Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[x-y]

^It's a case to case basis sis. I've learned that we also need to know where the guys are coming from. Girls (including me) are mostly self-centered. We rant too much that guys are like this and like that but sometimes we fail to see that they are also humans who must have undergone "pain and sufferings" from the past which made them that way. But then that is not an excuse to play with our feelings. I still believe that girls should be treated like princesses. Hihi. We should just be understanding princesses. (Though please guys, don't abuse.)

Tama yan, compromise. Both should be able to give and take.

[anon]

I agree with you on that one, x-y. At the end of the day, every woman deserves respect from every guy.

Since Red started it, I just would like to post my all-time favorite poem by pareng Max:


Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be critical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy.

[cutesimplegirl]

^ Nice poem Favorite ko din ang Desiderata Thanks for Posting

Guys paano ba malalaman pag dumadamoves na kayo or nagpapakita na ng sign na gusto niyo yung girl? Thanks

[Respect]

^ sobrang pa-pansin sa girl at pa bibo..

[zrsqhc]

Okay, so there is this guy at work who I kind of like. I never showed him or gave him a hint that I do, I just act natural and treat him in the same way that I treat our other officemates.

He's like this to me [at pag sinabi kong TO ME, sakin lang talaga].. He always teases me but not in an offensive manner. Probably he's just trying to make me laugh. Basta gusto nya raw akong naiinis. -_- Hmmm he always pokes me [in my underarm which I super hate], he always stares [or probably looks] at me, he does me favors, asks stupid questions [well, not really stupid.], always looks out for me [like one time, he was like, "Stop doing that [was writing the minutes of the meeting], our boss might see you."] and all that. When he talks to me from afar and I ignore him, he still keeps on talking to me [and yes, I still ignore him]. But he's offered someone else his jacket, and I was so pissed off.. Jealous, I mean.

Minsan sa office pag hindi ko sya pinapansin, bigla nya kong haharangin. There was this one time na in-ignore ko sya for almost 2 days (kasi hindi ko lang talaga sya feel pansinin). Nung third day of work, bigla nya kong hinarang with his chair while he was sitting on it, he grabbed my hands and pulled me closer. Tapos pinaglaruan nya lang yung kamay ko while I was talking to my supervisor.

Tapos there was this one time sa pantry naman. Kinukulit nya ko. Naghahabulan kami sa pantry, and when he almost got me, he said, "Kuya kuya ka pa jan. Pasalamat ka...." Hindi nya na tinapos. Anong ibig sabihin nung sinabi nyang yun?

Pero wag ka never syang tumabi sakin ng station. -_____________-

I don't really know what it is that's running on his mind. I am getting confused. -__________-

Any ideas??

[KittiEKittiE]

^ Obviously he wants your attention. Masyado siyang papansin. If I were you, I won't stress out too much kung ano tumatakbo sa isip niya unless i-confront ka nya at umamin sya ng kung ano man nararamdaman niya.

[Pink_Sugar]

^^anong edad nya sis? Parang immature? Lol

[blackgreen]

Guys, question naman. I just want to know point of view ng lalake regarding sa pagiinform ng mga lakad, etc. Mahirap ba for guys yun nagsasabi ng mga lakad sa gf? Like kung aalis kayo with others. Girls lang ba ang mahilig maginform ng mga ganyan.

[graezieylicious]

^Let him be lang girl, as long as he won't date another woman or cheat on you. After all, you are not his mother.

[Chinito]

Guys, question naman. I just want to know point of view ng lalake regarding sa pagiinform ng mga lakad, etc. Mahirap ba for guys yun nagsasabi ng mga lakad sa gf? Like kung aalis kayo with others. Girls lang ba ang mahilig maginform ng mga ganyan.

Hindi naman mahirap mag inform.. pero nagiging mahirap kung madami pang tanong and sometimes could lead to an endless discussion.. there could be reasons kung bakit hindi or ayaw nang mag inform ng guy. minsan tiwala na lang ang kailangan sa mga ganyang sitwasyon. communication is still the key.

[budzwhiz]

I don't really know what it is that's running on his mind. I am getting confused. -__________-

Any ideas??

He has the hots for you. Pero don't take it too seriously nalang. Sakyan mo sa trip nya, just don't fall. Haha. Guys like that are the playful type.

[zrsqhc]

Pink_Sugar Sis mid-30s. And early 20s ako. Hahaha

KittiEKittiE Haha hindi naman sa nagpapaka-stressed out ako sa pag-iisip sa kung anong tumatakbo sa isip nya, I just find it a little confusing hahaha xD

Budwhiz, bet ko lang sya wahaha xD

Gusto ko lang talagang malaman kung bakit sya ganun. Hehe

And tingin nyo anong ibig sabihin nung sinabi nyang, "Kuya kuya ka pa jan. Pasalamat ka..."

[graezieylicious]

@cecily, that is so simple sis, 3 letters---SEX!!!

[minatay91]

**As in 'yun lang ang reason graezy?

[mrgrey]

hindi ko ma-gets. mag-iinvite na magtravel kasama ako, tapos ayaw niya malaman ng tao sa school na magkasama kami dalawa. eh kung kinakahiya niya ako at ayaw niya sa akin sana iba na lang inivite nia. guys, anong possible reason behind this?

He is also into another girl....lame moves

[graezieylicious]

**As in 'yun lang ang reason graezy?

mr grey is also right, maybe may ibang dinidiskartehan, i can't feel the sincerity kasi. Obviously, it is just SEX honey.

[graezieylicious]

why ouch? do you like the guy?

[jan888]

^^^smart move sis especially the 'goodbye' part

[mrgrey]

not really. but i don't like being used or treated just like that.

goodluck. my impression is you like him but you want a relationship. the guy obviously doesnt want it right now.....sorry, just being honest 

[redhead69]

Pag ba ang guy na may gf nag invite sa girl na nakita niya lang sa isang social site na puro sexy pictures without the face (with bigboobs) and u asked her for dinner ano meaning non? Inask ko siya for dinner ng di alam ng gf niyo? Please paki explain po