Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[sacred cow]

Where do good men hang out?

tama si anon, "good" is subjective...better to tell us the type of guy you're looking for then we might
suggest some places to spot those type of guys. Hindi rin naman kasi pwede i-generalize na just because
a certain person frequents this place eh "good" or "bad" na siya, even scumbags go to church.

better to think of some qualities you like a sa guy, e.g. you want someone na may disiplina at pagpapahalaga sa katawan...
then punta ka malapit sa gym or mag-enroll ka na rin...confident guys would hit on you and ask you out if they're interested.
If you want naman someone who enjoys intellectual pursuits, then baka maka tiyempo ka sa bookstore for guys that love books and
also looking to find cute girls.

[ForeverDreamer]

Where do good men hang out?

pag alam mo na.kung saan sama moko!wahaha

[solepurplelife]

^Sama ko. Lol 

[sacred cow]

^ ako rin!!! boy hunting tayo

[anon]

^ yan napapala ng parating tambay dito sa GT, boys na rin ang type

[graezieylicious]

^you guys are incredibly funny 

[x-y]

^ hahahaha @sacredcow

I wanna know where good men hangout too. Lol.

Good = someone who will not play with your feelings. He can be a friend or a partner

[solepurplelife]

Anon, ayaw mo sumama? 

[graezieylicious]

GOOD= has standars, quality, knows how to respect, knows his limits, worth the wait and knows how to love. lol. Statue ata itong tinutukoy ko eh hahah

[anon]

@ sole -- bad boy ang type ko eh

[solepurplelife]

Just as I thought, bad girl si Anon. 

[anon]

^ nahawa lang ako kay cow 

[ann08]

Hmmm would you still pursue a girl if you are aware of his guy type? especially in the physical
aspect? Like you know she likes tall, dark and handsome guys and you are not that type but you like
her so much. What would be your thoughts?

[anon]

@ ann08 -- I would kung talagang type ko yung babae. ika nga, "those who dont try, fail 100%". as long as there's even barely 1% chance, go!

[x-y]

Not sure if these questions have been asked:

How will you know if a guy is sincere?
How will you know if he's just playing with you?
Any tips?

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The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman’s love with no intention of loving her. - comments?

[graezieylicious]

Not sure if these questions have been asked:

How will you know if a guy is sincere?
How will you know if he's just playing with you?
Any tips?

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The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman’s love with no intention of loving her. - comments?

You will know, trust your instincts and don't be too carried away by emotions. Test the waters. Observe his actions.

[anon]

@x-y:  IMHO, a guy is sincere if he demonstrates integrity. And integrity is simply consistency in thought, speech and action. How would you know if you're being played? When there's insincerity/inconsistency

[x-y]

You will know, trust your instincts and don't be too carried away by emotions. Test the waters. Observe his actions.

What if the guy is sincere but your instinct eh he's playing with you? May times kase na mali ang instinct ko. Haha!!

^ IMHO, a guy is sincere if he demonstrates integrity. And integrity is simply consistency in thought, speech and action. How would you know if you're being played? When there's insincerity/inconsistency

What if he's consistent naman pero when the relationship starts, he can't go on...? What if everything's out of sincerity naman but he was just afraid to start/continue? Does that mean he's just playing kase he's inconsistent?

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Another thing:
What do you guys prefer: courting before relationship or courting within the relationship

[IronLady]

Mga kuya, Pag mahal nyo ba mahal nyo? As in gAgawin nyo lahat para mapasainyo si girl? O kelangan muna makakuha kayo ng assurance na gusto kayo ni girl?  So kung hindi atras na din? Yung ex kasi ng friend ko finiflirt sya uli pero may gf na.. Tskk.. E ang mentality naming girls, either mahal ka lang o hindi.. Dapat di na nagaantay ng positive feedback from girl diba? O sadyang malandi lang ex nya kahit may gf na, ta-try pa din baka pumatol pa si friend ko?

[jtansanco]

^ Mas okay na may assurance or at least give hints na gusto ni girl si guy. Mahirap para sa amin na ibigay lahat tapos yun pala, di kami type ni girl.