sa naging kabit ng asawa mo - DEADMA or PATOL?

[ayka]

Hello mga sis!

Question:

If your hubby admitted to having an affair WHICH IS NOW OVER, would you talk to the mistress or rather "deadma" na lang...? Even when they're colleagues?

Go! 

[thistimearound]

It depends sis. Kung matagal silang nagkaroon ng relationship, I need to talk to the used to be mistress. I need to know why. Pero kung saglit lang naman, baka hindi na. Pero kung ang dahilan ng paghihiwalay kunyari, may other force na nagpahiwalay sa kanila.. liie for ex may bf pala si kabit, nahuli sila nung bf, then kakausapin ko talaga yung babae kasi it means, di siya tinamaan ng kahit konting hiya or takot... kaya lang sila nag end kasI nabisto. Gets?

[aquacharly]

They're colleagues --  Deadmahin ko.
I don't like tacky people or tawdry topics. Baduy, IMO.  So, I will ignore her to death.

BUT if that colleague tries to rub it in, or tries to do a rerun --  eh, L1ntek lang walang ganti says my darling  Lola.
Effing b1tches should have sufficient prudence to know their place. 

[Girltalker2]

Deadma

But demand hubby to find another work kung talagang wala na.

[princessrio]

dedma..

[ayami]

Dahil kilala ko sarili ko, sigurado di ko de-deadmahin kasi palaaway ako by nature. Feeling ko mag mega react pa rin ako kahit tapos na Lalo na kung everyday niya makikita? Ugh pipilitin ko magresign yung asawa ko lol.

[glamorosa_09]

If I will be in that hypothetical situation, I will DEMAND the hypothetical husband to resign.

The real me won't be contented with deadma nor would I lower myself into making patol. What I want to do is wipe out that girl's existence in our lives.

[ayka]

BUT if that colleague tries to rub it in, or tries to do a rerun --  eh, L1ntek lang walang ganti says my darling  Lola.
Effing b1tches should have sufficient prudence to know their place. 

^ ahluvet!

If I will be in that hypothetical situation, I will DEMAND the hypothetical husband to resign.

The real me won't be contented with deadma nor would I lower myself into making patol. What I want to do is wipe out that girl's existence in our lives.

^it happened to my cousin. now she's worried na kasi baka maulit. though her husband insisted it's over na daw talaga and not to bring the topic up anymore.

[jiji_06]

Deadma nalang sis.

[coco_bunny]

syempre ako patol - baka akala ng hitad ok lang yung ginawa nya and pwede nya ipagpatuloy anytime trip nya. at para alam ni girl na alam mo akala nya kasi kung deadma nakalusot na sya...

[AnJelatine]

If I will be in that hypothetical situation, I will DEMAND the hypothetical husband to resign.

The real me won't be contented with deadma nor would I lower myself into making patol. What I want to do is wipe out that girl's existence in our lives.

I AGREE, to the highest level!

[lovely_carrot]

Kung hindi naman tinatawag ng sitwasyon, deadma. Baka kasi hindi ko din mapigilan yung sarili ko eh mapatulan ko pa si kabit, mabibigyan ko pa sya ng kasiyahan na makita kung ano ang effect ng relasyon nila sa akin. kung halimbawang mapadaan ako sa office nila at makita ko sya dun, wag na nya subukan maging friendly pa at talagang i'll give her a piece of my mind.

try to talk to your husband, he of all people should be understanding of your feelings. if he can relocate to another branch or change jobs baka mas maigi yun.

[snowflakes]

para sakin ke tapos or hinde yun, ginago pa rin nila ko. kaya lintek lang ang walang ganti! tingin nya sa pag amin nya na tapos na eh absuwelto na sha??? mukha nila!

[fheury28]

i'll befriend her, haha, kunyari lang na friendly, ako na ang plastic  pero sabi nga nila diba, keep your enemies close, kasi mamaya nyan, maulit di ba, naku naku!

[aspen11]

If ever mangyari sa akin yan, patol! Kasi naman may mga anak na kami so hindi pwede sakin na manahimik lang.

Kahit "tapos" na sila, hindi rin ako papayag na sa parehong company pa din sila magwowork for my own peace of mind.

[mamaneng]

Hindi ko kaya deadmahin lang. Gusto ko aware ang makating babae na yun na alam ko ang naging affair nila. Kaya sinend ko mga intimate photos nila ng husband ko sa parents, friends and relatives ng itchyworm na yun.

At alam ko affected sya dahil nagtext sya sa husband ko and sabi bakit daw hinayaan ng husband ko na makita mga photos nila and bat daw sinend ko pa sa family nya...

Hindi ko alam kung tama ginawa ko pero I don't regret it.

[gepayat]

If mangyari sakin yan (huwag naman sana) patatawarin ko si hubby pero ireremind ko sya na if ulitin nya na magkaron ng kabit gegerahin ko sya.. Doon naman sa naging kabit, deadma pero kapag nanggulo syempre papatulan ko.

[Janelc]

I would do both patol muna.. I tried to call her using hubby's cell kaso lang di ko alam number niya yung access phone number lang long distance company and nag aapear then naka save number ni kabitch sa system I called a few time pero di nya sinasagot. I just want to gloat how cheap she is and so disperate na pumatol sa may edad na and worst nagpabuntis pa hoping maiahon siya sa hirap and her family kaso yun nga di naman sinasagot.  Dedma na sana after ko masabi lahat yun kasi I know hubby will never divorce me in fact I threatened to divorce him but pleaded and was so sorry about cheating.