Wedding Pamahiins

[belle_v2g]

I had pearl earrings, didn't have something blue. 2nd veil almost fell but I pulled it back in time. we had 11 candles. 8 pcs to light before ceremony.. 3 for the unity candles. it's a bit of a worry if mamatay lahat yon hahaha!

I remember my mom mentioned too about the candle na namatay during my ninang's wedding. She died after giving birth to 1st child.

had 2 gown fittings, twice per gown. I wonder too who went out the church first.. maybe the advance party na suppliers kase they have to go the reception na. hihi!

No, we don't believe in superstitions but not bad to take extra caution.

[marchbridetobe]

Kelan ba talaga di pwedeng magkita ang bride at groom? Ang alam ko kasi on the day of the wedding lang pero may nabasa din ako na pti daw day before?

[shygirlme]

^kami ng husband ko magkasama until 11pm before the wedding. nung day ng wedding nagkita nalang kami sa church na. choice namin wag magkasabay sa breakfast buffet.

[caleeice]

We didn't see each other for 3 days before the wedding. If I had a choice, would have made it a week! Hahaha! Not so much because of any pamahiin, but more of because it just makes everything more exciting! 

[marchbridetobe]

sis shygirlme, buti nabanggit mo yung sa breakfast. pano nyo inensure na di kayo magkakasabay sa breakfast buffet? nagtetext ba kayo?

sis caleeice grabe naman yung 1 week if ever. hehe. pero mukhang magandang idea yung 3 days, basta dapat lang settled nyo na talaga lahat by that time

[shygirlme]

^usapan na talaga namin di kami magsasabay. he knows that time ako gigising. on the day nauna naman ako nagising. i messaged him tapos na kami kumain sila naman hehe

[gemwin21]

Kami ni hubby halos walang sinunod na mga hehe. Sa awa ng Diyos naging succesful naman ang wedding. We even ate breakfast together on the day of the wedding.

[j.adore]

Hmmm para sa marriage ang mga pamahiin, hindi sa wedding day hehe.

[gemwin21]

^ganun ba sis...akala ko pag nagkita kayo on the day of the wedding parang hindi matutuloy ang wedding...parang ganun. hehe.

[j.adore]

Ay sorry meron sa hindi matutuloy, meron hindi magiging masaya marriage, meron maghihiwalay in the future. Depende sa pamahiin kung ano yung mangyayari daw.

[tinapay]

Naguluhan ako dun sa pamahiin ng wedding gown na bawal sukatin.  Ang alam ko the day before the wedding yung bawal.  E pano yung mga rtw or for rent na gown?  Susukatin ko pa naman uli bukas yung gown na kukunin ko. 4 months pa naman before my wedding. Does that count? 

I also let my fiance see my chosen wedding gown pero sa picture lang, for his comment and approval (lagi ko kasi hinihingi opinion nya kung maganda o bagay ba yung suot ko).  Sya rin nagsabi sakin na ayaw nyang tignan but later on sabi nya kahit anong mangyari naman daw ay papakasalan pa rin nya ko.

May nagsabi din sakin na bawal daw picture-an yung church for the wedding.  E ako i was too excited to finally reserved a church (dahil muntik na akong maubusan) so i posted it in instagram. Totoo kaya yun?

With the single ladies naman as maid of honor or bridesmaid, ang alam ko ang bridesmaid dapat single but i'm getting my friend who's technically single but with a daughter na and living in with his boyfriend.  As for my MOH, i'll be getting my sister who's married na.  We're very close kasi.  Ako rin yung tumayong MOH nya nung kasal Nya.

About dun sa veil, ngayon ko lang narinig yun.  E bakit nung isang wedding na pinuntahan ko, sa balikat pinakabit sakin ng coordinator yung secondary veil?

About sa candle naman, may iba kong friends na ayaw ma-assign dun.

Yung number ng abays, may ganun din pala.  Kami we're trying it to be even tapos ang daming close friends ni fiance, nahirapan akong pantayan.  Kaya tuloy mukhang aabot kami sa 10 pairs!  Right now 9 na sa akin, 10 na sa kanya.

I think ang susundin ko lang na pamahiin is yung something old, new, borrowed, blue. At yung di kami magkikita ni fiance on the night before the wedding, yun din kasi gusto nya.  Yung sukob sinunod din namin, literal na 12months after.

[shygirlme]

^regarding the gown sis. ako kasi 2 days before the wedding pinickup yung gown. hindi ako confident na kasya sakin lalo pag nakaupo so sinukat ko. in your case 4 months before the wedding baka pwede mo isukat pag malapit na? kasi may tendency na hindi na kasya sayo hassle naman if sa mismong day ng wedding mo hindi kasya diba? nasayo naman yun sis kung maniniwala ka sa ganon pamahiin. i also send the pics of my gown sa husband ko yung 1st fitting nga lang. ayaw nya nga sana kasi gusto nya masurprise sya sa itsura ng gown sa wedding namin kaso like you gusto ko din ng opinion nya hehe after that hindi na nya nakita.

