paano magpaligaw

[lorshie127]

hi girls. i'm a newbie here and this is my first time posting. i'm in my twenties, two past relationships pero 1 and 3 months lang nag-last so wag na iconsider. my last relationship was 10 yrs ago, LOL. my problem is hindi ko alam kung paano magpaligaw. my friends say para raw i have a big sign on my forehead na bawal ligawan. when guys start trying to get close to me or pag nagpapapansin/nagpaparamdam, i pull away, parang na-tuturn-off ako. and when they start getting cold, detached, and suplado, dun ko naman sila nagugustuhan. but by then takot na sila magtry uli na magparamdam. what is wrong with me?!

recently, there's this guy na i've been getting close with. alam ko dati pa nya ko crush. i don't know if i like him or if i'm just attracted to the idea of having someone to hold hands with, etc. kaya lang i feel like naninigurado muna siya na gusto ko siya. kasi may image ako na ayaw magpaligaw. are all men like him? i don't know. sobrang choosy ko, if i wait for the person who would really turn my world upside down, then i might be waiting forever. hindi kasi siya consistent, so i don't know if he's sincere. or maybe he's just like that kasi i once mentioned to him that i like guys who "reject" me, ayoko ng masyadong [textspeak!]. i'm really confused. baka lust lang, LOL.

any insight/s?

[pinksuman]

o baka takot din sya...testing the waters hehe.
just be yourself. kung close na kayo then that's good. nasa kanya naman if he wants to court you diba? kase kahit gaano kahirap yung girl...basta magustuhan ng guy...gagawa yan ng paraan. love nga eh
basta just go with the flow. masmaige na he knows you first before he courts you. para he knows what you and him are getting into

[zarazan]

Uy sobrang parehong pareho tayo sis. Yung pag may nagpaparamdam, iwas tas pag nawala puro "dapat pala, I should've tried".   Tas iisipin mo naman after "dapat nagtry pa siya more if gusto niya talaga ako". Tama ba?  HAHAHA!  In your case, totoo yung sinabi mong you're just in love with the idea of love.

For me sis, go with the flow lang pero don't force yourself to like the guy. Try mo lang kausapin, mafefeel mo naman if may spark eh. Eventually may dadating na guy na mafefeel mong tama tas mapapansin mo - pumpayag ka na pala. Tinetext mo na din consistently. Interesado ka sa kanya, gets? Iwait mo lang din yan.

[cecilydee]

ganito rin ako noon..sa tingin ko hindi ko alam pano magpaligaw. in fact nbsb hanggang 26 ako tapos akala ko ako ang may problema pero biglang dumating ang bf ko now and pinaramdam niya sakin kung pano maligawan kahit na normal parin ang ginagawa ko na "tingin ko hindi ko alam magpaligaw". i think lang ha, hindi pa dumarating yung right guy na magpapa feel sayo non...dahil sa panahon ngyon hindi na uso ang ligawan. minsan pa ang lalaki ang nag fefeeling at gusto maligawan (mga segurista lol)