Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[redhead69]

Inask niyo* soua fpr dinner ng di alam ng gf niyo?*

Sorry for typo =))

[graezieylicious]

Pag ba ang guy na may gf nag invite sa girl na nakita niya lang sa isang social site na puro sexy pictures without the face (with bigboobs) and u asked her for dinner ano meaning non? Inask ko siya for dinner ng di alam ng gf niyo? Please paki explain po

Pag ba ang guy na may gf nag invite sa girl na nakita niya lang sa isang social site na puro sexy pictures without the face (with bigboobs) and u asked her for dinner ano meaning non? Inask ko siya for dinner ng di alam ng gf niyo? Please paki explain po

He just want to jump right into the sack with the girl. No more no less.

[redhead69]

^ how to deal with that kind of guy? Mahal pa rin ba niya si gf niya kahit ginagawa niya yun?(kahit first gf niya yung gf niya that time?)

[mrgrey]

He thinks you're a free meal. Doesn't matter kung mahal pa nya gf nya or not. Thinking of dating him knowing he has a gf means it doesn't matter to you to and he knows it.

[redhead69]

^ actually im the gf. Not the girl he's asking out for dinner. He's actually my ex not. Umalis na ko sa situation before i get badly hurt from it.

[redhead69]

na* instead of not autocorrect sorry.

[mrgrey]

good for you.

from my experience, second chances is a bad idea 

[redhead69]

Its good na im already on my own. But its not good that he wanted to date more girls during our relationship(the time we're still together)

that "free meal" girl knows that me and my ex we're together but she dont give a fck and accepted the invitation.

does my ex really love me? he said he made mistakes and he's sorry about it. and now he's doing efforts and want me back. Im confuse.Is this real? or he just need something from me?

[quiet_angel18]

Anong tumatakbo sa isip nyo kapag nakipagbreak kayo sa gf nyo?(after break up)

Pareho lang ba namin mga girls, eg. umiiyak din ba kayo, sinasarili ang emotions, sinasabi sa friends/ family, etc

[mrgrey]

Redhead i dont know your ex so what im going to say is just generally speaking.

Another type of free meal is what we call "ex"

Quiet angel...based on my own experience sinasarili ko ang pain. I let my friends know na ok lang para iwas asaran pero syempre masakit deep inside

[redhead69]

Redhead i dont know your ex so what im going to say is just generally speaking.

Another type of free meal is what we call "ex"

So you mean im a "free meal" and he took advantage of me? Di yung girl na gusto niya makasex pero pinipili pa rin niya ko? Whats ur point mrgrey na free meal ang ex?

[jan888]

^i think mrgrey meant free meal ka din (being an ex) if you allowed/entertained your ex back.. ^^^^your ex 'may' just want something from you..   

[jtansanco]

redhead - Parang yan yung tipong nakikita sa movie ah. "I made a mistake, I want you back and promise never to do it again." He's doing that kasi nahuli siya. If you give him another chance, he'll just be careful the next time. If he was dating other girls besides you even though you're in a relationship, that means he isn't contented with you. If you do regular sex and he did that, then that means sex lang talaga habol sayo. Anyway, I don't know the guy but if you do give him a chance because you do LOVe him, dare him not to engage in any sexual activities with you for 6 months to a year. Test his loyalty. If not, enjoy being single and meet new people. Don't be the girl who needs a guy. In short, don't be dependent. 

[redhead69]

@jan888 : talaga.. Well. Thank you talaga sa mga reply niyo about sa situation ko i really appreciate it. thanka for clearing things out.

