Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[anon]

@ x-y: playing kasi denotes a zero-sum game where there's a winner and a loser. Its male mentality kaya nga we hear sports terms like naka "score", "first base", etc. I guess it boils down kung ano talaga yung motive ng lalake when he makes the move. One of the hardest players to spot is the one who believes in his own lies. Usually, time will tell. About courtship before or during a serious relationship naman, ako im partial to friendship muna

[minatay91]

@ minatay91 -- define good?

maginoong matinong lalake. Hopefully with good morals and breeding. Pwede gawing maid sa bahay, alam maglinis ng banyo, magluto, maglaba Preferably not a bum leeching off the 'rents If pwede, grew out of the stage sa bisyo, pagkabarkadista, pang.chicks, at pagka walang future ++ points if presentable

even scumbags go to church.

bwahaaha this line reminds me of a song in our local dialect.

"Not all those who are good go to church. Not all those who go to church are good. "

LOL I think I see what you did there, you're going to where women are going to look for men "places to meet men" para ikaw lang ang lalake, correct? Kase most men would look for "where to meet women" then all guys just meet each other there well played. haha

ahahahah I think I need to enroll sa gym hahaha *see above, although my expectations naman are set na those aren't really found anywhere specific. haha. And I don't think I'd be confident to talk to a guy when I feel disgusting in my sweat 

Sama na tayo girls hanap ng matinong lalake. haha. Actually, hanap na tayo ng pangit at magpractice tayo umibig ng tunay. Lesser chances pa mangchicks at lesser mang.aagaw rin lol
Lesser stress at kapag you're next to a pangit guy, you look so pretty and beautiful next to him bwahaha

[ForeverDreamer]

Sama na tayo girls hanap ng matinong lalake. haha. Actually, hanap na tayo ng pangit at magpractice tayo umibig ng tunay. Lesser chances pa mangchicks at lesser mang.aagaw rin lol
Lesser stress at kapag you're next to a pangit guy, you look so pretty and beautiful next to him bwahaha

di rin sis,madami din kasi pangit na babaero.dinadaan lang sa diskarte ,
pakapalan at palakasan lang ng loob.

[minatay91]

^ oo nga, kaya I said "lesser chances" kase kahit ngayon ang kapal ng mukha ng pangit.
You know na, yung swag para lang sa lalake na kulang sa gwapo hahaha

[young_maiden]

One of the boys si girl. Mas madami siya friends na lalaki kaysa babae. Paano siya maaalis sa friendzone at maisip ng mga boys na "ah, gf-material din pala siya"? Thanks.

[x-y]

@ x-y: playing kasi denotes a zero-sum game where there's a winner and a loser. Its male mentality kaya nga we hear sports terms like naka "score", "first base", etc. I guess it boils down kung ano talaga yung motive ng lalake when he makes the move. One of the hardest players to spot is the one who believes in his own lies. Usually, time will tell. About courtship before or during a serious relationship naman, ako im partial to friendship muna

Yun na nga eh. Time will tell diba... Pero kawawa naman si girl na aasa that this guys is "different" from others. Yun pala, he's of the same breed.

Thanks for the honest opinion, anon =)

Sama na tayo girls hanap ng matinong lalake. haha. Actually, hanap na tayo ng pangit at magpractice tayo umibig ng tunay. Lesser chances pa mangchicks at lesser mang.aagaw rin lol
Lesser stress at kapag you're next to a pangit guy, you look so pretty and beautiful next to him bwahaha

di rin sis,madami din kasi pangit na babaero.dinadaan lang sa diskarte ,
pakapalan at palakasan lang ng loob.

Sis minsan, maslakas pa loob ng mga not so good looking na mambabae! HAHAHA

[Perfume_Lover]

I see thanks sa nagreply about flirt chu chu

[ForeverDreamer]

^ oo nga, kaya I said "lesser chances" kase kahit ngayon ang kapal ng mukha ng pangit.
You know na, yung swag para lang sa lalake na kulang sa gwapo hahaha

haha!sis yung mga pangit ko kasing mga kilala,sila pa yung kaliwa't kanan ang babae.
natatawa na nga lang ako.siguro kasi para sabihin pogi naman kahit pano,dami dami pumatol.LOLs

[sacred cow]

