Girls, what do you when you want a guy to approach/talk to you?

[sacred cow]

^ oh c'mon, you mean buong buhay mo wala kang consciously ginawa para lapitan ka ng lalake? even just stand close to him?

[witch_goddess]

more often than not, if stranger ang like ko, the stare-look away moves lang ang ginagawa ko.  pero if kakilala ko, i usually made extra effort like kausapin talaga siya lol like getting to know one another kasi dito ko rin matitest if may pag-asa ako! hahaha

[inluvewithmikewesten]

^ oh c'mon, you mean buong buhay mo wala kang consciously ginawa para lapitan ka ng lalake? even just stand close to him?

Nope. All because of my fear of rejection.

[sacred cow]

Nope. All because of my fear of rejection.

There is a huge amount of freedom that comes to you when you take nothing personally.
— Don Miguel Ruiz

[rachi_01]

haha ang hirap naman ng question nato... well, im not really making the first move cause it's a little awkward for girls. but making pacute, hmmm perhaps once i see him staring at me i'll stare back or smile and let's see if he'll start a conversation.

[.OgRaM.]

ahhh! just did this yesterday! he's a stranger to me pero to my friends, hindi. he's soooo gwapo!!! kaya hindi ko naresist magpacute. hehe! nung lumapit siya to talk to one of my friends, e nakain ako, so ayun, basta ko na lang siya inalok kumain then smile ng bongga. mejo nacaught off guard ata siya pero okay naman yung response. nagsmile back siya pero he said "a sige thank you". awkward! hahaha!

[sacred cow]

^ props to you girl!

[gylbie]

hmmmm.. usually smile at say hi/hello and SUPER wishing/praying na sana simulang nya ang conversation! hahahaha.. 

[minatay91]

I'm always in his area and making sure I'm within view but I'm not making pansin to him. XD
but that's just me, and it's overly discreet lang.

But ito sure ko they want you to approach them (obvious ito):
1.) ask a random question
2.) consistently looking and smiling at you
3.) they're so noisy when you're around, laughing, smiling, pacute voice
but not necessarily "TO YOU" though
 eg nagpapansin
^^^^^^^^^ I dont do any of the above though, it's too obvious and i feel cheapipay
when I do it.

[hisana]

^
Can't remember a time when I tried to "send signals" to a guy, either. I guess if I wanted to talk to him, I'd ask him a question or something (like what you said  ).

[minatay91]

or how about you approach and talk to her nalang until you feel nga she doesn't really want
to talk to you?

I.M.O, the more gwapo a guy is, the more mahiyain ako mag.approach and I'm pretty sure
nagsawa na siya ng mga babae throwing themselves at him.

the only time I actually approach and talk first is IF I NEED SOMETHING legit/if I have no choice

Other than that, pa-cute lang siguro haha

But im sure daming malandi, I mean
liberated girls nowadays pwede ra siguro 0 effort ang guys unless sobrang
kadirs siguro ang lalake

[sacred cow]

or how about you approach and talk to her nalang until you feel nga she doesn't really want
to talk to you?

ginagawa ko na 'to, kaya ko 'to tinanong kasi gusto ko malaman yung mga subtle or covert methods ng babae para magpapansin sa guy

[minatay91]

^ magpagwapo ka nalang bro haha

Or befriend her friends, or befriend someone na 10/10 or mas maganda than the girl.

If you befriend all her friends, eventually you'll get to her.
And the guys with 10/10 girls will always get the curiosity of most girls haha

I don't know if this is considered subtle,
but there was this really gwapo cocky guy who wanted to get my attention.

What he did is started the chismis na he likes me and spread it in my department haha
and eventually my friends told me about him this doesn't usually work on me, pero
it works if gwapo si guy another guy tried this on me, I avoided him like the plague haha sorry

#traydorlang

[sacred cow]

^ I don't think naiintindihan mo yung sinasabi ko, so tatagalugin ko na lang...wala akong problema lumapit sa babaeng gusto ko
kaso paminsan may mga oras na nasasabihan akong "uy gusto ka nung babae kanina, ba't di mo nilapitan" e kasi hindi ko naramdaman
na nagpapahiwatig pala siya ng interes.

ang tinatanong ko, ano ang mga pasimpleng aksyon na ginagawa ng babae bukod doon sa mga halatang senyales tulad ng pagngiti sa'yo, paghawi ng buhok at pagtitig sa mata para mapansin ng lalakeng gusto niya na lumapit at kausapin siya. intiendes?

[tamera_lorraine]

- ask questions or help parang ganon?
- naka-smile whenever nagkikita kayo

tama si  chinablue

- to wear a nice perfume hehe ginagawa ko rin to hahaha! 
- kinakamusta ka

hassle naman kase if masyado kang obyus

[Myealexis21]

^^pansin ko lang ito sa ibang girls.  When they are around a guy that they like, they tend to be more maingay or malakas ang boses, or they change the way they talk parang "pa-cute" or mas matinis na tono ng boses (i hope you get what i mean)

[sacred cow]

^ that's what I'm talking about, thanks!

[Myealexis21]

^np bro, yamo mag oobserve pa ako para may macontribute ako sa topic na ito

[sacred cow]

preferably ang hinahanap ko yung sa mga situations na hindi talaga magkakilala yung guy and girl
as in yung tipong nasa public place sila like coffee shop, mall, bookstore. hindi yung same building ng office, officemates or
classmates. I'm looking more for non-verbal cues na open yung babae na lapitan siya ni guy na type niya

[minatay91]

sacred cow:


sorry mas nahihirapan ako sa tagalog and I misunderstood it, kala ko subtle methods both ways, aside na subtle moves from the girl, subtle moves FOR the girl rin naisip ko sensya na.

an hirap naman if public place. Usually ma.feel mo yun in the way they look at you.

If it's not too OT, why are you picking up girls in public places like the coffee shop? I know a lot of guys and gays who standby there for hookups