Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[sacred cow]

guys dont complain about makeup as long as it's nicely done.

yup, compromise siguro yung "no makeup" look para everybody happy

guys wouldn't know better kung magaling talaga pagkaka-apply, unless he's a fairy

on second thought, some girls 'di rin pala bagay ng "no makeup" look and should just stick to wearing make up..see kryz uy's pic below (ano ba 'yan, kakasabi ko pa lang na I'd be nicer na...wahahaha)

http://www.kryzuy.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/KryzUy.com-Bad-Gal-8.jpg

[minatay91]

^ or probably gay. hehe

As they say, the best makeup is the one that doesn't look like makeup. The hardest makeup
kase is yung mga natural-look, "no-makeup" makeup look, but hardest to emulate.

[sacred cow]

^ fairy = gay

[KittiEKittiE]

Have to agree with minatay91, makeup should not actually wear you. But may mga girls na bagay sa kanila yung heavy makeup, and may mga girls na bagay lang ang light make up. Before naiinggit ako sa mga girls na ang gagaling magapply ng makeup yung full make up, like its so perfect at pinagtitinginan talaga sila ng guys. Tried doing it kaso di bagay sa akin.

And share ko lang I had a date before, natanong nya lang na kung nagme-makeup ba ko sabi ko oo naman, then he said "talaga? hindi halata pero okay nga yan, you look pretty and mas ok sa girls yung hindi mukhang nakamakeup" at first I thought maooffend ako kasi I was thinking I was lacking skills sa pagapply ng makeup, but it was a compliment pala.

Pero the best pa rin ang confidence and being positive. Mas maraming maattract na guys sayo if you have a positive attitude

[anon]

@kittie - i totally agree with your last paragraph. Makeup catches guys' attention, but what keeps the attention going is what lies beneath the powders, creams, etc. For me, what is between the ears is more interesting than what are applied on the face

[sacred cow]

For me, what is between the ears is more interesting than what are applied on the face

spot on

[entwife]

For me, what is between the ears is more interesting than what are applied on the face

I heard some who claimed that but would end up talking more than listening. Is it because that guy is so much into himself that he'd rather do the talking or he got bored with the girl and just dont want to listen anymore?

[anon]

^ if its makeup with girls, i guess its getup with guys. Eh kung wala rin naman laman in between a guy's ears, a girl of substance will find him a bore eventually. Thats why some guys study pickup artistry to hook a girl up.

[carmilina]

I don't wear make up that much, pero I don't like to judge naman girls who wear them frequently...

^^But I am agreeing that brain still matters... like baliktarin natin. Would you prefer a guy who has abs but has a brain like a pea? of course not! napaka walang sense na yun

[minatay91]

Eh kung wala rin naman laman in between a guy's ears, a girl of substance will find him a bore eventually.

Would you prefer a guy who has abs but has a brain like a pea?

depends on your intentions. long term, no, unless one can withstand the pea-ness of his brain
but if as arm candy, why not? it's not like it's written on his face na he's a peabrain. mas attractive kase,
pero the spark dies and bores you haha

[Pink_Sugar]

If a guy chats with you almost 8 hours and walang patid, does it means may gusto sya sayo? Lol

[jan888]

^he finds you interesting that's for sure! 

[Pink_Sugar]

^wow kaso im taken na. Hahaha pero he knows naman and he respects naman di nya ako nabastos sa 8 hour chat namin. :-) and im older than him for like 4 years.

[sacred cow]

kunwari mahilig kayo sa kotse, kkwentuhan nyo ba sa babaeng gusto nyo mga tungkol sa kotse kahit alam nyo naman na wala siyang kaalam alam kahit konti tungkol dun?

yup, siyempre gusto rin naming magshare ng info tungkol sa interests namin. pwedeng nagpapaimpress din lang si guy tungkol sa knowledge niya about cars
or he's just really passionate about cars kaya gusto niya itong pag-usapan. kahit naman kayong mga babae may mga shine share din namang mga bagay
na wala rin kaming kaalam alam pero pinagtiyatiyagaan din naman naming pakinggan.

what if hindi nya masundan yun  mga sinasabi mo, mawawalan ba kayo ng interest sa kanya?

it's not a dealbreaker

[Girltalker2]

If your BF says - if our relationship does not work out, wala nakong ibang iibigin muli. siguro fling fling lang.

kapag nagsalita ng ganyan ang guy -

1) nambobola?  (mahirap maniwala kasi)

2) totoo naman, pero ngayon lang iyan kasi kayo pa. kung hindi na kayo, mahirap naman mabuhay ng walang partner.

[anon]

3)  both

Kasi nga kung bolero, its #1

Kung sincere naman, its #2 (at baka pwede pa magbalikan in the future)

unless he'll enter the monastery and become a monk!

[entwife]

Only time will tell. Fate, destiny, circumstance. So it's number 2.

[sacred cow]

If your BF says - if our relationship does not work out, wala nakong ibang iibigin muli. siguro fling fling lang.

kapag nagsalita ng ganyan ang guy -

1) nambobola?  (mahirap maniwala kasi)

2) totoo naman, pero ngayon lang iyan kasi kayo pa. kung hindi na kayo, mahirap naman mabuhay ng walang partner.

2, pero binobola ka pa rin

[minatay91]

'wag magpadala sa salestalk Girltalker
hindi siya umibig unless he finds a replacement
=3

sabihin mo daw na, "kaya nga let's make our relationship work, because
I'd hate to see you having a loveless, meaningless life with your flings"

[Red Rack 21]

Hi guytalkers! This is  what Oprah Winfrey had to say about men. Agree or disagree?



If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts..

By: Oprah Winfrey