One of the boys si girl. Mas madami siya friends na lalaki kaysa babae. Paano siya maaalis sa friendzone at maisip ng mga boys na "ah, gf-material din pala siya"? Thanks.

yung target mo ba isa dun sa mga boys na tropa mo?

if yes, wag muna siya magparamdam/sumama for some time dun sa guys preferably for 6 mos. or more, magmake over siya then re-initiate contact.
rationale behind kasi is that they're too used to seeing you as a "tropa" lalo na't lagi mo silang kasama. kapag hindi ka nila nakita after a certain amount of time
there is a possibility na ma-reset yung image nila sa'yo from one of the boys to a "chick" Maganda siguro kung maging mas feminine ka rin at change something about yourself (as long as pang self improvement) na talagang
mapupuna nila. This is not a sure ball method na magustuhan ka nila, but it would increase your odds of being noticed by other guys as well...malay mo may mameet kang
new guy at makalimutan mo na yung guy friend na gusto mong magustuhan ka.

[sacred cow]

Yun na nga eh. Time will tell diba... Pero kawawa naman si girl na aasa that this guys is "different" from others. Yun pala, he's of the same breed.

Guys rin naman take a risk with each girl na didiskartehan niya...so I guess tabla lang.

Sis minsan, maslakas pa loob ng mga not so good looking na mambabae! HAHAHA

Sa amin namang guys pansin namin...mas malakas pa mangreject mga not so good looking girls (kunwari makikipagkilala pa lang/unang interaction). As in matatawa ka na lang pagkatapos kasi
alam mo talagang it's really her loss especially if posibleng ikaw lang ang lalakeng (hindi niya kakilala) na kumausap sakanya the whole day
 
hot/pretty girls are usually nice and approachable...siguro kasi nice din sa kanila ang mundo at mga tao.

[sacred cow]

Mga kuya, Pag mahal nyo ba mahal nyo? As in gAgawin nyo lahat para mapasainyo si girl? O kelangan muna makakuha kayo ng assurance na gusto kayo ni girl?  So kung hindi atras na din? Yung ex kasi ng friend ko finiflirt sya uli pero may gf na.. Tskk.. E ang mentality naming girls, either mahal ka lang o hindi.. Dapat di na nagaantay ng positive feedback from girl diba? O sadyang malandi lang ex nya kahit may gf na, ta-try pa din baka pumatol pa si friend ko?

gagawin lahat up to a certain extent, self respect should always come first. kung magbeg ka..e di lalo lang na naturn off at nawalan ng respeto sa'yo yung babae at
lalo mo lang binaril sa paa sarili mo. kelangan siyempre makakita ka rin ng indicators of interest from the girl, lest all your efforts will be for naught.
There's no such thing as "this one special girl" so guys should learn not to put girls on a pedestal. kahit gaano mo kamahal yung babae, kung wala siyang nararamdaman para sa'yo wala kang magagawa. sa movies lang yun , pocketbooks or really rare instances wherein the guy gets the girl through sheer effort
at napa give in si girl. Life is short, kung ayaw sa'yo...just press the NEXT button

sa case ng ex ng friend mo, tama yung hinala mo..tinatry na baka pumatol pa rin friend mo

[sacred cow]

Hmmm would you still pursue a girl if you are aware of his guy type? especially in the physical
aspect? Like you know she likes tall, dark and handsome guys and you are not that type but you like
her so much. What would be your thoughts?

I'll still try, I judge a woman on her actions not her words. Dami rin namang nagsasabi na gusto nila nice guy pero tingnan mo mga nagiging lovers/bf nila. Besides, bakit kelangan ko i-qualify sarili ko sakanya, sure she might be pretty but I'll also think of the other things she has to offer and kung magugustuhan ko ba siya. Baka naman kapag lumabas kami wala palang sense kausap or hindi pala kami magkakasundo kasi boring siya kasama. Tsaka I believe that good looking is different from looking good, she might find her physical type good looking but I know how to look good

[sacred cow]

LOL I think I see what you did there, you're going to where women are going to look for men "places to meet men" para ikaw lang ang lalake, correct? Kase most men would look for "where to meet women" then all guys just meet each other there well played. haha

nope, I don't go out of my way to meet women...I go to places where I want to go or talagang pupuntahan ko and if it happens that I find someone I fancy, I'll strike a conversation.
except when clubbing, where I go there to unwind, have a few bottles of beer and have fun with women.

