Why do men always looks to sexy women? Aren't they contented with their partner?

[lady_avoidant]

ganito bf ko.. tumitingin talaga e ..okey lang sa akin na tumingin siya sa dumaan  lang na pretty girls pero yung titigan pa talaga ang girl na kilala namin pareho, co-employee lang namin.. syempre, i feel insecured tuloy.. di ko alam kung anong appropriate reaction ko para sa bf ko e. gusto kong mabilib siya sa akin sa erereact ko  .di yung ma te turn off kasi baka isipin niya na ang freak ko lang no..hoho

[simang]

I like the Ferrari analogy. And thumbs up to what babyboo said, for all you know marami ring tumitingin sayo so you don't have to be insecure. I guess the security of a woman nasa pagdadala talaga yan, wala sa physical appearance. Kaya minsan napapatanong ang mga girls na bakit nya tinitingnan yung girl eh (in your eyes) hindi naman maganda. Nasa aura kase yan. Maraming hindi kagandahan pero ang lakas ng dating and charm, kase it comes from within.

As I said sa kabilang thread, Yes, he appreciates her beauty, pero sino bang kinikiss nya? Ako. Who does he pleasure in bed? Ako. Sino bang pinagluluto nya? Ako. So kahit gaano man kalaki lamang nya saken sa ganda, overall lamang ako sa kanya coz this awesome guy is with me, and he loves me.

[gumpaste]

They all said it but but I do have a suggestion. How about you check out beautiful women with your guy? AND check out beautiful men together too

[AprilYokle]

I think there's nothing wrong with that. Guys are visually stimulated and they tend to notice things like that. It doesn't mean they are loyal. I for one still notice other guys even if I'm married. I think that what counts is that he loves you and is loyal to you in ways that count.

[p0isonIvy]

this used to bother me a little. pero as our relationship progressed, natanggap ko na din. because he still makes me feel secure. in fact, ngayon, ako pa minsan nagtuturo sa kanya ng mga magagandang girls. lalo na pag big boobs.hehe...para na lang kaming magbarkada. haha

[Xoxolol]

Pag tumitingin siya, sinusundan ko ng tingin. Pag alam kong hipon naman si girl mapapangiti na lang ako. Ewan ko, imbis mainis ako, I just laugh it off.

I also check out sexy and pretty girls. Minsan nga nga pa ko kasi ang ganda talaga. hahaha.

[simang]

 Looking at other people and being physically attracted to them doesn't mean they are not contented with you. Guys will always be attracted to girls whether or not they're single or not. Same din with girls na nagkakacrush even if they have a partner already. Natural naman yun. Hindi ba mas masarap ang feeling when your partner finds other people attractive, yet still chooses you over them?

[sugardrop]

Don't women also look at hot and gorgeous and doubtlessly attractive men?

[doom]

normal lang yun...parang kayong mga babae, di ba pag nakakakita kayo ng cute or pogi, simple rin kayo tumngin or minsan masyado rin halata...pero yung hangang tingin lang....

[twix01]

before tanong ko din ito then eventually ako pa mismo nagtuturo sakanya ng mga chix haha! sinasabi ko pa nga "sexy oh look" haha sabay suntok sa bf

[iwannabeasupermodel]

It means you need to prettify na! Haha!

[dismembered]

Kahit ano pa ang gawin ng girls, there will always be someone prettier and younger. Walang magagawa if mapatingin man sa kanila yung guys. Minsan ganun talaga eh. Parang pag napatingin sa mga models sa TV o cover photo ng mga magazine. Ano ang pwede gawin? Make yourselves more than just a pretty face. Matatalo at matatalo ka pa din kahit anong prettify ang gawin. Hanap ka na lang ng ibang trait na magiging reason kung bakit di ka maipagpapalit.

[Oxytocin]

konting kwento lang. nasa isang tour kami ng gf ko tapos may napansin akong girl na kasama sa tour, di ko talaga kaya na hindi sya tignan. halos ilabas na nya boobs nya sa suot nya.

so ginawa ko simpleng lumipat ako ng upuan para simpleng ma sulyapan ko yung chick.

sunod na nangyari.

GF - "eh kung tusukin ko mga mata mo! loko ka lumipat ka pa talaga ng upuan a!"

epic fail! haha! 

[lady_avoidant]

@oxytocin sobrang cool ng pagkasabi ng gf mo ah.. ano naging reaksyon mo?

[iwannabeasupermodel]

For me pointless na maging bitter ka. You are who you are. Just accept na the girl really is prettier or sexier than you. And the eyes attract pretty things.

[razor021]

Looking at other people and being physically attracted to them doesn't mean they are not contented with you. Guys will always be attracted to girls whether or not they're single or not. Same din with girls na nagkakacrush even if they have a partner already. Natural naman yun. Hindi ba mas masarap ang feeling when your partner finds other people attractive, yet still chooses you over them?

normal lang yun...parang kayong mga babae, di ba pag nakakakita kayo ng cute or pogi, simple rin kayo tumngin or minsan masyado rin halata...pero yung hangang tingin lang....

agree ako sa inyong dalawa..

[may12]

May ex ako na grabe inaaway ko talaga dati lagi kasi nahuhuli ko tumitingin sa girls kahit nasa likod na namin, susundan pa ng tingin. 

Hindi kasi ako yung tipo ng girl na pag may nakikitang guwapo eh napapatitig o sunod ng tingin. Kaya badtrip talaga ako pag yung guy ko eh napapatitig sa iba. 

[Moran]

The idea that men look at sexy/hot women because they are not contented with their partner is just plain stupid.
Naka-code na yan sa mga tao, inuulit ko, mga tao, not only men. Gusto natin na tumitingin sa mga bagay na maganda para sa atin.
Parang pantalon/blouse lang yan e. Marami ka pero pag may nakita kang maganda sa mall, uusisain mo. To the point na bibilhin mo pa nga e. Sa kabilang banda, kung medyo off, e kiber ka lang.

To answer the OP's question.
Guys will always look at hot women, that will not change. Ever.
Hindi ibig sabihin na hindi sila kuntento sa kung anong meron sila.
Gosh, kung feeling ng isang babae na di kuntento ang BF nya sa kanya dahil lang sa mahilig siya tumingin sa balakang, boobs, or pwet. I automatically assume that the girl is not ready to be in a relationship.
That is an early sign of immaturity. And believe me, guys does not want immaturity.

[happie]

I don't mind naman kasi I would do the same when I see a cute guy or sexy woman.  That's just normal, I think hindi naman ako talo and it's normal lang naman to look.

[ri-anne]

being in a relationship doesn't make a person blind