for the guys, possible ba talaga kayong magmahal ng dalawa?

[simang]

^sis it's normal naman na makaappreciate ng maganda. I mean wala naman difference if sabihin nyang maganda yung kotse, at kung sabihin nyang maganda yung babae. Both are measures of appreciation.

Madalas napapansin ko kung partner ko din na tumitingin sa ibang girls when we're together. Minsan kase, napapatingin din ako dun sa girl kase maganda nga. Pero alam mo what I tell myself? Yes, he appreciates her beauty, pero sino bang kinikiss nya? Ako. Who does he pleasure in bed? Ako. Sino bang pinagluluto nya? Ako. So kahit gaano man kalaki lamang nya saken sa ganda, overall lamang ako sa kanya coz this awesome guy is with me, and he loves me.

So attracted man sya sa ibang girls, sa akin naman sya committed.

[Girltalker2]

^ ya, kami din. minsan ako pa magtuturo sa kanya na maganda yung girl. pero one thing I noticed is pati hindi masyadong kagandahan (or mas matanda itsura nung girl kesa sa guy - which ang dami nya lagi na p point sakin), napapansin din nya.  so patas lang.

[rhomalicious]

Madalas napapansin ko kung partner ko din na tumitingin sa ibang girls when we're together. Minsan kase, napapatingin din ako dun sa girl kase maganda nga. Pero alam mo what I tell myself? Yes, he appreciates her beauty, pero sino bang kinikiss nya? Ako. Who does he pleasure in bed? Ako. Sino bang pinagluluto nya? Ako. So kahit gaano man kalaki lamang nya saken sa ganda, overall lamang ako sa kanya coz this awesome guy is with me, and he loves me.

So attracted man sya sa ibang girls, sa akin naman sya committed.

You really have a point girl..

[tisaygirl123]

I love this, I think this will be my answer.

yes possible on both sides.. but with two people, always pick the second. Because, if you really love the first one , you would have never fallen for the second.

[erosiastic]

i think it's possible naman. kaso hindi pareho ang intensity ng feelings/pagmamahal

[alice_alice]

Possible.

Di nga lang sila magpapantay, may isang lamang.

[fredprinz]

For me, it's possible. Though it depends on how much love you give to either person.

[Queen Chokolah]

kung sa umpisa pa lang e love na ang reason kung bakit sila nagka-kabit, ibig sabihin daw nun e di nila na ganun kamahal si gf o asawa

yup!

[Queen Chokolah]

Mahal? No.

If you love the first one, you wouldn't fall for another.
If you fell for another, you don't love the first one. Maybe you loved him/her before, but certainly not anymore.

Mahal as in mahal ha. Not familiarity, not libog, not awa, not attraction or whatever. Mahal.

Pero it does not necessarily mean na pangalawa mong minahal eh libog na agad o whatever ang reason. Grabe namang assumption yan.

Normal lang naman na makapansin ng maganda/gwapo ang partner mo. Di naman bulag yan. O baka nga ma attract pa. Kasi kahit ikaw din naman diba. Pero ang word in topic is: MAHAL.

Pero malibugan sa ibang babae? Ibang usapan na yun. Hindi yun simpleng "attraction" lang. Siguro kahit hindi nya mahal kung nalibugan sya, ayoko pa rin. hahaha. Dun na sya.