tips on moving on...

[Red Rack 21]

there will come a time that memories of him will no longer matter esp. when u find the right one. for now, do the things that u,ve been longing to do...travel..start a new hobby...travel alone if u can so u will get to know yourself better.

[10don]

i am trying to move on. nagpapaka busy sa mga bagay bagay. yes naiisip ko pa sya. masakit. sana mawala na yung sakit everytime maiisip ko sya

[nixiquita]

Ang belief ko dati

"The only way to get over an old love is through a new one."

Tapos being immature and childish, i believed that it only translated to romantic love.

Now i realize, love can mean all sort of love. Passion for something, not just for someone. A new hobby, a talent, your career, love for family, friends or pets. All sorts of good things!

[beatrize zuri]

ako rin sobrang hirap mag move on lalo na kung kasama mo siya sa office, araw araw mong nakikita tapos malalaman mong may iba na siyang pinopormahan..! its been 3 months na rin since naghiwalay kami, its like pareho kaming nasa supermarket siya nakauwi na ako nandon pa rin naghihintay na babalikan niya at sabay kami uuwi. but sad to say, he will never come back!

[pret_ty68]

Ang belief ko dati

"The only way to get over an old love is through a new one."

Tapos being immature and childish, i believed that it only translated to romantic love.

Now i realize, love can mean all sort of love. Passion for something, not just for someone. A new hobby, a talent, your career, love for family, friends or pets. All sorts of good things!

Agree. Madalas kasi dito sa atin they equate love always with romantic love and they always thought that people who are single are unhappy. Kaya minsan maraming on rebound relationship tapos hindi nag wo work kasi sila mismo may problema pa sa sarili nila. Kaya dapat focus on yourself muna. May song nga na may lyrics that says "learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all".

[ILJ]

It starts with acceptance. Once you've already accepted that you are not meant to be together, moving on shall follow.

[10don]

so..today, deleted na lahat ng emails nya sa kin. pati pictures. as in lahat. pati mga sent messages ko, delete-delete-delete. ni hindi ako nanghinayang. inisip ko, kung sya nga hindi nanghinayang sa ilang years na pinagsamahan namin, bakit naman ako manghihinayang sa emails nya? so yeah, ganon ganon na lang.
parang nasa anger stage na ko. at least tapos na sa denial at bargaining.

[diann28]

makinig ng CHRISTIAN SONGS tuwing malulungkot. yun lang ginawa ko noon hehe

[lovely_carrot]

I removed anything that will remind him of me - pictures, text messages, FB posts, contact nos.
Parang out of sight, out of mind.

Pansin ko lang parang mas mahirap mag move on pag ikaw yung iniwan or hiniwalayan, yung tipong nagulat ka na ayaw na pala nya sayo.. right now I'm allowing myself to go through the stages of grief, nasa anger stage pa talaga ako.. I wish I could get over this phase soon..

[SarSi_Em]

gaano katagal kayo naka move on? everyday kasi hirap na hirap pa rin ako, may time na naiiyak pa rin ako at pag na play sa mind ko magkasama sila naiiyak pa rin ako. 

halos ayaw ko na bumangon sa kama, gusto ko lang matulog pero hindi rin ako maka tulog

gano katagal to? kahit tanggap ko na wala na sya at impossible na maging kami uli, di pa rin ako makalimot agad. kahit mag paka busy ako papasok pa rin sya sa utak ko lalo sa time na nakahiga na ko.

hay sana matapos na to 

[pret_ty68]

^
Sis as cliche as it may sound but "Time heals all wounds" ganyan talaga sa umpisa mahirap pero malalagpasan mo rin yan. Walang makakapagsabi kung kelan talaga dahil iba iba tayo. Sundin mo na lang muna mga advice dito like keeping yourself busy and avoid stalking him. Out of sight out of mind. Prayers also help a lot. Soon malalaman mo na lang na ka move on ka na. 