[Megantaur]

Lucky daw na itapat ang wedding sa fullmoon, pero pansin ko nag-iiba ugali ng tao sa fullmoon. Pansin din ng mga nurse sa ospital lalo na sa mental hahaha

Did some of you ever had your wedding date computed for the auspicious date base from your birthday and husband's birthday?

[bonzaigirl]

I'm not superstitious but we had to match our wedding date sa few days after ng new moon. As per my mum's request. Ang alam ko sis megantaur its a few days after the new moon. It means that you will have a good start. Kasi palaki pa lang ang buwan. New moon, new  beginnings hehe...   pero meron din nga kaming na basa something about a full moon.

[Maxim04]

^right sis! Sa mental hospital nag momood swings ang mga pasyente.. Minsan mga doctor din.. Or minsan ordinaryong tao! Lunatic ba! Hahaha. Kasi full moon daw means more gravity lalo sa dagat mapapansin, high tide kapag malaki buwan. Same as sa tao, kasi our body is consist of 70-75% wAter, may epekto raw, something like that, hehe.
Another thing sa pagpili ng araw eh itapat daw sa buwan na "busog". Means 31 days yung month na yun -siksik liglig na pagmamahalan. tee hee!) kasi kapag raw 28 days lang or 30 days lang yung buwan, "bitin dw". Narinig ko lang sa matatanda. Hehe.
Sa chinese naman they love 8. Kung susundin ang mga pamahiin, eto mga nadinig ko sa elderly na "dates to avoid"
2 - kasi paluhod. So these include the dates na 2, 11, 20
4 - malas sa chinese ang 4.  Includes 13, 22, 31
6 - kasi the end stroke is pababa. Includes 15, 24
9- kasi end stroke is pababa, includes 18, 27

Pairalin natin mga sis ang faith VS fear. Tayo naman magdedetermine ng kapalaran natin sa pag aasawa right? Its not based on the moon, the stars, the traditions, something blue and all.. 
Lolo at lola ko kinasal walang buwan, they were married november (30 days lang) , and they arent perfectly compatible sa zodiac - libra (air) at pisces (water) born 15th march & sept 27- numerology wise sablay rin, chinese calendar rooster and dragon. Pero they lasted 3 decades. Hahaha. Alam ko lolo at lola natin.. Noon daw basta niregla na pwde na mag asawa kaysa gahasain ng japanese! tee hee!

Nakwento ko lang! 

[Megantaur]

That is right, it depends on the couple if they'll have a happy marriage or not. Let's not rely too much on superstitious belief but [textspeak!] naman masama kung itry natin mga tradition ng matatanda haha.

My mom also said if my older sibling,  is still single and I am getting married before him/her magbigay daw ako ng gift para [textspeak!] daw sila single forever haha

at eto pa mga nabasa ko haha

"Monday for health
Tuesday for wealth
Wednesday best of all
Thursday for losses
Friday for crosses
Saturday for no luck at all."

again we don't need to believe in this haha, just sharing kasi related sa topic, I know marami nagkakasal ng weekend

[bonzaigirl]

Hahahaha. That last one about being the eldest, I can vouch na hindi yun totoo hehe. Kasi I am the eldest, and yung 2 kapatid ko eh kinasal na both and walang nagbigay ng gift sa akin. hehe. But I am married na. Also, sinuot ko din yung wedding gown ko before my wedding kasi I was mending some things on it. And natuloy naman kasal namin. I was praying to the Lord, sabi ko sa kanya, mas malakas faith ko sa yo, kesa mga pamahiins. hehe

[tinapay]

^i like that sis, faith is more important pero ika nga wala rin namang masama kung susundin ang pamahiin lalo na kung di naman OA.

May nagsabi din pala sakin na bawal hiramin yung cord ng dating kinasal, may ganitong pamahiin ba? How about borrowing the veil, both yung sinusuot ng bride and yung ginagamit sa church? May ganung pamahiin ba?  Gusto ko kasing hiramin veil ng ate ko, need lang i-dry clean.  Di kasi included yun sa gown ko.

[Megantaur]

"A January bride will be a prudent housekeeper, and very good tempered.

A February bride will be an affectionate wife, And a tender mother.

A March bride will be a frivolous chatterbox, Somewhat given to quarreling.

An April bride will be inconsistent, or forceful, But well-meaning.

A May bride will be handsome, agreeable, And practical.

A June bride will be impetuous, And generous.

A July bride will be handsome, But a trifle quick-tempered.

An August bride will be agreeable, And practical as well.

A September bride will be discreet, affable, And much liked.

An October bride will be pretty, coquettish, Loving but jealous.

A November bride will be liberal and kind, But sometimes cold.

A December bride will be fond of novelty, Entertaining but extravagant."

[corpse_bride]

^ haha natawa ako sa July bride! As for me, only pamahin I know of for now is I can't travel once formally engaged. Land travel pwede ata but no planes & boats.