question for guys.
kailangan ba magpa cute ang girl para lapitan niyo? paano kung cute ang girl pero wala siyang idea paano magpa cute hehe!
who would you approach a girl na nagpapa cute pero average looking lang pero alam niyong madali niyo siya makikilala kasi accommodating siya or a girl na maganda as in type na type niyo talaga pero oblivious siya of your existence. yung tipong she is just there doing her own thing.
hindi naman kelangan magpacute para lapitan ko, ako basta type ko tapos hindi ako naunahan ng kaba, inaapproach ko naman kaagad
I would more likely approach the latter, pero kung may nakita akong interesting sa former at mukhang mabait naman...and she's sending obvious indicators of interest, why not?
actually sinabi ko lang na "magpacute" kasi yun na yung pinakamalapit na colloquial term for "approach invitation" meaning, the girl is doing something or
helping you make it easier for you to come to talk to her, since obviously girls sometimes also do the first move pero medyo subtle and sometimes sobrang subtle
that guys fail to see the opportunity
some examples I found in a site:
a) planting herself within proximity - A girl goes to where you are - seated at the bar, leaning against a wall, in a specific aisle in the bookstore or clothing store, waiting for the bus - and plants herself right nearby you, always within peripheral vision eyeshot.
b) she hovers - when a woman walks over to where you are... then just hovers there, staring in your direction.
c) linger - A girl will walk over to where you are... pause, for anywhere from half a second to three seconds... and then continue walking on, as if nothing had happened.
d) the look about - Similar to a Linger, but with a duration more akin to a Hover, the Look About is when a girl walks over to right near where you are, then... glances about, confusedly, as if wondering where that thing she was looking for could possibly have gone.
A girl will invariably react "pleasantly surprised" on your approach, and if she's interested, will show that interest right away.
e) Mutters and Sighs. Ever have a girl walk up next to you and mutter to herself, "God, this train is taking forever!" or, "Oh my God... what a day!" Or maybe she just sighs - hufffff. Usually feel like you're supposed to say something here, right? That's for good reason - people usually only do this when they want someone to engage them in conversation.
f) Requests for Help. Girls who want to talk to you will often ask for help:
"Can you take our picture?"
"Do you know what time it is?"
"Do you know where a good bar is around here?"
"Can I have a light?"
g) The Glance - Any of the above, followed by a glance at you, then looking away and smiling to herself, is a blaringly loud approach invitation. About as loud as it gets. Approach immediately... don't even bother trying to look smooth; it's not necessary. She didn't bother either.
of course hindi naman lagi na porket may girl na gumawa sa'yo nito interested na siya, but there's a probability that she is, kasi hindi naman
basta basta lalapit ang girl nang wala lang...kaya us guys also need to be sensitive by not being oblivious to girls who like us din and who are taking a risk
to help us meet her hindi lang puro yung mga type namin na oblivious din to our existence.
