumama ako sa STL. Hahaha. But besides that eh mas may malaki pang rason. Naniniwala ba kayo sa signs? Ako oo. Sobra. Heheh. Ganito kasi iyon, friday night kami dumating dito sa province from manila. sabi ko sa sarili ko at hiniling ko ke papa God, papa Jesus, ke St. Therese, sa Ina Poong Bato at sa Guardian Angel ko na bigyan naman ako ng sign kung si crush kapitbahay ba ang para sa akin. Para incase sya pala ang para sa akin eh magiging patient ako sa paghintay na marealize nya na ako ang para sa kanya at kung di nila ibibigay ang sign eh ibig sabihin magmove on na ako at mas magfocus pa sa pagpapabuti sa sarili ko just incase mameet ko na si the one. eh ang hiningi kong sign sana tumama yung birthday namin dun nga sa STL. I know bad yun pero yun lang naisip ko that time. sorry. ang hiningi kong time is mula friday night hanggang kagabi. although nagtatalo pa yung mind ko na to be fair eh hanggang bukas pa dapat ako magbigay ng time tutal andito pa ako then ang sabi ko na lang bahala na thinking na di naman ako tatama dun. hehe. kaya yon tinayan ko lang eh hanggang ngayong gabi lang pala ang STL. natuwa lang ako dahil yung palugit ko na hanggang bukas na imposible dahil wala pala bukas eh nakatama pa ako ngayong huling gani mismo. [textspeak!] ba yun, sign ba yun o hindi? alam ko mababaw pero humingi ako ng sign eh.

[mamitzie]

Ako naniniwala din sa signs signs na yan most of the time. hehe 
At dahil nangyari yung hiningi mong sign, baka nga sya yung para sa yo. Pero mas ok siguro kung habang nag aantay ka sa kanya eh isabay mo na din yung sinabi mo na pagbubutihin mo pa yung sarili mo. Para in case lang na mali pala tayo sa akala na sign yan, eh di maayos ka pa din. Kung hindi man para sa kanya, para dun sa talagang 'the one' mo.

[nami_sun08]

  actually sis [textspeak!] takot [textspeak!] sa sign hehe... Sis kung mahal mo sya e push mo teh ok lang na mareject at lit na try mo

[green-aholic]

hahaha. nakakatakot mareject teh lalo pa kapitbahay pa namin. baka di nako makalabas nun. hehe

[simang]

My opinion: don't go crazy over 'signs' kahit ilang signs pa ang dumating if you're not going to act on it, anong ineexpect mong mangyare? Wala. Ulitin ko, wala

Off topic: what's STL?

[alice_alice]

Sometimes hindi reliable ang signs eh pumapalya sila minsan and mas maganda na gawan mo na lang ng paraan na maging close kayo ni crush kapaitbahay diba?

Atsaka nalilito din ako ano ba yung STL?

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^^ spot on sis! same inquiry din, what the hell is STL at tinatayaan to? and maybe divide your story into paragraphs para mas okay basahin. 

thing is, signs are just "chances" (in the probability). just because this sign showed doesn't really mean your arbitrarily appointed this and that will happen. it can mean another for someone else. IT'S STUPID AND REALLY PATHETIC TO BASE LIFE DECISIONS ON SUCH. instead of wasting energy with what you were doing, why dont you go and talk to your neighbour and ask him yourself, decipher what he really feels for you and all that. then if the two of you are close enough and there's really "something" between the two of you, then maybe you can ask point on if may future ba kayo. i dont see anything wrong with that, at least you know instead of forever guessing and basing your actions on chance alone. lol you can compute your chance alam m ba, go search it in probability.

and sis, when you're setting your eye on this neighbour, i do hope you've got foundation and basis to set it unto him ha. baka naman never kayo nag-usap or di naman kayo close or you dont have that "understanding". baka naman, "wala lang, crush ko siya from afar and gusto ko siya na". if that's the case then hell forget it. 

[baliwsayo]

Nag-google pa tuloy ako ano yun STL, Small Town Lottery lang pala. 

Well, nasa tao pa din ang gawa. May subtle hints naman na tinatawag, if you really like this guy. Una muna eh dapat alam nyang nageexist ka. 

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^^ spot on sis! same inquiry din, what the hell is STL at tinatayaan to? and maybe divide your story into paragraphs para mas okay basahin. 

thing is, signs are just "chances" (in the probability). just because this sign showed doesn't really mean your arbitrarily appointed this and that will happen. it can mean another for someone else. IT'S STUPID AND REALLY PATHETIC TO BASE LIFE DECISIONS ON SUCH. instead of wasting energy with what you were doing, why dont you go and talk to your neighbour and ask him yourself, decipher what he really feels for you and all that. then if the two of you are close enough and there's really "something" between the two of you, then maybe you can ask point on if may future ba kayo. i dont see anything wrong with that, at least you know instead of forever guessing and basing your actions on chance alone. lol you can compute your chance alam m ba, go search it in probability.

and sis, when you're setting your eye on this neighbour, i do hope you've got foundation and basis to set it unto him ha. baka naman never kayo nag-usap or di naman kayo close or you dont have that "understanding". baka naman, "wala lang, crush ko siya from afar and gusto ko siya na". if that's the case then hell forget it. 

i'm pm the assumption of "siya na" = asawa level ha. 

[amethyst028]

@TS i personally don't believe in signs. Although i believe in destiny. What is meant for you will come to you. No need to waste your time waiting for the guy. Just enjoy your life and let things happen naturally. Be busy living your life to the fullest at kung siya yun para sayo gagawa ng way ang tadhana para sa inyong dalawa.

