husband and mistress/gf just had a baby

[i_v_y]

^ sis, im currently 39 weeks pregnant with my italian stallion.

[Girltalker2]

Congratulations Ivy!!!  Lapit ka na manganak.  Happy for you sis and wishing you and your current family all the best. Cute siguro ng magiging baby nyo.

Sis, 2 years has passed. How are you feeling now towards your ex, his mistress and the baby?

Sakin kasi I felt bitter dati pero naman kasi I was still married to him when he had 2 kids. Kaya ang sakit sakit nang pinagdaanan ko. And yeah, after I left him, I healed slowly din and moved on. Ngayon he has another child from another mistress and I just wish them well.

Siguro for a time, part of me din didn't feel as happy for him when he was still with mistress #1, reason being that kahit ano mangyari feeling ko that relationship (he and mistress) somehow ruined my past and destroyed my marriage. But naka help sakin to be happier in my life on my own.

Nung nalaman ko na may iba na syang kabit with another kid, somehow I felt better and happy for all of them. Don't know why. But as of now, I just wish him well at sana he can treat my kids well din. Ito ang kinakatakutan ko actually, yung kids ko kasi kahit hiwalay na kami, somehow may attempts pa sya to communicate pero madalang at pasulpot sulpot lang depending on his convenience. And I also don't trust him kung anong ituturo nya or sasabihin sa mga bata. Dito ako bothered. I cannot control him and don't want to, but he is abusive at times - in a sense he only takes into account his time with no regard to others and I'm afraid Ito ginagawa nya sa mga anak ko.

[magno4]

 


well as a guy, mga sisters with your all respect this is my humble and violent reaction and opinion too. medyo naguluhan din ako, e halimbawa nga ganun ang nangyare na nag ka anak kayo ng mistress. would that be the reason para totally mag hiwalay na kayo o kung may nararamdaman padin kayo sa isat isa na mag kabalikan o matanggap nya na may baby na si husband sa mistress nya. [textspeak!] ang pinaka best answer nyo dine? at [textspeak!] ang best solusyon ika nga kung talagang hindi nadin kayo mag kakabalikan pa pag ganun? syempre masakit sa girl yan diba, out right ba dapat ang decision kung mag hihiwalay dahil basa nalaman na may baby sila ni mistress. medyo nakaka relate lang sa kwento ni sis i_V_Y. 

[fionnah325]

congratz miss ivy....malapit kana manganak siguro cute ng baby mo?mabuti at ngayon nakapag move on kana noh?parang hindi ko kaya yong experienced mo ah kung ako yata nasa kalagayan mo hindi ko yata kakayanin eh...pero believe ako sayo kasi nakayanan mo..god is really good kasi hindi ka din niya pinabayaan at nagkaroon ka ng partner na mapagmahal

[nicoletta]

i_v_y

Congrats! For sure, cute anak niyo, and puro yan ang makukuhang mong comment dito.

magno4

You are the guy in this situation?  Na sa gf/ wife mo yan if forgiving siya.  It would be difficult for the rest of us na hindi pa napagdaanan yan pero malaking issue yan i'm sure for most of us wives na magkakaroon ng anak asawa namin while still married to us.  In the same way na i'm sure hindi rin kayo matutuwa if nabuntis ang wife na hindi naman sa asawa niya.  Iba narin panahon ngayon, whether men accept it or not, we have every right to be a major decision maker sa household especially kung major contributor din sa family savings/ expenses. It's very disrespectful towards us na pag dating sa hirap kasama kami pero pag sa saya, wala na.  RESPECT.

[sweet_revenge]

Hi everyone! I'm just new here. Just want to share kung ano naman nangyari sakin. Hiwalay na din kami ng asawa ko for almost 2 years. Iniwan nya ako kasi nakabuntis sya ng ibang babae. Ang reason hindi ko sya mabigyan ng anak pero may adopted child kami. Pero of course ang reason nya sakin nung una wala syang 3rd party na fall out lang daw sya sakin. Kaya i let him go na lang.

I really don't know kng masasabi ko na nakapag move on na ako pero puro galit na lang un nararamdaman ko at pag naaalala ko [textspeak!] ginawa nila sakin.  Plus pag nakakarinig ako ng updates about him and sa mistess di naman na ako affected. Natatawa na lang ako actually. Right now on going yung vawc case ko sa kanya. Buttered wife kasi ako and [textspeak!] psychological abuse kaya ako nagfile. Napapagod na din ako sa case actually kasi since dec 2013 pa yun wala pa din akong nakakamit na justice. Hindi ko naman maiurong yung kaso dahil maraming madisappoint sa akin. Gusto tlg kasi nila maconvict [textspeak!] ex ko.

[purple_leigh97]

Meron bang legal action pwedeng ifile against the husband and the kabit kapag nabuntis?

[brandi]

^ sis, im currently 39 weeks pregnant with my italian stallion.

I don't know if i was able to comment in any of your posts long before pero i was able to read them. With your current situation sis, i must say that, God must have reasons for your miscarriages and for not blessing you with a child with your ex. I think God has been preparing you for that blessing with the right man. I hope that this man is for keeps na. I am so happy for you, that at least, you have already found that someone who will truly value you.

[akosimaiatot]

Wow congrats TS! its true na if god wants you to drop something that is because he wants you to pickup something better..cheers !

Meron bang legal action pwedeng ifile against the husband and the kabit kapag nabuntis?

yes sis that's concubinage  If you are certain that your husband is maintaining a relationship with another woman and they are living together in a different house and have kids you may opt to file a criminal complaint for concubinage against him and his mistress because their acts constitute a violation of our criminal laws. As provided for under Article 334 of the Revised Penal Code, “Any husband who shall keep a mistress in the conjugal dwelling, or shall have sexual intercourse, under scandalous circumstances, with a woman who is not his wife, or shall cohabit with her in any other place, shall be punished by prision correccional in its minimum and medium periods. x x x The concubine shall suffer the penalty of destierro.”

[bluish_mommy]

at alam ko yung babae nagsisisi din sia kasi she emailed me asking for forgiveness kasi ni two time din siya.

if I were you, ganito ang isasagot ko:

"patawarin man kita, walang mababago, dumating pa rin ang karma mo."