[Girltalker2]

makinig ng CHRISTIAN SONGS tuwing malulungkot. yun lang ginawa ko noon hehe

Malaking tulong nga ang songs sakin.  I think it depends on your personality din. Kaya ako moving on songs pinipili ko talaga.  Yung kanta ni Cher na Believe, Kelly Clarkson songs, etc.
Huwag mo susundin yung mga Break up songs dito sa GT. Di ko sila type, lalo kang iiyak.

Follow these songs (talagang nilista ko pa sila)    - Firework, Roar, Part of Me ni Katy Perry, It's raining men    Stronger ni Britney Spears, Since you been gone/walk away/stronger Kelly Clarkson, Over you by Daughtry (this is one of my favorites),  I don't need a man by p***y Cat dolls, eh eh (nothing else I can say) Lady ga**.

Basta may songlist ako at lagi ko lang silang pinaplay.

gano katagal to? kahit tanggap ko na wala na sya at impossible na maging kami uli, di pa rin ako makalimot agad. kahit mag paka busy ako papasok pa rin sya sa utak ko lalo sa time na nakahiga na ko.

hay sana matapos na to 

Sis, nasa sayo iyan kung gaano mo papatagalin.  Ang first thing na kelangan mo talaga gawin is punuin ang oras mo para di mo sya maisip.

Lots of prayers din

Tapos try to believe and have this hope that you will eventually find happiness, at makakahanap ka rin ng partner na mas higit pa sa kanya.

[cristina]

1.Pray
2. Iiyak mo ang sakit
3. Spend time for yourself
4.Enjoy and be happy

[Miss.Pancake]

I make myself busy sa mga pagpapaganda activities. hehe.

#makeoverproject

[nixiquita]

^ wow this is weird. yan din ang balak ko.

actually ive been pestering ny friend na magpunta kami sa salon kanina to have our lashes permed or palagay extensions. tas urged din my other friend na magpakulay kami hair.

haha parang pareho tayo sis miss.pancakes talaga! haha

[Miss.Pancake]

^Sissies talaga tayo nixiquita. Hahaha. Parehong pareho.

Bumili ako ng voucher para sa hair yun steam rebond. Paparebond ko na ulit hair ko para gumanda na sya ng bongga tapos papahair color ko narin. Tapos papa brow studio ako sa next sweldo at eyelash extensions. Oh diba? Busy ako. hahaha!

Lately nag rurunning narin ako to stay fit. Nun di ako single di ko naman ginagawa yun at sobrang tamad ko mag exercise. Ngayong broken hearted ako bigla akong ginanahan mag jogging. hehe. Feeling ko sexy sexy ko na. hahaha!

[nixiquita]

^wow push mo yan, self improvement  siguro ako babad na lang sa work at [textspeak!] with friends. medyo kelangan ko rin maghabol sa work at bumawi sa friends eh. plus, ayoko na gumastos ulit ng marami so hinay hinay muna sa pagwaldas ng money haha.

goodluck sa atin

[amethyst028]

everytime maiisip ko siya iniisip ko yung mga pangit sa kanya at yung mga reasons why hindi talaga kame mag work, iniisip ko rin yung mga nagawa ko na alam kong hindi ko magagawa kung kame pa and i feel so grateful that we didn't end up together. i like my life now and i feel so blessed. then one day it hit me, i'm over him na pala. naka move on nako 1000%. 

[Miss.Pancake]

Okay so this weekend nag emo lang ako sa room. hehe.I mean yesterday sunday. Ayun nun nagtext siya sakin this morning parang wala nalang. Di ko na nireplyan. Naasar lang ako e. Mas okay pala ang buhay pag wala sya.

[t_r_i_s_h]

^dumadating talaga sa ganyan my ex still vibers me every now and then nag sesend ng mga kung ano anong screenshots ganon kasi kami before pag may nakikita online na off or funny sc the send so yun minsan di na ko nagrereply.

moving on, for me acceptance is important and then keep yourself busy at magpaganda. like get a new haircut or color which lately ko palang pinapag isi[an gawin kasi nung bagong break kami ang naisip ko agad gawin mag diet hahahha