Do you REALLY love being single?

[TomHansen]

Ngayon OO na, somehow nawala yung bigat sa shoulder ko to prove myself sa ex ko. When i was in a relationship parang palagi na lang may exam, either you're right or wrong and when you're wrong(for her) you have to make it right. Hindi ko na need iplease ang isang tao na hindi naman marunong makuntento, sarili ko na lang iniisip ko ngayon and now i feel better - wala nang stress..

[maydai]

yes. masaya ako sa pagiging single. family and friends lang inaatupag mo. magagawa mo lahat ng gusto mo. wala kang iniisip kundi sarili mo lang.

[shegothim]

madalas oo pero may mga times na hindi. nakakamiss din minsan may kasama ka, may kakwentuhan ka ng matagal. pero masaya rin dahil wala kang dapat pagpaalaman kung saan ka gagala at kung sino-sino kasama mo. walang masyadong conflict. tipid pa sa load.

[cupcakencheese]

Medyo dahil less worry, no body mind if u need to go for long business trip, pag late uuwi sa office no need to call. Minsan mas may freedom being single.
and sa dami ng unfaithful na lalaki best talaga be single nalang

[najine]

Yes and No.
yes kase ngayon nagagawa ko na gusto ko na wala akong iniisip na ibang tao. unlike before na dapat ko muna iconsider yung bf ko sa mga gagawin ko.
No kase minsan nakakamiss din my kasama ka sa mga pupuntahan mo, etc. or baka kase nakasanayan na lang and eventually makakasanayan na rin mag isa.

[eleynskii]

Dati hindi, as in minsan nalulungkot ako bakit walang nanliligaw sakin? Pero ngayon, parang mas masaya nako na single ako. Hindi ko na nga nakikita yung sarili ko na mag aasawa at pinaplano ko na yung buhay ko na mag-isa. Not because nawalan na ko ng pag-asa but because iniisip ko na hindi ko ata kaya ang responsibility ng pagpasok sa relationship, pagkakaroon ng asawa, and pagiging parent. Sabi ng tita ko sakin ngayon ko lang daw to nasasabi. Pero ewan ko rin. I will be 25 soon and hindi ko parin nafifeel ang pagiging ready. May mali ba sakin? Haha.

[bluestocking]

I don't love it and I don't hate it either. I just think I can endure life with or without a partner happily

[agape]

Not really. I want to love and be loved. I want someone to be there that I can depend on, who has my back, when everything else is falling apart.

[piatos]

kinda.  Sometimes I'm happy being single and there were times I'm sad and I feel sorry for myself.  When I'm lonely about being single, I always tell myself patience is the key, just wait and see.

[beeeeeeeereal]

First ever post here and of course, I just had to respond to this particular question. I am turning 28 this August and I have never been anyone's girlfriend. There are days when this fact about myself makes me somewhat proud, like, I have managed to be independent all these time even when all around me, EVERYWHERE, I am being reminded that this is not what society would consider normal. I like being different, I guess. (And I know I'm not the only one, right?)

But there are also days when I get eaten up by self-pity, and find myself sitting on my bed, wondering why I am so unlovable, if I'll be alone all my life, if my fate is to be the pathetic spinster. I alternatively go from berating myself for wallowing on the negative to putting on a brave face, and telling myself that love IS out there, and it will be worth the wait.

Ultimately though, when I reflect on it, in my case, I am happy to be single. I am happy that I get to enjoy the freedom, but I guess it's human nature to wonder how it would be like otherwise. The grass is greener on the other side and all that. When single people say that they are happy, it is possible that they are saying it because they truly feel it, or they want to remind themselves that they should be.

[winkypops]

happy naman ako though minsan nape pressure ako sa mga taong nakapaligid sa akin.
Hindi naman ako pangit pero hindi talaga ako ligawin.

I'm still praying na sana makilala ko na ang guy na nilaan ni God sa akin

[killbill]

No. Kasi 31 and single mon and nakaka pressure lalo pat mga kaibigan at mg pinsan ko na mas bata sakin eh either in a relationship or happy na sa buhay pamilya. Feeling ko napag iwanan nako.

Siguro ang masaya lang sakin bilang single ay pwede ako magpunta kahit saan and kahit umuwi ng late walang magagalit and walang nag cocontrol sakin sa gastos / luho ko.

[mysterioza_me]

Hindi, mas masarap pa din pala yung may nagmamahal sa akin maliban sa sarili ko

[killbill]

Super hate it right now

[shopaholic_in_rehab]

No. I miss being with someone. I miss taking care of someone. I miss travelling with someone special. Namimiss ko yung may chinecheck ka at chinecheck ka din. Namimiss ko yung maalaga at maasikasong ako.

[sexykhuletzky]

I'm happy being single pero mas mahappy syempre if I have someone with me.

I'm still single! Hahaha. Happy pa rin naman, walang iniintindi. Minsan naisip ko, pano kaya maging girlfriend ulit? Baka di ko na alam kung pano maghandle. Hahaha. Minsan lang, sad lalo na pag gusto ko umalis tapos walang mayaya. Pero wala eh, ganun talaga, You just have to find ways to enjoy being single, to be happy, to enjoy freedom while it lasts. Hehe.

[bittermelon]

[kutitapkiss]

i don't "love" it, love it. but i guess right now i'm ok with it. at this point in time i can say nahanap ko na yung inner happiness and self love that everyone needs to have as an individual. pero for me, having someone to love, and the feeling of being loved, still nothing can beat that. i'm just enjoying my time, whatever i have in my hands right now, maximising it to the fullest, keeping my doors open for possibilities. and most importantly, knowing what i really want and what i will and won't settle for. i think that's the most important

[yellowminion]

Minsan. Lalo na kapag bagong break up pa lang kasi yun yung pinakamahirap na part eh. Feeling ko minsan yung masasayang moments when Im in a relationship is not worth it compared to the pain of having your heart broken in the process

[jtansanco]

Sawang-sawa nako sa pagiging single! I want a girlfriend! Come on, destiny!