main reasons why guys cheat?!! (guy pov PLEASE)

[gracita13]

walang kakuntentuhan
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Fall out of love &
dahil may mga babaeng nagpapaloko! diba nga sabe ni ted failon "walang manloloko,kung walang magpapaloko"! LOL! mga babaeng desperada na kahit alam naman nilang committed yung guy go lang.

[AnJelatine]

MASARAP ANG BAWAL, PERIOD.

[Girltalker2]

@Girltalker2: in my case, sa lahat naman ng naka-hook up ko na girl, wala naman kahit isa sa kanilang may intention na agawin ako from my girlfriend, alam din naman nila from the start na hindi ko iiwan girlfriend ko for them. also, hindi naman ako naghahanap ng new or another girlfriend.

bakit pumapatol ang mga pinay sa may gf or asawa? Culture? hmm maybe. A lot may react to this pero ang mga Pinay, aminin man or not, are malalandi and maeL. Wala akong maisip na ibang reason bakit may mga girls na nakikipag hook up sakin kahit alam na committed na ako and kahit committed din sila. Attention? Challenge? pwede pero why end up in bed kung ang habol mo lang is to boost your Ego. Pinays in general have high self-respect, kahit fubu or fwb na kayo hindi pa rin nila aaminin na they are doing it out of urge and excitement. masyadong mataas tingin nila sa sarili nila to admit na, like men eh maL din sila.

How can you have a high respect for yourself kung pumapatol ka sa asawa ng may asawa o di kaya alam mo wala naman kayong future tapos papatulan mo.  Anong napala mo?  Wala naman eh. Di ko maintindihan...

[Naughty^GuRu]

@Girltalker2: i just know. maybe because i've been there and experienced it first hand. people have reasons, pero kung ano man yun I'm sure it's something that makes them happy 

[may12]

Siguro iba-iba talaga reasons...
Kasi may friend din ako na girl, na nagtu-two time noon, pero hindi naman siya ma-L.
Natu-turn off pa nga siya sa mga guys na ma-L.

Pero yung isa ko namang friend, ayun, ma-L talaga. ^_^

[stunning_anne]

naughty _guru! ikaw na talaga.. it make sense ang mga sagot mo ha!

[princeza08]

why guys cheat:

kasi may mga guys talaga na natural na sa kanila magcheat kahit gaano katino ang girl. hindi ko naman nilalahat... well, digital naman ang karma ngayon :-)

[snowyice]

gusto lang ng ibang ulam

[creativehunk]

to simplify things and be straightforward, guys cheat because guys are more"mahilig" than girls. sometimes, nabo-bore din sa wife or gf nila kase yun at yun din ang nakikita at natitikman nila sa mga wife or gf nila. just telling the truth.

[may12]

Nasa girl/wife ang kahihinat-nan ng isang relasyon.

Are you saying na ang girl lang dapat na nagwo-work sa relationship?
Na kasalanan pa namin kung mag-cheat ang bf/husband?

Yung mother ko, siya yung tipo na parang walang pakialam. Yung tipo na hindi gumagawa ng bagong pakulo para lang ma-excite father ko. But my father NEVER cheated on her... at malapit na ang golden anniversary nila.

[purple.strawberry]

Nasa girl/wife ang kahihinat-nan ng isang relasyon.

Sa pagkakaalam ko kuya it takes two to make a relationship work.

Magchicheat na nga isisisi pa sa babae. Tsk, tsk.

[justin3]

DALAWANG reasons lang:

women ALLOW it

if caught, they can GET AWAY with it.

oh, yung mga nabiktima na dyan nang mahigit sa DALAWANG beses, TAMA ba o MALI ako?

ang pwede mag violently react lang sa post ko, yung those who have been cheated twice or more lang ha?
if once ka lang naloko, no need to react. good for you.
wag na mag react kung ang biktima ay yung kapitbahay ng katulong ng ninong ng pinsan ng titser mong pandak. 

[dropdeadgorgeous]

Nasa girl/wife ang kahihinat-nan ng isang relasyon.

^ hindi lang naman sa wife nagmumula yan. both must understand the word commitment. Learn how to respect your relationship with your partner.kung maglolokohan lang din, maghiwalay na lang.