Sama na tayo girls hanap ng matinong lalake. haha. Actually, hanap na tayo ng pangit at magpractice tayo umibig ng tunay. Lesser chances pa mangchicks at lesser mang.aagaw rin lol
Lesser stress at kapag you're next to a pangit guy, you look so pretty and beautiful next to him bwahaha

I know you're being sarcastic but it's really sad that the thought of settling for a guy that is pangit just so he won't womanize would even cross your mind Maybe you'd want to consider looking at the guys na binasted mo na rin...I'm sure maraming pangit na good guys dun

[minatay91]

^ joke lang yun ha.

[sacred cow]

^ joke lang yun ha.

Hindiiiii!!! you'd really sell yourself short para lang hindi maloko....nyahahahha!!!

[young_maiden]

yung target mo ba isa dun sa mga boys na tropa mo?

if yes, wag muna siya magparamdam/sumama for some time dun sa guys preferably for 6 mos. or more, magmake over siya then re-initiate contact.
rationale behind kasi is that they're too used to seeing you as a "tropa" lalo na't lagi mo silang kasama. kapag hindi ka nila nakita after a certain amount of time
there is a possibility na ma-reset yung image nila sa'yo from one of the boys to a "chick" Maganda siguro kung maging mas feminine ka rin at change something about yourself (as long as pang self improvement) na talagang
mapupuna nila. This is not a sure ball method na magustuhan ka nila, but it would increase your odds of being noticed by other guys as well...malay mo may mameet kang
new guy at makalimutan mo na yung guy friend na gusto mong magustuhan ka.

thank you. hehe. may crush kasi ako sa isa sa mga friends kong guy eh. i know di naman siya interested sa akin kasi may gf siya pero sana maging aware naman siya na di ako
pang-tropa lang. thanks ulit

[minatay91]

@ cow:

ay baka correct ka, baka lokohin pa rin ako ng pangit. as stated by one of the sisses dito,
mambabae rin ang mga pangit. so baka ma.heartbreak ako and now that I think about it,
sobrang hiya naman sabihin, "huhuhu nagpa.loko ako, linoloko ako ng pangit huhuh" compared to
"huhuhuhu linoloko ako ng gwapo" .. and maybe maawa ako sa faces ng future kids ko.

@maiden

they've given good advice sis haha. that actually works rin, shallow as it seems,
disapear ka muna at
 magpa.pretty
ka and magpa.femine at pa.sexy. and yes, hindi sureball na they'll like you
in the way you wanted them to, but they'll see you in a different light talaga

[sacred cow]

@ cow:

ay baka correct ka, baka lokohin pa rin ako ng pangit. as stated by one of the sisses dito,
mambabae rin ang mga pangit. so baka ma.heartbreak ako and now that I think about it,
sobrang hiya naman sabihin, "huhuhu nagpa.loko ako, linoloko ako ng pangit huhuh" compared to
"huhuhuhu linoloko ako ng gwapo" .. and maybe maawa ako sa faces ng future kids ko.

oh! I was teasing you that you'd rather settle with someone na pangit kesa sa maloko. seems like it's not the case pala...mas pipiliin mo pa rin palang paloko na lang sa gwapo
I really find it funny that you girls are so praning na sa mga manloloko, it's like lahat na ng lalake pinagdududahan niyo...I guess you girls really need to expand your social circle
to meet guys na matino

[carmilina]

I've got a dilemma! Help! Well, not exactly... I have this new guy co worker na talagang crush ko, everyday talaga, palakas ng lakas yun attraction namin sa isa't isa... Gusto ko na mawala un eh, kasi ang "alam ko" he is married! Hindi ko ma resist un charm nya at ganun din sya sa akin. Yun tipong mag blu blush at tipong minsan ilang na din sya! Ugh!un mahawakan ko lang un kamay eh, Boom (Fireworks!) He is not that super greatlooking,mga tipong JM DeGuzman lang un peg! Ano ba? Help! Dapat ko ba sya iwasan?

[ladysapphire]

I guess you girls really need to expand your social circle to meet guys na matino

i guess this is what lacks me. need to expand my social circle.