Seeing your ex again

[queenteaser]

BIG NO. hindi ko kaya. yan lang pinagdadasal ko. wag na kami magkita EVER.

[froggy21]

Hindi ba pwedeng maging friend ulit si ex Kung dati mo siya ng friend? He recently broke up with me, we're office mate, kaya araw araw kaming magkikita, hindi nyo ba pwedeng gawin [textspeak!] dati ninyo ng ginagawa ng friends pa kayo? I admit, I still love him, but I am trying to move on.

[simang]

^hindi pwede, on my personal standard. haha

but then again, it's you who will decide on that matter

[froggy21]

Hindi ko alam kasi Kung paano ko siya maiiwasan..Kung kaya ko ba gawin iyon..sabi niya Balik na lang kami sa dati Nung friends pa kami, mas masaya daw. But I'm still hurting.

[Filipinasadhart]

ex ko pinipilit ako magkita kame marami ako dahilan na sinasabi sa kanya busy ako may event ako pupuntahan etc.  kase for me hindi na namin need magkita pa lalo na kung may dalawa sya anak sa ibang babae. Tama na yun nagkabati kame at nagkapatawaran sa mga nangyari noon.

kahit anong pilit nya "i say NO".

Close friends kame before at kahit now friends na ulit kame hanggang dun na lang yun. May LIMIT na ang pagkakaibigan namin.  Hi and Hello na lang then goodbye.

[jan888]

^agree with you.. better keep a distance

[amethyst028]

i opened this topic before kasi hindi ako matahimik. lagi ko siya iniisip and hindi ako mapakali i feel the need to talk to him and mag sorry man lang for hurting him.

im glad nagkita kame ulit. although hindi na pwede maging kame i don't have any regrets. im thankful kinita ko siya and nasabi ko lahat ng kailangan ko sabihin.

by the time we parted ways for good wala na akong what if's. na satisfy na ang curiosity ko and hindi ko na siya naiisip and alam ko na rin na hindi talaga kame para sa isa't isa. madaming questons na nasagot and i was able to close that chapter and move on na maluwag sa puso ko. isa na lang siyang part ng past and thats where he will remain. in the past.

[queenteaser]

Relate!! I received an email from him. Asking if he can see me. Hindi ko alam kung matutuwa ako dahil nagparamdam sya and knowing that he wanted to see me. Pero nalungkot din ako. Mixed emotions e. But then, I said NO. Because I will never be ready to see him it is as if sya ang weakness ko.

[Juvilyn5]

BIG NO. hindi ko kaya. yan lang pinagdadasal ko. wag na kami magkita EVER.

Same here sis haha to think na same school lang kami sana talaga hindi kami magkita haay

[lovely_carrot]

Not yet muna sana, I'm still not okay, galit pa ko sa kanya. If we see each other again, I might end up saying or doing things that I will regret later.

As much as possible I want to maintain the respect I have for him at syempre may pinagsamahan kami.  Although I'm not wishing na maging friends kami, ayoko din naman na maging "kaaway" ko sya.

[melle17]

i'd be very happy to see my ex, the pathetic father of my son. since he left us nung 2011 di pa nagpakita saken ang magaling na lalakeng yun... just one punch and i'll be OK..

isang sapak lang talaga marelease ko lang lahat ng galit ko and then we'll talk about annulment na...

[nixiquita]

its ok. but im wishing and praying na di na kami magkita pa. what for? hehe

[happie]

I will probably just ignore my ex. An ex is an ex, past na, for a reason

[cosm!c_ch!c]

i dont care anymore. im happily married. sa sobrang di ko na sya naiisip, nakita ko sya one time after 4 years, napatitig ako. sabi ko sa sarili ko parang familiar sya. grabe antagal nagsink in sakin, ex ko nga pla yu  mokong na yun. hahaha

[iamlili]

Last time nakita ko si ex. It was funny kasi hindi ko na matandaan hitsura nya. Sabi ko he looks like H, yun pala sya nga. Nakita nya ako, major iwas naman ang loko. As if I'm going to approach him and say hi! Haha!

[jojo2978]

In my case, we started as friends. If the relationship failed to work, I don't see any reason na iwasan even if either or both of you ay nasaktan. I'm happy to see her again and the affirmation that though we didn't end up together, we are still wishing the best for each other.

So dear friend, you will always have my prayer and support in your endeavors in life.  Goodluck and God bless on your upcoming wedding.

[telekikay]

Seeing your ex again - why would you want to do that?

[tisaygirl123]

Hwag na. just for the sake of both peace of mind..

I'd rather not to see him 
kung closure, end it with a go or let go. 

[magno4]

  kung may nararamdaman naman kayo sa isat isa at nag kakahiyaan lang kayo dahil sa pride, then siguro best move para mag kalapit ulet kayo even kung both of you has already a present relationship siguro maging discreet nalang relationship nyo pag ganun..it does happened to me.

[shayne_12]

After 10 long years nagkita kami ng ex boyfriend ko. He was in Canada and ako dito sa pinas. Umuwi siya with his girlfriend. Tapos nakipagkita si ex-boyfriend sakin. Okay naman kami, we were good friends I guess. Super bitin lang yung oras na magkasama kami, dami ko kwento sa kanya. I'm not sure kung may feelings pa siya sakin kasi super lambing pa rin as if na walang girlfriend. Ako naman dedma na ako, wala na ako feelings for him. Pero kung pagbibigyan ako ng chance kung sino ang pwede kong balikan, siya pa rin..