Do you REALLY love being single?

[fall2pieces]

I agree, I'm happy with being single but when people ask me why I haven't married I don't really get it why marrying sort of became a race. I know that I'm not getting any younger but why do I have to compete with others who have already settled down..it's not a race. It doesn't mean that they are better than me. It just happened that in this period of my life no one is available or maybe there is no opportunity to meet that person yet. I don't want to stress myself out and feel that I'm a lesser person because I am single.

[05149S2]

Happy with my situation naman. Never really had a boyfriend so everything in life, I do it alone. Natatakot nga ako kasi baka pag meron na, ugaling independent pa rin eh syempre kailangan mag-invest din ako ng sensitivity sa relationship

May down moments din, like I'm a romantic person on the inside kasi, and sometimes I wanted to do something special with someone but ta-dah, no one to do it with.

[macaroonz]

well, comparatively wise, it's a yes. or no. or yes. haha labo. i felt how to be loved and love, its indeed happiness to the highest level. especially when you see that he's really into you. however, for some reasons, sadly, you were not meant to be. but HEY! being single is freaking awesome. you can wear whatever you want as long as you're comfortable with it, you can eat with friends all night long without thinking that someone's might be worried on you aside from your parents. but of course, it also nice if you have someone na super worried on "what did you wear? where did you go? who's your company with, what time are you coming home?". but what i like after we broke up, I LEARN TO BE INDEPENDENT! It's part of learning. so whether we're single or in a relationship. Enjoy life.

[Miss.Pancake]

Ako 1 month palang akong single and honestly naeenjoy ko naman so far coz i get to do things according to my personal goal like makabukod on my own, building my own business etc etc.

Pero may mga times na nalulungkot ako lalo na pag naalala ko yun mga movie dates and dinner dates namin ng ex-boyfriend ko. And lalo na pag nakakakita ako ng couples. Oh my god parang gusto kong malusaw sa harap nila sa inggit. hehe.

[nixiquita]

i dont. or maybe its just right now, i cant find any reason to enjoy my being single :p

[Miss.Pancake]

i dont. or maybe its just right now, i cant find any reason to enjoy my being single :p

Nasanay ka lang na may partner sis. pero pag nagtagal tagal siguro maeenjoy mo rin? Pero dapat baliktad diba? Dapat sa umpisa mo maenjoy yun pagiging single then pagnagtagal magsasawa ka na maging single tsaka mo masasabing hindi kana enjoying. hehe

[ohcmon]

Most of the time, yes, but every now and then it comes to the point that I long for someone to hold me after a tiring day.

I've been single for four years now, so I'm used to being alone all the time. I date every so often but nothing really happens, hehe.

Like I said in the other threads, I've no qualms growing old alone and not marrying. Having my own family is not my ultimate goal in life.

[nixiquita]

^^yun nga eh. Dapat yata magpakasaya na ako but then, ayaw ko naman plastikin sarili ko, at ipilit. Hehe! Soon maybe, time will tell.

[juni]

^ Gather your support system (family, friends) around you and spend quality time with them.  Try talking to them about how you feel, yung wishes mo sa buhay, pag-usapan niyo yung lives nila, makipagkulitan ka, foodtrip, anything goes... eventually you'll feel better, maybe not immediately, maybe not today, but eventually gagaan din ang pakiramdam mo and mag-eenjoy ka din.  These are the people who have loved you before, during and after you were with that guy, kumbaga solid to, may masasandalan ka, walang iwanan

[prettyellowish]

ENJOY, not LOVE

[jm0514]

YES i enjoy being a single but not forever, actually 7years na akong single.. and i think do better when i'm single, maybe kasi may focus ako sa isang bagay..  anyway i'm not getting any younger so let's find love.. haha iba pa din pag may kasama..

[t_r_i_s_h]

Last week and this week parang di ako natutuwa na single ako hahaha para kasing masyadong pinapamuka sakin ng reality na nag move on na ex ko, which nung una kong nalaman okay lang pero yun nga lately parang di okay ang daya hahaha i hate it that he comments on my posts all the time sabi ng mga friends ko papansin daw sabi ng iba baka nga naka move on na pero hello never sya naging ganon even nung kami. yesterday was his dad's birthday and yearly maay celebration kasi today naman is my dad's bday so i cooked pasta and baked a cake for his dad ewan ko kung bakit ako nag effort, maybe kasi alam ko di naglulito gf nya hahahah im so bad!

[nixiquita]

May pros and cons talaga pagiging single. So if ever man na magiisip ako ng ideal relationship, gusto ko nung balanced talaga. Where i can have my me time na parang single, and at the same time yung perks na may partner ka in life din

[Miss.Pancake]

Ako honestly di ako masaya maging single. Hindi dahil hindi ko kayang mabuhay ng walang lalaki like what other people are telling me. It's just my CHOICE to have someone to exclusively share my life with.

[molybdenumstudios]

Sawa na ako maging single. Pero ayos lang dahil more freedom and me-time.

[purplegravity]

No.  All of us want to have someone, we are afraid to grow old alone. Mas masarap pa din yung may kaholding hands ka, yumayakap sayo pag may problema or malungkot ka.  Yung may kasabay ka kumakain or nanonood ng tv.

To love and be loved is still one of the best feelings in the world.

Kaya nga kahit paulit ulit tayo nasaktan, most of the time we still choose to love again.

[lovely_carrot]

right now, I enjoy being single, its the longest I've been in since 10 years ago..

I'll ask myself again after a year, kung single pa din ako by that time, I might start looking for reasons why. 

[tisaygirl123]

Single ako Ok naman, walang nag babawal sakin.
as in WALA. date all you can, Gala all you can. lahat na yata.
Kaso pag minsan wala akong makasama pag all my friends are busy.
Kakaloka kaya pag ganon, pero pag may BF naman kasi gwadiyado.

Seriously miss ko na yung feeling ng nagpapahatid at nagsusundo 

[sacred cow]

taxi driver hanapin mo tisaygirl, may bf ka na mat driver ka pa..tagahatid at tagasundo pala namimiss mo e

[erosiastic]

I enjoy being single. Pero nakakamiss din minsan to be with someone.