@jtansanco : My ex told me na he was hurt and so angry. Then break daw din kasi kami that time which is 2days-1 week palang kami break. pero narealize niya na di niya ko kayang iwan at mahal daw niya ko. Di ko alam that he's doing that pala ng may tumawag na girl sakanya habang magkasama kami dun nalaman. Na girl ang tumawag and then nagppretend pa siyang di niya kilala. then after that what i did i opened his viber and check the picture of the girl. Then i asked him if kilala niya sabi niya hindi. Then i texted the girl na "sorry nagppretend ako na di kita kilala andito kasi parents ko.Nikki right? where did u get my number pala" then she replied na "i got ur number at tumblr,hehe okay lang" so after that i asked my ex to open his tumblr then nagpretend siya n di niya alam. i told him na "okay rreset ko na lang pass mo sa tumblr." then bumulong na "ang dami dami ko pang pprogram" then gulat ako biglang marami gagawin e sabi naman niya sakin na okay lang na magstay pa siya ng matagal sa bahay. So i asked him for the last time "ano pass mo sa yahoomail?" then he said "Di ba ikaw nagpalit!" ng may tono na. so in the end i let him go home.Then when he's gone.nreset pass ko yahoo niya pero nireset niya ulit. Then umiiyak na ko. that time im so desperate malaman nangyayari. so i opened his tumblr url. Last post niya is Aug.Pero bago siya umuwi he told me this things"if mambababae ako may apps na pwede ihide messages bakit di ko ginawa un?tyaka di na ko ttumblr last july pa" So aun dun ko siya nahuli. inamin niya din sa akin nung pinuntahan ko siya sa kanila. *Sorry for the long story* yan lang kung pano ko siya nahuli.

[mrgrey]

I hate to tell you this but ang lalake mahirap magbago sa isang relationship na pare-pareho lang ang factors. I mean, i was babaero when i was with my ex but im very loyal with my current gf. There is a saying na If you keep doing what you are doing then dont expect a change, expect the same results. I never met or dont know any guy na nagbago para sa same girl unless merong big change na nangyari like nabuntis si girl, naghiwalay sila for 2 yrs nagkaron sila ng other relationship pareho bago nagbalikan...etc.

Im not saying you are a free meal. Im saying that all exes are free meal. It's like an eternal pass to each others pants.

[jtansanco]

^^ Ang obvious naman niya.. Haha joke. Anyway, a guy won't change that fast. If he wants you back, he'll keep pursuing you no matter how long it will take. You have the upper hand right now. Use it to your advantage by letting him chase. Let's see if he's sincerely sorry for what he did or he just doesn't want to lose his free meal.

[minatay91]

This goes to any guy who's currently monitoring the thread.

Have you ever cheated on your ex/current gf/wife? What led you to doing so?
Are you still doing it now? What for?

Sexual/Emotional/Virtual, if you're not sure what I meant by cheating, if it falls under my description
below,

"Think about what you're doing. If your loved one finds out, will she get hurt?" if yes, cheating.

[redhead69]

@mrgrey : i see. What am i suppose to do if he's doing everything for us to be back again? is this real? or he just want to continue our relationship but like what u said he will be careful now. To be honest, hirap na ko pagkagtiwalaan siya ulit. He's commiting suicide.

@jtansanco : there's a part of me keeps on telling me " wtf man, stop entertaining that kind of person. Just focus on ur dreams family and friends enjoy what you have. remember a smart and independent girl is totally worth fighting for in any man" and there's a part of me keeps on saying "why wont you give him a chance. He only just did that once and he was just angry and hurt that time.."

pero ngayon nangingbabaw na parang sobra akong mahuhurt if tutuloy ko pa yun.

[redhead69]

@mrgrey : i see. What am i suppose to do if he's doing everything for us to be back again? is this real? or he just want to continue our relationship but like what u said he will be careful now. To be honest, hirap na ko pagkagtiwalaan siya ulit. He's commiting suicide.

@jtansanco : there's a part of me keeps on telling me " wtf man, stop entertaining that kind of person. Just focus on ur dreams family and friends enjoy what you have. remember a smart and independent girl is totally worth fighting for in any man" and there's a part of me keeps on saying "why wont you give him a chance. He only just did that once and he was just angry and hurt that time.."

pero ngayon nangingbabaw na parang sobra akong mahuhurt if tutuloy ko pa yun.

[mrgrey]

Thats emotional blackmail. If you really wanna help him, you should either report him to the police or a psychiatric clinic or both. Studies shows that those who says they will commit suicide doesnt really do it but just blackmailing you and those few who does, killed their partners first before commiting suicide. Are you going to take that chance?

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