spy kay bf

[jakks]

War kami ni bf ngayon.  It's been a week na hindi kami nag uusap over a petty thing.  Pwede ko naman palagpasin but i'm also taking this time to think if i'm still on the right track.  Paulit ulit nalang kasi sya nagtatampo over small issues tapos gusto susuyuin sya. nakakasawa na.  We already have a plan of living together. In fact our house is under construction right now.  Bago man lang ako gumawa ng next leap sa buhay ko masigurado ko kung tama pa ba itong ginagawa ko.

Now, i also want to understand where his motivation of not talking to me is coming from.  Last year I posted here in gt na he keeps on mentioning this girl from his ofc.  Nawala na yung issue na yun kase he already stopped.  Ewan if he just wants to pacify me.  I have a gut feel na may pinagkakalibangan sya kaya natitiis nya na hindi kami mag usap. 

I have a former ofc mate which is now his staff.  That staff/ former ofc mate doesn't know we're together.  Hindi naman kami nagkukwento ng personal na buhay namin sa ofc.  Hindi din kami close nitong former ofc mate na ito.  Btw, both bf and I are managers so itong balak ko kausapin na former ofc mate is a rank n file.  Tama ba na magtanung ako sa kanya about what my bf is doing sa ofc. kung may kinakalantari ba sya dun    Baka naman maiskandalo o pag tsismisan at makarating sa kanya na pinagtatanung ko sya lalo kami magkagulo.  Normal kasi sa mga staff na pinag uusapan boss nila di ba (galing na ako dun  )  Pero sya lang ang way ko para malaman ang pinag gagagawa ni bf pag nakatalikod ako.  Your opinion on this pls.

[Purple_Power]

If I were you huwag mo nang tanungin yung officemate o staff niya tungkol sa personal na problema. Nakakagulo yan at kahit ano pa sabihin mo madadamay at madadamay siya sa problema niyo. Be considerate sa empleyado niya kasi andyan naman siya para magtrabaho hindi para maging spy mo. Not unless kapag nasisante siya dyan ay willing kang bayaran siya ng milyon. Kung may pagdududa ka bakit hindi na lang ikaw mismo mag-imbistiga kasi marami namang paraan na wala kang dinadamay.

[rochelle1025]

I think deep in your heart, you already know the reason. Ang tanong na lang diyan is if you and your BF are willing to work things out. If natitiis ka niya na di kausapin, unfortunately, I think alam mo na din kung ano ang stand mo sa kanya.

[aquacharly]

If you weren't close before -- how can you just contact her out of the blue to inquire about her new boss?   
She's not likely gonna go into much details. 

All I can say is:  talk to your BF masinsinan.  Iron out your issues before you go further with your construction investment. 

Are you already engaged?  Investing in a house is no joke.

[quinone]

Paulit ulit nalang kasi sya nagtatampo over small issues tapos gusto susuyuin sya.

TS sana hindi kita ma-offend pero for me pang high school itong paguugali na ito. turn off for me ang emo na guy or emotionally high-maintenance na lalaki.

in my opinion, don't use your acquaintance as a spy...er...baka mapansin ka niya at maisip niyang user-friendly ka, i'm sure ayaw mo nun.

[jakks]

 Thank you for all your replies. I won't do it anymore. Mag concentrate na lang ako sa pag iisip ng next step ko with or without him.

Sis aquacharly, i'd like to think that we're enagaged dahil nakalatag na lahat ng plano namin. After ng house magpapakasal kami. Pero walang formality. Walang ring.
Sis quinone, tama ka pambata talaga. Kaya nakakapagod na.