[zarazan]

Kahit ano naman signs hingin mo pero gustong gusto mo yung lalaki - itwtwist mo lang yan signs mo. Like dati sabi ko pag nakakita ako ng ibon sa Greenhills. HAHAHAHA! Eh nakakita ako sa picture ng ibon. "SIGE NA NGA YUN NA YUN". HAHAHA! Walang kwenta.

[miss_isla]

^ totoo yan. hahaha. it's not just about the signs but how you interpret them.

minsan we ask for signs kase we don't want to blame ourselves pag mali yung decision natin, and just think na may "blessing" naman because we received a sign.

kung gusto, go na, we don't just wait for something to happen, especially yung "pagpapabuti sa sarili", hindi dapat naka depende kung type ka din ba neighbor or not.

[zarazan]

^I agree. Ako then nung may super duper crush ako, ang thinking ko "Siya na talaga, I can feel it" instead of "siya na ba talaga?"  So what I ended up doing was todo paganda tas when he finally noticed me, ayun na. HAHAHA!

[green-aholic]

Woow, thanks sis mamitzie!!

Sis nami hirap kasi ipush baka mahurt ako. ni wala nga paki sakin yun eh. huhu.

Sis simang tama ka, wala akong ineexpect na output dun sa sign na hiningi ko dahil alam ko din naman na kahit me sign, kung wala naman din syang gagawen eh wala rin. yun nga lang atleast hopeful ako kahit pano.

sis alice, supermodel i don't think there's a way para maging close kame eh. i'm not outgoing. basta, imposible na maging close kame. huhu..

napapansin naman nya ako pero i think hanggang dun lang yun. haaay, life. gusto ko na tuloy lumipat ng bahay ng matigilan nako dito sa kababawan na to. iba kasi ang stage nang crush nung bata pa ako dahil nun alam ko hanggang dun lang yun dahil me time for that sa older years ko. now i'm at the right age di ko na alam kung kelan pa ang tamang panahon kaya parang nagmamadali ako.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^ ah wish-wish lang pala to. kala ko you've been bestfriends forever and you want to take it to the next level. 

usually no comment na lang ako. parang pbb teens pala itech!

anyway why dont you make this time around different. you said it yourself na appropriate age ka na. why dont you make the next step para maging kaclose/bf mo ang crush mo. if wala kang gagawin parang same lang din as before when you were younger.

[winkypops]

I believe sa signs, I always ask for a sign..minsan nagkakatotoo minsan hindi...parang chances are ang peg.

If you like him, go for it.

[Girltalker2]

ang problem sa signs is what if sign na sya pero di mo napansin?  or hindi talaga sya sign at nagkataon lang, tapos you will base your succeeding actions based on a misinterpreted sign?

[green-aholic]

i don't really know what to do. pero tanggap ko naman na di siguro ako type ni crush. coz if he does, baka matagal na nya akong binibigyan ng atensyon. although i must admit na pinagbigyan talaga yung sign ko, di ba mga sis? pero, i'm asking for another sign, nagnonovena ako ke St. Therese. I really believe in signs.

Although last time, i had another crush and I think i did the same at tumama na naman ata ako. napagbigyan na nman ako. the other one naman ganun din but this time i said na if the wish will be granted, i must seek a dr na bec health related naman ito. sabi ko ipagpapagamot ko at tumama naman ako. i am not lucky sa sugal coz if i did baka matagal nako nanalo sa lotto.

weird lang nananalo ako pag me hinihiling akong equivalent sign. bat kaya ganun?

[simang]

^how old are you sis? It's okay to believe in signs, the truth is we can give meaning to anything, and included dyan yung signs and all. I guess what im trying to say is that as these signs come to you, why not act on them? Instead of asking for another sign, or another, then another, why not actually do something? Baka yung crush mo eh nakapang asawa na ng iba, ikaw nag-aantay pa din ng signs. I'm not talking about romantic relationships lang ha, but life in general. We are given a lot of opportunities everyday. Say for example, you applied for your dream job and you got accepted. Sabi mo siguro, it's a sign that i'm meant to be in this job, that this is what im supposed to do. But then, dahil iniisip mong that is what's meant for you no matter what, you slacked a little. Late ka pumapasok. Di mo ginalingan yung work na supposedly eh 'destiny' mo. I think it's crazy to believe na you'll have your dream job forever just because it's your destiny, pero hindi mo naman iningatan, and hindi mo naman ineffortan i-keep. You get the analogy sis?

What im saying is that no matter what these signs are, and how often they happen, it's your will to do something that's going to matter.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

the other one naman ganun din but this time i said na if the wish will be granted, i must seek a dr na bec health related naman ito. sabi ko ipagpapagamot ko at tumama naman ako.

sis ano ka ba, pag may sakit ka ng nararamdaman you should seek the help of a doctor. did you know that it is the poor health seeking behavior of the filipinos kaya mataas ang mortality rates ng mga sakit/cancer dito. pinagsasawalang bahala mga nararamdaman nila. tsk tsk. you should change this behavior.

i understand that you're such a believer in signs but i do hope that you'll let the more rational side of you prevail in making decisions. and tama si sis simang, that's one way of interpreting the signs eh. so people tend to slack off because this or that is their destiny. you can wait all you want for this neighbour that gave you a sign but the only thing that happens to you is you get older and uglier and sadly time has passed you by and you lost a lot of opportunities. if you wont step forward you'll always be stuck in the same place. and he'll realize nothing if you wont do anything to make him realize it. we dont know your age yet but if asa "critical" point ka na, you should be more active in looking for a life-long manner.

and about your inquiry na bakit nananalo ka lagi tuwing humihingi ka ng sign, there's a word for that: LUCK.