[redhead69]

My Ex bf bakit siya nagcheat?
-Galit daw sa akin
-He's stupid DAW na im too perfect pero inask niya yung girl for dinner etc..
-Malaki boobs ng girl (mine is average size) i guess nasa ibang guys talaga maghangad ng mas lamang.
-Favorite mo ang *insert ur favorite ulam here* pero tnry mo kumain ng ibang putahe pampatangal umay.
-Na favorite mo ang prime ribs na nakakain mo sa isang fancy resto sa MOA pero you saw a cheaper version non sa kanto niyo at mas "ACCESSIBLE" sayo kaya itry mo na baka makasulit ka
 inshort parang yung ibang guys tntry ibang girls.

meron pa isa. Yung pag pumatol tong isang girl go.  pag hindi e di hindi. Play safe.

Based on what i exp at naobserve sa ibang magkarelasyon.

[heaven_charm]

Wag natin i-judge yung mga guys na nagshare ng response nila why men cheat. They are here to help us have an idea, not to be judged. Kakaloka mga girls dito.

If you think they're answers are invalid reasons why men cheat, well those are actually valid because they are giving their honest responses.

Sabi ng guy friends ko, they cheat most of the time kasi mas attractive yung other girl or for the thrill 

[mrgrey]

most men cheat because there are girls who are "free meals" and really have nothing to do with their gf's/wife

both men and women are attracted to someone/something they can't have so a guy who is in a relationship is more attractive to girls than single guys and vice versa.

most men dont want to leave their gf for the other girl, they just want to eat the "free meal"....it's an ego boost, something they can brag about to their friends

[Miss.Pancake]

When i asked my guy why he did it he told me he couldn't handle my dominance.

I just said:

ooookkkaaaayyyy....

[langley]

Why men cheat?
I don't know I'm not a man, I'm a woman.

Or I believe men cheat because they are men. Lalaki yan. Boys will be boys. They love sex.
At sa panahon kasi ngayon ang dami ng liberated na babae. Kahit di pa kasal nakikipag sex na kaya tuloy ayan ang mga lalaki libre na makipag sex sa kahit sinong babaeng papayag.

Just imagine kung ang lahat ng babae hindi makikipag sex hanggat hindi sila pakakasalan ng lalake eh di walang lalakeng mangangaliwa.

Ayan ang problema sa equality equality na yan ng mga feministang babae.
Gusto ng mga babae ngayon maging lalake na din. Most women today are trying hard to be a man.
Tapos magtatanong sila bakit nangangaliwa ang mga lalake?
Eh kasi sa panahon din ngayon konti na lang din ang mga babaeng matitino. Yun mga feminine woman konti na lang talaga.

[mooncake and leaves]

My point? you can't put all the blame sa guys kung bakit kami nagchecheat. at least half of the blame should go dun sa girl na pumapayag makipag hook up kahit alam nilang committed na yung guy. kung walang papayag na girl makipag hook up with a committed guy, then walang magchecheat.

BUT, guys na nagpepretend to be single para makipag hook up sa girls is a totally different story. eto yung mga lalake who are desperate. isama mo na din yung guys na nagbabayad for sex service.

i guarantee you that if that were the case, that girls will say no to you upon knowing you have a girlfriend, you will resort to lying about your status. just like the men you claim are desperate. thing is, you can't expect people to respect your relationship and your girlfriend if you don't. these girls have no obligation to your girlfriend but you do.  if you can't be faithful, you can at least be decent enough not to put her in harm's way and just break up with her.

[Girltalker2]

Or I believe men cheat because they are men. Lalaki yan. Boys will be boys. They love sex.

True.  But I still believe if boys are raised properly by their mothers, they can also be humans, not animals.

Just imagine kung ang lahat ng babae hindi makikipag sex hanggat hindi sila pakakasalan ng lalake eh di walang lalakeng mangangaliwa.

Hahaha, I think it is more likely that walang lalaki will remain single or maraming lalaki na magresort to bigamy or polygamy. 

Ayan ang problema sa equality equality na yan ng mga feministang babae.
Gusto ng mga babae ngayon maging lalake na din. Most women today are trying hard to be a man.
Tapos magtatanong sila bakit nangangaliwa ang mga lalake?
Eh kasi sa panahon din ngayon konti na lang din ang mga babaeng matitino. Yun mga feminine woman konti na lang talaga.

Are you saying na since konti lang lalaking matino, ang gawain ng mga babae is huwag narin magpakatino kasi they want to also be like a man? Talaga?   Or did I not understand your statement?