GF ni EX

[joeygirly]

"May GF na siya ate!!" bungad ng kapatid ko sakin paggising ko kahapon.

She was pertaining to my ex na hiniwalayan ko 2 years ago because of my present boyfriend.
I looked at the picture and I saw na sobrang saya ni ex, nakanganga pa! wacky smile habang naka yakap sa “new girl”
At first happiness talaga naramdaman ko para sakanya, I know sobrang dinurog ko puso niya, ako pa naman first love niya. Pero lately parang lagi ko silang naiisip, happy for him but not totally SO happy..Is this normal?    I know di ko na siya mahal talaga, di ko siya babalikan,di ako nagseselos, insecure ba ko okay new girl? IDK..

[rachi_01]

i had the same experience with my ex's but i don't wanna be with them anymore though. perhaps may insecurity siguro talaga... hindi naman siguro talaga mawawala yun iccompare mo sarili mo sa mga present nila kasi ako mismo hindi ko rin maiwasan maicompare present ko sa ex ko but not to the extent that he would be offended already. siguro sa mind lang ganun. just let it pass... it's a learning experience. unless you still feel something for him.

[tomatostellar]

^^ I think it's just ego, doesnt mean you still feel something for your ex, or insecure ka

[joeygirly]

i think ego ko nga. dati kasi ikaw lang apple of the eye, ngayon may iba na.
pero i'm really happy for him

[sunako16]

hmm na iinsecure ka lang talaga sis.. kasi nai cocompare mo yung hitsura ng girl at iniisip mo kung ano yung magagandang ugali ni girl na naka hook sa ex mo.. kaya siya sobrang saya.. ingat ka na lang din sis kasi baka mamaya mapunta yan sa pag regret.. pero tingin ko naman hindi..

[aquacharly]

You dumped him, in a hurtful way? -- 2 years ago.
IMO, what you're feeling now is an ego prick.
Subconsciously, you put yourself on a pedestal with regards to your ex.
The longer he got a new GF -- the more smug you felt about yourself --  that you were the biggest deal he had/would have.

Wish them well, wish them happiness.  Don't waste time growing "feelings" in relation to that relationship -- total waste of time & energy on your part.
Act the Big Girl you are:  control and throw away useless thoughts & feelings.