Ex texted me after a month of no contact? please help

[luckyrenold]

it's been a month since i last talk this guy. last week i heard he was dating this girl na same circle of friends lang niya. but yesterday he texted me after a month of no communication. he was asking me for directions randomly. and i told him my answer. and then he said thanks. and then i asked kamusta na kayo ni *name ng girl* and then he said "wala. san mo naman nasagap yan." and then i didn't reply then after 10 min nagtxt sya ng "kamusta" tapos hindi ako nagreply.

then he tried to text me last night saying "your little cousin chatted me. he is crying now. nalaman nya na nagbreak tayo. try to comfort him." and then i replied ok.

then today he called me he said he was angry because their maid cleaned his room and took all of my gifts away.. he was cursing the whole time and was angry about losing my gifts. i told him that it was okay. and he so no its not and he feels frustrated. then kinamusta niya ako about my life. 22 min. kaming nag usap and then he said sorry for bugging me it's just that he doesn't know who to tell that to..


hindi ko alam kung kaya lang nya ako tinawagan about don kasi hindi niya pwedeng sabihin sa girl na frustrated syang nawala gifts ko kasi baka magselos at hindi din niya masabi sa friends niya kasi sympre same circle of friends, baka makarating don sa girl.

idk why he is doing this. i mean i don't know if i'm just overthinking or he just wants to be friends???

[cloudzy_09]

May hang ups pa din siguro siya especially kung malalim yung relationship ninyo and kung nag break up kayo bigla. Tumitingin din siguro siya ng signs sayo kung may chance pa maki pag balikan.

Hahaha ganyan din kasi ako dati pag nag break up kami ni hubby kaya ngayon mag asawa na kami at may 2 anak.

[luckyrenold]

hindi ko kasi maintindihan. bakit kelangan nya magparamdam? e 2 weeks na silang naglalandian nung bago niya. hindi pa naman official na sila pero it's getting there narin naman.

hinabol ko siya for a month tapos ayaw sya ng ayaw tapos one month kami ndi nagpansinan tapos eto sya. hindi ko alam kung oa lang ako or ano..

hindi ko sure kung oa ba ako o feeling niya friends na kami.

[quinone]

siguro ego-massage para sa kanya o testing the waters kung gusto mo pa siya.

kung ako sayo, di ko na kakausapin yan unless i am absolutely sure i am over him; otherwise, binibigyan mo siya ng opening para gumawa ng kalokohan o lokohin ka lalu na kung ang alam mo e may gf o ka-m.u. siya.

[aquacharly]

LUCKYRENOLD -- do NOT over-think these inconsequential communication.

IF there is more to be read into these, wait for The Unfolding, or susunod na kabanata.
Wait -- but do not hold your breathe waiting.

In the meantime,  disregard.

[*yvainne*]

kahit ano pa reason nya,the best thing to do is to IGNORE. kung sinasabi nya gano sya na-upset sa ginawa ng kasambahay nya, parang tinitgnan nya reaction mo kung gusto mo pa sya or baka tinatry nya kunin ulit attention mo at loob mo sa kanya(parang nambobola pa sya) wag ka maguluhan sa pagpaparamdam nya ulit kase may mga lalake na sanay gumawa ng ganyan. just like my ex. we broke up 2yrs ago pero  the next day after we broke up...until now Ayaw tumigil kahit na alam nya na wala na talaga chance kasi enough na sakin yun infidelity nya para hindi na sya balikan...pupuntahan ako sa bahay sa office. minsan nagugulat na lang ako bigla ko sya nakikita. binantaan pa ako. officemates ko kinakausap ng di ko alam. nagresign nako sa work ko. hindi na safe eh. pero bakit nasalubong ko pa kahapon..gggrrrr...naku todo tanggi talaga ko na sumama sya sa lakad ko.ngayon ko nakita kung ano kaya nya gawin at sabihin alang alang sa pambo bola. Be discernful sis.  lalo na mga style na deny to the highest level..kaya nila umiyak at sabihing mamatay man sila mapaniwala lang ang babae. eh kitangkita ebidensya. huling huli na. may present gf na, bistado na,deny pa.nagkaanak na nga sya sa girl. kala nya madidribble nya ko sa galing nyang basketBOLERO. tsk tsk..grabe hindi ako makapaniwala na may ganun kabagsik sa bolahan...nakow nakow...yngat tayo mga babae..PERO kung may gf sya, eh mukang iba intention nya sis...